Father And Joe

In this heartfelt episode of "Father and Joe," join hosts Father Boniface and Joe Rockey as they delve into the life and legacy of one of the most pivotal yet often overlooked figures in biblical history – Saint Joseph. Through a rich and engaging conversation, they explore the profound yet quiet impact of Saint Joseph, comparing his humble obedience and dedication to God with the bold acts of Old Testament prophets and the revered apostles.Father Boniface and Joe bring to light the unique role Saint Joseph played, not only as the earthly father of Jesus but as a spiritual guide who significantly influenced Jesus' upbringing and character. They explore how Joseph’s actions, marked by unwavering faith and resilience, mirrored the principles of trust and obedience depicted in the scriptures, shedding light on his decision to become a refugee for the safety of the Holy Family.Listeners are invited to embark on this journey reflecting on how Joseph’s life exemplifies the core values of faith, humil

In this insightful episode of "Father and Joe," we delve into the significance of the Lenten season and the profound changes it can inspire in our lives. Join Father Boniface and Joe Rockey as they explore why the alleluia is traditionally omitted during Lent, symbolizing a somber yet hopeful time for reflection and transformation.The hosts encourage listeners to seize the opportunity that Lent offers to reassess and reshape daily habits, fostering a deeper and more meaningful connection with their faith. As we journey together through this sacred period, Father Boniface imparts wisdom on evaluating our current lifestyle choices. He offers practical strategies for nurturing a spiritual environment conducive to genuine growth and enlightenment.A crucial aspect of this episode is the exploration of how to emotionally connect with one's faith. Joe and Father Boniface share personal anecdotes and spiritual guidance on integrating faith into every aspect of life, aiming to spark an internal call to

In this episode of "Father and Joe," join hosts Father Boniface and Joe Rockey as they explore the profound theme of reconnecting with God and the importance of truth in our daily relationships. Drawing on metaphors like the journey of "walking a thousand steps" and the dynamics between parents and children, the hosts delve into the expectations we should have when cultivating a deeper connection with the divine.The discussion examines the significant impact of honesty and integrity, both in our spiritual lives and in the practical world. Joe shares insights from his experiences in sales, touching on themes from his book "Casino Sales Master," and reflects on the importance of truthfulness in building meaningful relationships. How often do we find ourselves instinctually lying to others, even salespeople, against our better judgment? Joe and Father Boniface challenge this norm, encouraging listeners to foster honesty in all areas of their lives as a step toward spiritual renewal.

In this compelling episode of "Father and Joe," Father Boniface and Joe Rockey delve deep into the pervasive emotion of fear and its impact on our daily lives and decision-making processes. Fear, a universal emotion, can often serve as an obstacle, deterring us from achieving our potential, forming genuine relationships, and leading authentic lives. The hosts provide a heartfelt insight into how fear often leads to dishonesty—not just with others, but with ourselves—and how this dishonesty hinders our spiritual and personal growth.Father Boniface shares how fear can distance us from God and each other. He emphasizes the importance of confronting these fears and cultivating a relationship with God that is grounded in truth and transparency. In doing so, one can move past the paralyzing effects of fear and build stronger, more meaningful connections with others.Meanwhile, Joe Rockey offers a unique perspective by drawing parallels between fear in spiritual life and the world of sales. He shares anecdo

Father Boniface will be hosting a Lenten retreat with Hearts on Fire. Here is the link to participate  https://institute.wordonfire.org/lent-retreat-2025 

In today's compelling episode of "Father and Joe," hosts Father Boniface and Joe Rockey delve into the nuanced reality of living a life of faith amidst life's inevitable challenges. Joe candidly shares his feelings of inconsistency — balancing a life in faith and buying into Jesus points by living virtuously, while external challenges still cast long shadows over his achievements. This profound discussion explores the tension between the desire for fidelity to God's teachings and the realities of worldly struggles.Father Boniface approaches this topic with depth, wisdom, and empathy, addressing common misconceptions that faithful living is naïve or idealistic. He articulates that true faith requires a delicate balance in navigating life’s decisions — whether in moments of temptation or encounters with moral dilemmas — while standing firm in one's beliefs. Through personal anecdotes and examples, Father illustrates that being faithful does not necessitate retreating from the profe

In this enlightening episode of "Father and Joe," hosts Father Boniface and Joe Rockey delve into the intricate dynamics of trust and love in our relationships. They explore the natural human processes that dictate how we open up to others, emphasizing the importance of motivations and self-reflection in achieving a state of virtuous living. The conversation navigates through the complexities of friend selection, trust-building, and the delicate balance of vulnerability and receptivity in relationships.Father Boniface shares profound insights on how trust grows through fidelity and truth, highlighting the significance of integrity and trustworthiness. He explains how mutual trust is cultivated when promises are made and kept, and how vulnerability can foster deeper connections. The discussion also touches on the unique dynamics of spiritual direction, where vulnerability takes on a different form through receptivity and attentiveness.The episode further explores the challenges of maintaining fidelit

