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Not everyone has millions like you (she wrote) All you do is talk about money…what about all people who can’t afford to pay you? Do you ever care about them?!! (this part she wrote was in ALL CAPS) When you continue to grow in your business, and your public presence has expanded to millions of people worldwide like my podcast and brand have, you are going to trigger people.  It’s impossible to help millions of people without upsetting 1-2% of them.  If you haven’t experienced that yet in your business or personal brand, you will, or you are playing it so safe to avoid this kind of judgment and nasty human behavior (which is also why your business isn’t growing faster).  My long-time Coordinator Nancy is in charge of my emails, 99% of the ones we get are beautiful, abundant, loving, and filled with heart-breaking incredible stories of survival. Than 1% of the emails and DM’s are filled with people’s self-hate, self-judgment, and anger about their own lives projected onto me and sometimes my team. I read them a

“I know I know I know,” she said (for months) It’s unbelievable how almost all of us KNOW what we need to start doing, stop doing, change, quit, and leave, BUT we find ourselves NOT doing that damn thing for days, then weeks, then months, and even years.  This is why I regularly remind you that knowing the answer or knowing the action to take ISN’T ENOUGH.  I knew I needed to go all in on my side hustle in order to exit my corporate career in an abundant state, yet a full year went by without me starting. The same thing happened with my strong desire to start ProjectME with Tiffany Carter the podcast and business coaching brand…. I knew I needed to just go for it, yet I remained stuck for a solid TEN YEARS!! Having a desire and then taking half-measures to achieve it is sending a clear single to God and the Universe that A) you don’t want it that badly and B) you’re happy with your current circumstances. So why would anything change? There’s a common expression that I don’t agree with, “if you know better you

I was terrified either way. Terrified if I stayed I would slowly continue to lose myself. Terrified if I left, I could fail and have to start all over again.  So when the cost was greater for me to stay in my corporate career versus leaving to build something that was mine, I started.  It’s time to have a “come to Jesus” talk with yourself: What is it costing me mentally, financially, and emotionally to stay exactly where I’m at right now? If you don’t like that answer, then why would you continue resisting going after the lifestyle you truly want? My story isn’t one where I dramatically quit one day and then took a trip to Tulum, and got injected with magical frog serum. I had a mortgage and bills to pay…so I side-hustled my way to freedom.  You don’t have to just quit, you can start your business while collecting a paycheck, and then there’s is no risk. Yes, it will be an extra time investment up front, but the rewards will come back to you for the rest of your life! I still showed up for my employer with i

Avoiding the “hard” is sabotaging your success.  Over the last 15 years, I’ve coached, mentored, and consulted with thousands of people. One thing that is true about every one of those people is they all have blind spots, and they all carry a self-sabotaging behavior.  There are two types of people:  Person A: You may not think you have one.  Person B: You may know for sure that you do, but aren’t sure how to stop it.  Most of my clients identify as high performers and extremely self-aware. Yet they are stumped as to why their business isn’t growing faster, or why everything feels so hard for them and looks easy for everyone else.  A great place to start is to look at what you’re avoiding in your life.  What do you tend to put off?  What do you say you know you need to do and then you don’t?  When we avoid, it is our attempt to delay some kind of perceived pain, discomfort, or life disruption. If you knew for certain it would work out for your greatest good, then why haven’t you gone ALL IN with it yet?  Le

Imagine dedicating 30 years of your life to something, only to have it all ripped away in a single email.  You poured your heart, energy, and life force into a company, you over delivered and did exceptional work consistently, and they called you “family,” …then one day they discarded you like stale bread.  Left abandoned, hurt, angry, and in an identity crisis you have two choices: Let the pain destroy your life and those around you.  Process the pain, say “F THAT,” and come back ever stronger.  All of us have been side-whacked at some point in our lives…maybe through a sudden breakup, getting scammed, a family tragedy, a health diagnosis, or getting fired.  My client and 10-Emmy Award-winning TV Personality Stuart Watson shares his story to give you undeniable evidence that everything is always working out in your favor, especially the painful crap. Connect with Stuart Watson: Voice Locket website: voicelocket.com Instagram: @StuartinCharlotte LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/stuartwatson/ FALL APPLICATIONS AR

