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This is long overdue…I bet You’ve been burning a ton of mental energy in resistance lately. You want to create a different life, generate a new level of income, and open up a wide array of options for yourself and your loved ones…yet your actions don’t fully match your desired outcome.  Sometimes your mind will trick you into believing you’re doing ALL THE THINGS, and nothing is working at the level you want it to, or as fast as you would like…but your higher self knows that bullish!t. Seriously I complained for 8 years about how exhausted and mentally drained I was, yet I still didn’t take the action to move in a different direction.  There is only one thing more painful than watching other people go for and live out the lifestyle that you so badly crave… That would be, knowing you never fully went for it. Knowing you only gave it half-measures, and wondering what would have been if you had just taken the risk, and went all in.  Stop trying to have it both ways: feeling comfortable while achieving life-chang

We’ve been lied to… For most of our lives, we’ve been fed false narratives around success, money, and freedom.   Think of all of those well-known cliché sayings (most of them coming from the US) : > The early bird gets the worm. > The more you work, the more you make.  > A penny saved is a penny earned. > Climb that corporate ladder.  Generations of money wounds and trauma have gotten passed on to us.  Without unpacking and addressing all of your beliefs…you will end up operating out of a broken system. Many of my clients come to me sick of feeling… Exhausted, and working so damn hard for their money. Resentful of their career or business, because it’s sucking the life out of them.  Frustrated, as they see other people have the freedom they want, but can’t seem to get there on their own.  To go from Thousandaire to Millionaire status, a different way of thinking is required. You need a new operating system that is designed for a different level of success.  Essentially new programming that’s specifically code

 You owe it to yourself to do this… It’s easy to get caught up in focusing on how much something will cost you. “Ugh that so expensive” “I don’t want to spend that right now.” “What if it doesn’t work?” This is a natural human fear response…and what does FEAR stand for > False Evidence Appearing Real  Anytime we allow fear to make our choices for us, we end up paying a big price.  One of my private clients said to me on our application call that she “didn’t know if she could afford to work with me right now.”  My initial thought is always a slightly annoyed, “ummmm ok, then why did you apply to work with me?”  Then I quickly remember that her fear is running the show right now, just as mine does when I go to invest in my business in a major way.  So I asked her, “What is your plan to get to where you want to be in your business if you don’t hire me to show you how?”  I asked this question to move her into the logical side of her brain, and out of the emotional fight, flight or freeze response.  Her reply, “I

Money relaxing explained… Ever notice how fresh Ideas and creative inspiration come to you while you’re in the shower, on vacation, on enjoying wine with friends???  This isn’t by chance; this is because your nervous system is in a relaxed state allowing you to receive. Also notice how the more you TRY to think of something, figure it out, remember that name, the further it pulls away from you. Then when you finally let it go, it comes to you ?!  Forcing energy = repelling abundance  Allowing energy = attracts abundance  The key here is to keep yourself in that relaxed state around the thing you want to manifest as much as possible. Here are some of my favorite ways: Taking a bath Going on an abundance walk  Solo dance party  Focusing on the beauty of something in nature for 3-5 minutes  (a flower, a plant, the ocean )  So what is something you can do daily to shift yourself into a relaxed and receiving state?  This new Special Money Mindset podcast series is designed to help you navigate your money blocks

There’s a lot of crap being shared on Instagram.  If you watch enough of it, the “advice” all starts to contradict itself and will make your brain spin with “this is too hard.”  Social media marketing isn’t hard; it’s actually simple.  Listening to all the noise out there is like having 17 cooks in the kitchen, pure chaos with terrible results.  When I first started this Instagram account from scratch 4.5 years ago, I must have signed up for at least 15 different low-cost and free training promising to have me grow my audience by the thousands in 30 days.  Not one of them ever gave me any real payoff. The bottom line when it comes to creating Reels that covert to clients and cash: Stop obsessing over the views. In general, my highest converting reels have the lowest views (same with all of my clients).  > Create a mix of reels, ones designed to grow your audience with ideal clients, ones designed to convert those strangers into customers.  > All roads stem from and lead to your ideal client. If your ideal cli