In this enlightening episode of Father and Joe, hosts Father Boniface and Joe Rockey delve into the profound concept of the "Perfection of Love" and its implications in our daily lives. Building on previous discussions about drawing closer to Mary and Jesus, this episode explores the multifaceted nature of charity and how it manifests differently in each individual's life. Father Boniface clarifies the church's technical use of the term "charity," derived from the Latin "Caritas," which transcends mere acts of giving to embody the perfection of love.The conversation navigates through the complexities of human relationships, emphasizing that no two relationships are the same due to the infinite ways we can interact with one another. Father Boniface highlights Pope Benedict's teachings on how various forms of love—self-emptying service, love of country, family, friendship, and romantic love—find their ultimate fulfillment in Christ. This episode challenges listeners

In this enlightening episode of Father and Joe, hosts Father Boniface Hicks and Joe Rockey delve into the profound role of Mary, the Mother of God, in our spiritual lives. As we navigate the Jubilee of Hope, Father Boniface and Joe explore the significance of intertwining our daily communication with God and Mary, emphasizing the importance of devotions to Mary in fostering hope and spiritual growth.Father Boniface shares insights into how Mary, as the Mother of Holy Hope, exemplifies unwavering faith and hope, even in the face of despair. Through her experiences, particularly at the foot of the cross, Mary teaches us to hope beyond hope and trust in God's plan. The episode highlights the mysteries of the rosary as a beautiful way to connect with Mary and see our lives through her eyes, aligning our journey with that of Christ.Joe reflects on the challenges of understanding and embodying a mother's perspective, drawing parallels between his own experiences as a parent and Mary's unique relation

In this deeply introspective episode of "Father and Joe," hosts Father Boniface and Joe Rockey delve into the intricate journey of cultivating an autopilot faith in God. Joe opens up about his personal struggles with trust and the desire to seamlessly integrate his faith into everyday life, much like the unconscious act of breathing. This episode explores the challenge of transitioning from a conscious effort to a natural, instinctive trust in God.Father Boniface provides spiritual guidance, drawing parallels between the autonomic nervous system and our spiritual lives. He explains how intentional practices, like controlled breathing, can help manage anxiety and foster a deeper connection with God. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing the underlying causes of anxiety, rather than merely treating the symptoms.The hosts discuss the significance of forming habits of holiness through intentional practice and reflection. They emphasize the value of daily spiritual exer

In this enlightening episode of "Father and Joe," Joe Rocky and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the profound theme of the Jubilee of Hope for the year 2025. Father Boniface explains the deeper meaning of hope beyond the everyday wishes and desires we often express. This episode explores the concept of being "Pilgrims of Hope," emphasizing the journey towards a destination that transcends worldly aspirations. Father Boniface draws on Pope Benedict's teachings, distinguishing between "little hopes" that pertain to our daily lives and the "great hope" found in Christ's victory on the cross.Listeners are invited to reflect on the courage it takes to embark on meaningful ventures, acknowledging that setbacks and failures are part of the journey. The discussion highlights the importance of community and mutual support among pilgrims, as well as the significance of the Jubilee year, which offers a unique opportunity for spiritual renewal and forgiveness.Father Bonif

""In this special New Year's Eve episode of "Father and Joe," Joe Rocky and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the profound impact of small, seemingly insignificant decisions in shaping our lives and the world around us. As we stand on the cusp of a new year, they explore the notion that every choice, no matter how minor, can contribute to significant change and growth, both personally and societally.Father Boniface reflects on the importance of historical context, reminding us that history often overlooks the small steps that lead to monumental achievements. He draws parallels between technological advancements and moral progress, emphasizing that just as technology builds upon itself, so too can our moral and spiritual lives. The conversation highlights the power of incremental change, encouraging listeners to recognize the potential of their daily actions to create a ripple effect of positivity and hope.Joe shares personal anecdotes from his experiences in sales and business, illustr

Join Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks in this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode of Father and Joe. Together, they explore the complexities of discipleship, the power of love, and the challenges of living a faith-filled life in today’s world. Using the Gospel message from the third week of Advent as a starting point, they reflect on the historical context of Jesus' time and its relevance to our modern struggles, while emphasizing how love remains the most transformative and powerful force.Joe begins by sharing his personal struggle with excuses and reflects on the Gospel passage where John the Baptist foreshadows Jesus' transformative mission: "I baptize you with water, but He will baptize you with fire and the Holy Spirit." This sparks a deep discussion about what it means to be a disciple, especially during difficult times. Joe asks an important question: "If we were living in Jesus’ time, would it have been easy to be a disciple, or would we have hesitated because of the c