I had to let him go to save myself.  Someone I loved very much broke my heart again and again and again, yet I kept trying to make it work, and get him to see the light.  I was so focused on trying to get him to change, that I slowly lost myself.  When you pour your heart into people who don’t appreciate it, you end up abandoning yourself. Typically without fully realizing it, until you’re left so broken you hardly recognize yourself.  I knew I was going down with his sinking ship, and I had to gather the strength to rescue myself.  And I did.  Guaranteed this story is familiar to you, and if you’re an over-giving people pleaser like me, it’s happened more than once.  We see the potential in others.  We see the good.  We deeply empathize with their pain.  We get fixated on “if they only would ______”  Once I left, I poured all of that energy I was wasting, into myself. Although it felt unfamiliar and selfish at times, it was when the deeper healing happened.  Listen to this episode and set yourself free. FA

I was stumped as to how THEY did it. Every time I came into contact with someone virtually or in person who had the lifestyle, the freedom, the abundance I desired…I would get memorized and inspired, then it would quickly shift into, “but how did they get there?”  Some of these people were motivational speakers, and they would say vague statements like, “I took a risk,” or “I decided to prioritize my dream.” I felt like they made it sound so simple, which confused me further, as it all seemed so big and so involved to get from where I was at (making 17k a year) to where I wanted to be (multi-millionaire freedom status).   I know you have the same questions and the same frustrations.  Now that I am one of those people who I admired even 10 years ago, whose life I coveted, who I saw as PROOF of what was possible for me…..I feel it is my duty and responsibility to tell you, show you, and guide you to creating your desired abundant life.  Maybe for you, it’s not being a multi-millionaire, maybe it’s making enough

Industry secret that will blow your mind! Do you know those people you follow who say they’ve been featured in “Forbes” or “Top 20 Coaches of 2022” articles in magazines? You probably think, “how did they do that?” 99% OF THOSE ARE PAID FOR. Most of these people have paid even 15K to get a mention or an “advertorial” article (as we call them in the PR world”). They look like articles, but you have to pay to get into them. This IS NOT true press. This is ADVERTISING.  What my friend and award-winning magazine cover photographer, James Patrick and I are teaching you today on this episode, is how to get genuine FREE PRESS for your business.  There is nothing wrong with advertising, but to make it appear as though its true press is misleading, and it will turn off potential clients and business opportunities.  Most small business owners, fitness professionals, coaches, and service-based entrepreneurs assume they are “too small” or “don’t have enough credentials” to get on the cover of a magazine, or great podcast

Determine if your business is ready for membership. You may love the idea of reoccurring monthly revenue but aren’t sure if you have a large enough audience to fill a membership.  In order to have a successful membership, you don’t need hundreds or thousands of members. Some of the best clubs and support groups I’ve been a member of had less than 20 people in them.  Now, of course, if you’re going to start by creating an intimate membership, your price point should be higher for this exclusivity, and for you to feel good about the time and energy being put into your members.  10 members X $100/month = $1000/month 10 members X $25/month = $250/month While you may get more people willing to quickly join at $25/month versus $100, you will need far more people to reach a monthly revenue that feels good for your efforts.  Something else you need to consider is the amount of focused content/topics you will need to create for your membership. You want to make sure you pick something that you’re extra passionate abou

Help raise money for the non-profit, Children of the Night, with this 2-part exclusive interview: Children of the Night rescues children and women from sex trafficking, and get them the medical and mental treatment they need after years of extreme abuse and trauma. For every written Apple and Spotify podcast review of this series, I will be donating $25 per review to Children of Night. All you have to do is write the review, and we will be counting them up throughout the week, and sharing the fundraising on my Instagram Stories @projectme_with_tiffany Share this episode, and encourage others to leave a written review to support Children of the Night. RESOURCES: @childrenofthenightinc Hotline: 800-551-1300 24/7 RAINN 24/7 National sexual assault confidential hotline 800-656-HOPE You don’t have to say sorry.  Her tray table in an already noisy aircraft accidentally slammed down, and she promptly apologized to me, the other first-class passengers, and probably the tray table.  I get it, without judgment…” I’