It took me 10 years!!! I still can’t fully comprehend that it took me ten fucking years to start ProjectME the podcast and business coaching brand after I got idea while recovering from spine surgery.  It’s insane how fast time goes by, how in the hell is it August already?  I’m not sharing this story to put you in a panic, but you need a fire lit under your ass. We can always make money, but we can never get time back.  You’ve been wasting time, putting off things you dream of doing, having a life that brings you peace and freedom…oh you’ll get back at it in the fall or on Monday, or when the kids are a bit older. BULLSH*T. That is exactly what I bought into, and before I knew it I wasted 10 years that I can’t get back.  This doesn’t mean you have to adopt some all-or-nothing mentality, that doesn’t end well either. But you need to take some action and work towards it.  If you aren’t working towards your desired life, you are working against it.  Let that sink in for a moment.  You’ve been settling for less.

Sis stop workin’ plan B when you want a plan A life.  Shiz looks really messy right now. If you watch or read the news it appears the world is crashing….which is why I don’t watch that crap.  But it’s hard not to pick up the general fear energy going around…the problem isn’t if you feel fear right now, the problem is if you do nothing to shift out of it.   That fear state will only repel abundance, and then further validate the money noise that’s circling your brain.   You have to make a deliberate and conscious choice to seek out evidence of abundance when your mind is pulling you towards scarcity.  The real estate market is at an all-time high: the average sales price of a home in the US is up 32% from 2021. Homes are selling faster than they have in 15 years!  Americans are spending 18% more in 2022 than in 2020.  The coaching industry is expected to go to 14.2 BILLION dollars this year!  Whatever you focus on will grow.  If focus on the vast amount of abundance in the world, you will attract it.  If you

25k a Month is Simple. The issue is you’re making it hard. Believe me, I know…I stayed in my own way for YEARS and didn’t know to get around myself.  Assumptions pop up once you allow yourself to dream bigger and desire more.  Your ego starts coming up with crap that you believe is required to achieve that goal, and it’s always stuff you’re currently lacking.  To grow my coaching business to 25k months I would need: > A team  > Some special certification  > Tech skills  > To be more interesting…well spoken…have more followers Who told you this crap? Probably no one…all assumptions you’ve come up with are based on watching other coaches on the internet.  Ask and answer this question > If you knew it was completely possible for you to make 25k a month consistently just as you are today, would you go ALL IN and do the damn thing?  Now the “yeah buts” start in….” yeah but, I’m not as ______ as you Tiffany. “Yeh but, I don’t have ______.” See how your own ego is trying to money-block you?  This episode is designed

This almost got me fired.  I was hired as a TV News Reporter for NBC before I even officially had my college diploma.  My tenacity, determination, and a false sense of confidence allowed me to beat out thousands of others for the job.  I thought my education and four TV internships prepared me for this job…but doing it in real life for real pay was a completely different level of pressure.  The deadlines were insane! I had to find interview subjects, do the on-camera interview, verify sources, write the script, edit the piece, and record promos for the story in a matter of a couple of hours…there was no time for perfection.  While I was barely putting together one story by the hard deadline, the other more experienced reporters had THREE stories done! After 6 weeks My News Director (Boss) pulled me aside and said,” Carter, you’ve gotta start pulling your weight around here…you need to work faster.” I was shell-shocked. The only way I could do that was by not caring if it was perfect, and just trusting my init

One of the most overlooked and deadly addictions… Alcohol, pills, gambling, and even food addictions are the obvious ones… There’s a widespread addiction that is likely slowly killing you right now.  It’s causing you stress, suffering, financial, relationship, and major quality of life issues.  Damn it is cunning… The addiction of doing TOO MUCH..the addiction to always doing, instead of simply being.  Our egos and society programming manipulate us into feeling like we aren’t doing enough…so if we just do more, be more productive, get more crap done then we will achieve our desired result (whether that be happiness, success, significance, appreciation, etc…).  When in fact DOING TOO MUCH is the problem. This is what’s blocking your abundance.  Even thinking that you have to do more or be more is a scarcity belief.  I can hear that inner critical voice of yours right now saying,” well Tiffany I can’t just sit back and do whatever the hell I want and expect things to happen.”  If you had a version of this thoug