Are you ready to deepen your understanding of God’s infinite mercy and its role in our lives? In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive into the profound concepts of forgiveness, confession, and the spiritual journey toward healing and growth. Through relatable stories, heartfelt reflections, and practical insights, this episode is perfect for those yearning to bring more faith, understanding, and peace into their lives.Key Themes Discussed:The complexities of confession: Why fear and misunderstanding often hold us back from experiencing the full mercy of God.Overcoming the fear of judgment: "It is hard to face these things, hard to be honest with ourselves, hard to look ourselves in the eye."Shattering misconceptions: Why early teachings on sin and judgment might have missed the mark, and how to reframe them for deeper spiritual connection.A firm purpose of amendment: What it truly means to sincerely want to change and grow.The role of attunement in emotional and

In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks tackle one of life's most challenging and deeply personal experiences: navigating fear, uncertainty, and moral dilemmas during a medical crisis. As Joe shares his personal journey of emotional and spiritual turmoil after receiving a distressing letter about his wife’s pregnancy, Father Boniface provides guidance, wisdom, and insights grounded in faith.The conversation begins with Joe reflecting on his reaction to the emotionally-charged letter and the subsequent weeks of waiting for clarity. “I don’t even know if the way that I handled it and addressed it was right, fair, proper, sinful, or amoral,” Joe shares, admitting his struggle to reconcile worry and faith. For three agonizing weeks, Joe was forced to confront one of life’s most difficult questions: What would I do if faced with choosing between the life of my wife and our unborn child?Father Boniface offers clarity and hope, diving deep into the

In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into the promises of Christ and their transformative power in our lives. Reflecting on the profound truth that "heaven is being in perfect relationship with everyone," this discussion highlights the essence of God’s love, forgiveness, and constant presence in our lives.Father Boniface eloquently reminds us:"Jesus promises really always to forgive and to have mercy. He promises always to be with us. I will be with you always to the end of the age."The conversation centers on how Christ’s promises are eternal truths designed to guide us, console us, and draw us closer to Him. Yet, as Joe notes, it’s often our own trust issues or subconscious fears that block us from fully receiving God’s grace:"It’s not God letting us down; it’s our own hesitations and resistance that keep us from trusting in His promises."Through heartfelt reflections and relatable examples, this episode delves into:The universal nee

In this deeply insightful episode of Father and Joe, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks tackle a pressing issue that affects countless Americans: the growing disconnect within families. Recent surveys reveal that over 50% of Americans feel a sense of dread or disinterest when it comes to seeing their family, particularly between adult children and their parents. This troubling trend of family disintegration isn’t just a societal issue—it’s a personal one. How do we heal broken family bonds, especially during the holidays or challenging seasons of life?Father Boniface draws on his Catholic perspective and personal experiences to shed light on the importance of family, no matter how difficult those relationships may seem. As he notes:“Heaven consists of a perfect communion of love between all persons. And that includes the people that you’ve canceled in your life.”The episode explores powerful motivations for working on strained relationships:Spiritual Growth: Healing family bonds isn’t just about earth

How can we navigate parenting, relationships, and emotional growth in a world filled with challenges? In this heartfelt episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into the art of parenting, emotional resilience, and building meaningful relationships. Drawing from personal experiences, psychological insights, and spiritual perspectives, they discuss topics that resonate with parents, couples, and anyone seeking to strengthen their connections with loved ones and with God.Joe begins with a personal parenting story about his son, who experienced a small but meaningful injury, sparking reflections on the importance of communication and emotional understanding in relationships. “A lot of times we don’t know the right question to ask,” Joe observes, echoing a theme we all face in our daily interactions. How do we truly understand others, or even teach our children to ask the right questions? Joe’s story sets the stage for Father Boniface to offer wisdom on navigating life’s challenges

In this episode of Father and Joe, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive into a profound yet often overlooked aspect of faith and life: curiosity. While curiosity isn't explicitly commanded in scripture, its presence is seen throughout the Gospel, serving as a catalyst for growth, understanding, and deepening relationships. Father Boniface shares, “Curiosity in one sense is a luxury. It’s the kind of thing you can only do when you’re not in danger of being eaten,” highlighting how essential safety and freedom are to allowing curiosity to flourish.Curiosity, as Joe and Father Boniface discuss, isn't just a casual interest; it’s a choice—a vital force that encourages us to step out of our comfort zones, fostering new connections and enhancing the relationships around us. By choosing curiosity, we open ourselves to discovering new insights, encountering diverse perspectives, and building deeper bonds with others and with God.Father Boniface explains that when we feel secure and supported, cur

In this episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive into the powerful concept of nurturing and strengthening relationships by focusing on the future. Over the course of nearly 400 episodes, one recurring theme has been how relationships form the foundation for living a holy and fulfilling life. Today, they discuss a unique and practical tool that Joe shares with his clients—recording regular voice or video messages for loved ones, addressing them at future milestones in their lives.Joe explains, “The real secret of life has really not been articulated correctly. It’s not the accumulation of power, money, or time. It’s building the best relationships.” These weekly messages—crafted with love and intention—are intended to help us visualize the long-term development of our relationships, ensuring they remain strong over the years. Joe suggests setting aside 20 to 30 minutes on Fridays to record a message, thinking about how you want your relationship to look a decade from now.Father Boni