Children of the Night rescues children and women from sex trafficking, and get them the medical and mental treatment they need after years of extreme abuse and trauma. Help raise money for the non-profit, Children of the Night, with this 2-part exclusive interview: For every written Apple and Spotify podcast review of this series, I will be donating $25 per review to Children of Night. All you have to do is write the review, and we will be counting them up throughout the week, and sharing the fundraising on my Instagram Stories @projectme_with_tiffany Share this episode, and encourage others to leave a written review to support Children of the Night. RESOURCES: @childrenofthenightinc Hotline: 800-551-1300 24/7 RAINN 24/7 National sexual assault confidential hotline 800-656-HOPE I blamed myself, as most victims do. Toxic, sick, and abusive people count on us to blame and shame ourselves, as this allows them to gain even more control over us.  In both coaching and mentoring thousands of survivors…the common

No one makes major changes when they are comfortable; it’s pain that motivates us to change.  If you’re in pain right now, it’s there to wake you up and fire you up to take necessary action that you’ve put off for way too long.  Our physical bodies use pain as an alarm system, to alert us that there’s a problem we need to address like NOW.  Like the time I ruptured a disc in my spine kickboxing because I couldn’t ever be bothered to warm up or stretch…without that excruciating pain, I would have kept going and been paralyzed.  For our emotional state, the pain may not be so startling…it can show up as resentment, depression, feeling unmotivated, exhausted, anxious, or overwhelmed. Interesting how we have a greater tolerance for emotional pain than physical pain isn’t it?  Bottom line, if you are feeling restless, irritable, or discontent, your nervous system is trying to send you a PAIN WARNING.  It will only get louder and deeper until you address it.    By avoiding your pain emotionally or physically, you a

It fu€king HURTS! It’s painful when people you thought were in your corner don’t support your dreams. It’s painful when you’re told as a kid you aren’t good enough in some type of way.  It’s painful when no one seems to understand, why you don’t want to follow the status quo and want more for your life.  If you’re familiar with me at all through here or my podcast, it may be surprising for you to know that I’ve lived most of my life with ZERO self-worth. I even thought God forgot about me.  These toxic people tear our belief in ourselves to pieces; when we don’t put the pieces back together again, THEY WIN. You may be doubting your ability to do what you want to do, or to have what you desire instead of settling for less >>> that’s normal if you’ve had other people tear you down in life.  Now it’s up to you to build yourself back up. To rise. To flourish. To overcome.  Let me tell you, there is nothing more powerful than someone who has risen from the rubble.  You don’t have to rebuild alone. In fact, I don’t

Her words almost stopped me… This now Insta-famous chick replied with a condescending laugh when I told her that I was launching a podcast.  “Oh you know those don’t make any money and they aren’t worth all the effort.”  This was 4 years ago, and just recently she launched her own podcast. Hmmmm Mmmmm…I know. I almost allowed her words to get into my head…the negative committee in my brain started going,” well maybe she’s right and it’s silly to think this will work…who in the hell are you anyway to do this “  Obviously, I didn’t allow the committee (or her opinion) to control me…instead, I chose to let it fuel me.  Thank God because within just months I had my first 5-figure podcast sponsor, and I was getting paid to do what I love…TEACH and TALK!! If I had leaned into the negative, it would have cost me millions of dollars, and I wouldn’t have impacted millions of listeners. You must assess the Cost Factor of your doubt-filled thoughts. The Cost Factor of you putting this off one more month, one more year. 

I only pay for the best…   because I want the best outcome.  You can’t buy a knock-off Chanel bag and expect it to look, feel, and vibe like the real thing.  Just like my Success Coach & friend Cara @thechampagnediet says in this quote, “Choose yourself and watch the world start choosing you too.”  The same holds true for your life and money desires…. Half measures don’t make millions.  Half measures don’t get big action results.  Half measures don’t nurture a relationship.  Half measures never hit the mark.  What would your daily actions look like, if you decided you are only available for full-measured results?  Listen to this conversation between me and Cara Alwill, 9x Best Selling Author and Host of the Style Your Mind podcast… you will walk away only accepting the best for yourself and getting it.  Connect with Cara: Instagram: @thechampagnediet Best Selling Books: thechampagnediet.com  ICONIC waitlist link: thechampagnediet.com/iconic FINAL CHANCE TO APPLY for my exclusive ProjectME 6-Month Mast