This is going to piss people off. In no way am I excusing or minimizing anyone’s abusive or hurtful behavior in your life…this has to be discussed. We are the common denominator in our lives, our work, our relationships…so when something is happening on repeat, it is not because you’re a “magnet for toxic people,” or that you “weren’t meant to make a lot of money.” It’s because your nasty inner bully has convinced you of some BS that isn’t true.  Likely you’ve been gaslighting and emotionally abusing yourself all without fully realizing the consequences of it.  In my childhood, I was taught that I was too much, a burden, and not worthy of unconditional love.  So unknowingly I carried those beliefs for decades into my adult life and acted out of those beliefs.  > Accepting scraps in relationships.  > Tolerating abusive behavior from people.  > Avoiding following my true dreams, and settling for a “good enough” corporate career.  Of course, I wasn’t able to repair decades of self-abuse overnight, but it also di

Our default programming is fear.  Unless you were blessed to be raised in a highly conscious healthy environment.  My guess is you weren’t. Neither was I, and I was raised with money.  Having money doesn’t mean you automatically have a great relationship with it. Notice all of the celebrities and mega lotto winners who file for bankruptcy or get in trouble for tax evasion.  When we operate out of this fear of it never working, fear of no one buying, fear that you’ve wasted your time and money….you end up taking fear-based actions: > Playing cheap with your business and not investing in it, for fear you won’t make the money back.  > Showing up half-ass on your social media accounts, because you’re mentally fried from living in that anxious state. > Spinning out in analysis paralysis because you are frantically trying so hard to make it work.  > Coming across desperate or needy when sharing your offers, which only repels clients.  Answer this question every day for yourself: What actions would I take right now

A wildly blunt truth you need to hear.  If you aren’t willing to fail you will never succeed.  Trying to play it safe, and remain moderately comfortable while avoiding looking stupid will make it impossible for you to achieve big things.  Success requires failure and mistakes.  Success requires humility and humbly asking for help.  Success requires you to be messy, imperfect, and vulnerable.  The problem with most struggling entrepreneurs is they want the benefits and rewards of going ALL-IN, but without having to actually jump.  That would be like wanting an incredible marriage, but without the willingness to be deeply open, vulnerable, and work on your own shiz CONSTANTLY.  This is why I say to the people applying and joining my programs, mastermind, or membership > This will 100% pay off for you as long as you are open and willing to trust the process while showing up and doing the required work.  You do have what it takes. Now it’s time for you to jump, instead of waiting to be less scared or ready (that

Leaving a wound unintended can cause great loss.    If you got a nasty scrape on your leg, my guess is you would assess the severity of it  (if it requires medical care), then clean it out, disinfect it, put a bandage on it, and check it daily.    You would do this because you know the consequence of not doing it would be painful, could even end in a nasty life-altering infection.    Leaving your money wounds unaddressed and unattended have just as high of consequences, and part of you knows this and is even experiencing it. Yet you avoid fully addressing them.    This is because, unlike a physical wound, we weren’t taught how to address them…so they fester until the pain is great enough to seek help.    For me, I had to lose almost everything I had built, which was almost a million dollars in a 3-month period, to wake up and prioritize tending to my buried money wounds.    Maybe for you, it’s hard to hold on to money.  Maybe it feels impossible to make the money you desire.  Maybe you’ve got yourself in a he

I had it all wrong and it wasn’t working.  When I first entered the online coaching world, I thought in order to have people trust me with their time and money; I had to show up as corporate newscaster Tiffany.  Hair and make-up done No swearing Perfect Posture Serious tone and Business-only mode So I spend 18K on hiring a top video crew, glam team, lighting expert, and hundreds of hours of my time painstakingly coming up with high value detailed pieces of content.    Only a short time in, I started dreading this new business I was creating, which was the exact opposite reason why I started it. I already had a successful 7-figure business specializing in the medical professional and pharmaceutical space…this is where Corporate Tiff hangs out. I started ProjectME the Podcast and Business Coaching brand to be 100% me, have fun, and help others make a mega yacht-load of money doing what they love.  It was a Wednesday morning coffee moment when I decided to enter the ZFG Zone.  “F it, I’m showing up like me, hidi

