Divorce Confidential With Caralee Fontenele

Divorce coaching is a growing industry in Australia and the world. But what is it and how can divorce coaching assist you to move through your separation and divorce? Do you need a lawyer also, what is the purpose of having the assistance of a divorce coach and how does divorce coaching fill a gap in the market? In this episode Caralee has a chat with Anne-Marie Cade from Divorce Right where she answers these questions and more.

In this week's episode, Caralee discusses her strategies on not only how to survive the end of your relationship, but how to thrive and create your best life ever.The breakdown of your serious relationship is considered to be the second most traumatic experience in life after the death of a loved one. It is no surprise then, why people going through a separation feel so much hurt and pain in their lives. Of course, every situation is different, and every person is unique. However, for most people, regardless of whether the separation was a joint decision, instigated by you or not at all your choice, it will involve a roller-coaster of emotions and a large range of practical changes to your life. Caralee believes that there is a bright side to every situation and she knows first hand that this time in your life does pass, but until it does there are strategies that you can use to cope better and help you take renewed control of your life. She shares with you five of her best strategies.

I have always been a huge believer in goal-setting and putting out into the universe what you want to achieve as well as implementing action plans to make it happen. There is no better time to set new goals than when you are at a big juncture in your life, such as divorce. Separation and divorce is the perfect opportunity for you to push the reset button on your life and thrive towards new goals.On this Divorce Confidential Podcast episode I discuss how when you separate it seems that your entire future has collapsed in a pile around you. All of your dreams and goals can seem like they are shattered. I share with you how I overcame this when I went to through my own separation and how you can too.

Most people after separation just want the divorce process and resolving property division and parenting arrangements over and done with as soon as possible. They don’t want it to be a huge fight and they don’t want it to cost a ton of money. When it happens to you, it can be really difficult to know what to do next in order to resolve any outstanding issues that you have. Not every separation needs to be dramatic where you end up in a Court process and it all turns ugly! If both parties can keep have an open mind and can communicate respectfully, you may be able to finalise the matters arising out of separation amicably. This is the best outcome for everybody! On this weeks Divorce Confidential Podcast I share with you my 12 tips that may help make your separation and negotiations more amicable.

If you identify that you need a lawyer, then the next question is which one do you choose? This can be daunting, because it is likely that you have not been in this position before and it is foreign to be in a position where you need to retain a lawyer. You are also now having to make important decisions on your own and this may have been the first time in a long time that this has been the case.

Caralee answers some of the Divorce Confidential listeners questions about property division and puts to rest a few myths about family law.

Having a positive mindset through and finding the positive of your divorce is difficult. Caralee believes by finding the positives, it is the way that you can move through your divorce with more ease. Caralee explores from her own experience as well as that of her clients, how to find the positives in the breakdown of your relationship.