This has to be said… Holding yourself back from writing that post, making that video, publishing that book, starting that business, doing your thang, because you’re worried about what “THEY” will think, is ruining your life.  Yes, people will say stuff, they will talk shiz behind your back, and maybe think you’re crazy…it will sting, but that initial pain will quickly be replaced with a feeling of pride and self-respect for following through and doing it anyway.  When we hold back, it ignites shame and self-doubt, which only keeps us stuck.  Do you really want to give that much power to other people to control your dreams? We only have a few months left in the year…say F IT and take an action on something you’ve been sitting on and obsessing over. Just think of how good it will feel to be in action instead of stagnant.  Imagine what you could do with all of the time and energy you’ve been spending desiring instead of doing.  It’s DO season baby. A BIG FAT ZFG to anyone who isn’t totally supporting your best l

No longer impressed with this… It blows my mind to think that I used to wear my level of extreme busyness and hustle-induced exhaustion like a badge of honor.  When I would see other people grinding away, I would be impressed and sometimes envious if I felt they had the ability to work harder, longer, and more often than me.  This applied to every area of my life: at the gym I would do all the classes at max effort, in my personal life I was doing the responsibilities for 7 people, and in my business life, if I wasn’t working I felt like I could lose everything in an instant.  While most people who wear this Busyness Badge get a high off it and a sense of control….it all turns to sh!t because you end up feeling resentful, exhausted, depleted, and angry when you don’t achieve your desired result.  This is how I built my first business….on pure grind, self-will, and hustle…. This is also how I ended up almost dead by grinding my body and brain into the ground.  Hustling is a scam. It is NOT required for success

Remember this > if nothing else… Because it will happen throughout your entire life… You’re going to have intense emotions come up around money, maybe you’re in that space right now. This happens because of what money represents for you.  You’ve inherited beliefs and have visceral responses to receiving money, losing money, and desiring money that WILL control your life if left unaddressed.  You don’t magically become abundant. You must do inner work to believe you are already abundant while managing the repelling thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs that WILL come up around money. Both strangers and loved ones will project their own money noise onto you, and if you aren’t managing your own money energy daily…you WILL quickly absorb that abundance-repelling without even realizing it. Just as you have to prioritize your physical wellness daily if you want to feel your best, you also must prioritize your money mindset, if you want to have true financial freedom.  If you make the choice to be lazy or inconsistent wi

This also doesn’t work… I’ve seen countless friends, fellow entrepreneurs, health practitioners, and clients get caught in the ALL or NOTHING cycle. It looks like this… Procrastinating, avoiding stuff, resisting hiring help, and then everything starts slowly piling up…and your stress level increases as the pressure grows. You end up dreading your business, being snappy with the people closest to you, losing sleep, can’t poop, and you finally get so miserable that you go say “F IT” and spring into action like a leopard on a raw T-bone steak.  You frantically go do all the things, get a temporary high from this sudden productivity, and then crash. The cycle starts all over again.  Our number one most productive state to be in is PEACE. Solutions come more easily and we think clearly from this space. Fear and anxiety block solutions, creativity, and mental clarity (unless we are being chased by a bear).  Slow and steady always finishes the race. Going fast and frantic only leads to injury and burnout.  Peace is

 Get your sh*t together, Sis. Summer has a way of distracting many people from their dreams. It’s an easy excuse that sounds reasonable; “I’ll get back at it after the summer.” This is no different than telling yourself, you will “start on Monday,” or  “after the holidays,” or “when the kids go back to school.” After 15 years as an entrepreneur, I’ve heard all of the stories and reasoning people use to resist going after their dreams. I’ve also used them myself, and before I knew it three years passed me by, then six, then TEN! (yes it took me 10 years to start ProjectME) If you’ve been in this resistant state, it’s for one of two reasons: You believe that you will have to sacrifice something you don’t want to lose, in order to generate the money you desire.  You don’t believe it’s truly possible for you, so it’s not a top priority.  Neither of these beliefs is getting you any closer to having the business, the cash, the freedom, and the options you want.  So the first order of business here is to adopt new