You’re trying to control destiny.  It’s understandable why we do this…it comes from fear. We’re afraid that it might not happen, and that would be painful or even life-altering.  Last time I checked, forcing your will leaves no room for faith. So basically when we are in self-will we are saying to God and the Universe, “I don’t trust that you have my best interest at heart and that you will follow through.”  So how does one surrender when you logically need money coming into your business?  It’s tough, but your job is to keep showing up KNOWING the abundance is coming…and taking actions based on faith.  Yes, it’s hard as hell…and it’s the only thing that works.  When you’re in the energy of trust, surrender, and knowing…you behave differently, you think differently, and this is highly attractive energy to people.  Your tightly wound and worrying energy is repelling the exact thing you want.  Learn exactly how to do this mind-fu€ery, and watch EVERYTHING change in your life quickly. ProjectME Posse Group Coach

This thought almost killed my dreams. For ten years I would scroll and think that I could do this, and I wanted to do this, BUT, “who would listen to me when there are famous people like Tony Robbins?”  Imagine how many more millions of people I could have helped make millions of dollars if I had just chosen to trust that I had this vision on my heart for a reason, and flippin’ go for it.  You wouldn’t have that pull, that desire, that dream IF it wasn’t meant for you.  The reason ProjectME with Tiffany Carter the coaching brand and podcast grew so quickly isn’t because I had connections, did ads, or worked 12 hours a day…it’s because the coaching industry was craving someone like me who was real, raw, and no BS. There are thousands if not millions of people wishing someone like you existed to learn from, to hire, to connect with….and it’s your job to trust this calling and make some BOSS MOVES.  I purposely brought on this MOM BOSS who started from scratch with zero help or connections….she’s going to share

It’s not the money you’re after it’s the feeling you believe great wealth will provide you: Freedom, Options, Security, Experiences, etc… Anyone who tells you that money doesn’t matter is either A: Already rich or B: is broke and has zero initiative to change their circumstances  Money does matter… the more guilt and self-judgment you create around wanting more >>> the Universe will withhold that abundance from you.  One of the top manifestation blockers I see when clients come to me is not allowing themselves to deeply desire, appreciate, and love money.  You may feel like you NEED money…and that is a very different energy than desiring money.  NEEDING it has fear-based energy attached to it…a thirsty kinda vibe.  DESIRING has abundant energy attached to it…an attractive magnetic vibe.  It can be scary to really DESIRE something because we are trying to avoid the pain and hurt if we don’t get it. That resistance actually causes us to NOT GET the thing we want.  I had the same issue…I was completely unaware o

Setting aside our dreams comes from this false belief… A belief that we have an “either-or” life instead of an “and” life.  Either you’re a great mom or a successful entrepreneur. Either you value quality family time, or you abandon your family for work. Either you make ends meet and do OK financially, or you make great sacrifices to become rich.  Sound familiar?  I want you to reframe the beliefs you have swirling in that wild mind of yours, and remove the “I must pick one or the other” aspect from them.  And witness your life quickly expand in beautiful ways.  Like this… I get to be a great mom AND show my kids the importance of honoring your dreams.  I’m going to design my business around my life, which will provide me with more time, money, and energy to pour into my loved ones.  To have the wealth I desire nothing needs to be sacrificed. I can simply shift some things around just as I have when I decided I was going to start eating healthier. It gets to be enjoyable with a feeling of ease. My most reques

Avoiding toxic people is impossible. They are everywhere…inside your family, your friend group, your neighborhood, dating apps, and your business.  It’s easy as survivors of these toxic people, to blame ourselves for not seeing the signs, and for tolerating their unacceptable and abusive behavior.  Truth is…some of these people like covert narcissists, are master manipulators and even the most street-smart people on the planet would fall for their act.  When you have a big heart and are a trusting person who doesn’t think this way, it’s impossible to catch all the red flags.   Being that I was raised by a narcissist and surrounded by highly toxic people and pedophiles… red flags appear normal to me, as they’re familiar.  The key isn’t to focus on NOT attracting them, as that’s unrealistic…the key is to learn how to recognize when your energy and life force are being slowly sucked away…and then set boundaries to protect yourself.  My dear friend and Healing Strategist Ana Maria and I had a deeply intimate con