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One key reason your Instagram following isn’t growing at a good pace is because you aren’t using hashtags strategically. Some of you may think you are using all of the “right” hashtag tricks, and getting really dang frustrated that your audience still isn’t gaining any traction….I get it, that’s how I felt my first 6 months on the Gram (which BTW was only 1.5 years ago). I said WTF after each one of my carefully crafted posts didn’t get much engagement, or they did and it didn’t help grow my following at all. At one point I thought, “Do I have to shake my bootie and show my body more to gain followers?” I wasn’t willing to play that game. Ya hear me ladies? I started to experiment with hashtags, and track my results, after much tedious effort and lots of WTFs, I cracked that damn code. There were Three things I was doing wrong: I was using hashtags waaaay too big for my small size audience. No one would even find little ‘ole me in a sea of influencers with hundreds of thousands of followers. I was selecting

I’m answering the top questions I receive on the daily, in my straightforward no BS style of course. When I get asked, “How did you become so successful and a multi-millionaire?” I get a half-smirk, half-smile across my mostly Botox’d face. Truly to answer that properly, I had to create an entire podcast dedicated to sharing success secrets, business strategies, insane stories, and unique guests. But that’s not the answer people want to hear, they want me to sum it up in a pretty purple box with a sparkly gold bow. So I’ve put together a list of 8 things that I strongly attribute my continued success to: Putting my spirituality and health as a non-negotiable number one priority every single day. Working on my abundance mindset all day long, incorporating all of the techniques I’ve learned and I’ve created on repeat. I don’t take my self so seriously (although I used to). I make even boring and annoying tasks fun…by laughing at it all, doing what I call “humorous complaining.” I have strict boundaries around

Low Self-Worth = Low Net-Worth If you have been following and listening to me for some time, you know this is a message I deliver on repeat. I will shout, write, speak, dance, and infuse this message on repeat ‘til the day I die, and even after I die, I will come back and haunt you with it. You aren’t living the abundant life you so desire and deserve because at core, you don’t believe that you deserve it 1000% I lost almost everything I had in the bank, three months after becoming an official millionaire...it wasn’t because I didn’t know how to make money, or because I wasn’t smart, it was all because I had very low self-worth. When our self-worth is low, we end up making decisions and taking actions from a low vibrational space…and therefor we end up with more low vibe circumstances, people, places and things in our lives. Who do you think has more success landing new clients and selling their offerings, someone in a low-vibrational state or a high-vibrational state? High-Vibes CAN’T BE FAKED! Believe me I

New Levels, New Devils. Scaling a business is no joke. I can confidently help you generate 100k, 250K, 500K, 1 Million in your business…I’ve rinsed and repeated this proven process hundreds of times with people in all different specialties from all different backgrounds. What I can’t do is guarantee that you will do your part. A LOT of YOU is required to start and scale your business, and as your continue to grow and your goals get bigger…a hell of A LOT more of YOU is required. There is no way around it. You want to know what the top two things are that prevents people from reaching their goals? It’s not talent, it’s not education, it’s not looks, it’s not the size of their audience or email list…. Number One: They lack the willingness and determination to stay focused on that goal, even when it’s hard AF, even when you are having a bad month, even when it isn’t fun, even when you lose money. Number Two: Not willing to invest their business, personal development, and mindset in order to grow. Basically not w

This is why your stuff isn’t selling. No one is enrolling, and your calendar isn’t full with ideal clients… First I need to say this to all of you service-based, heart-centered, driven, dream-chasers, please don’t let your lack of sales, revenue, followers, and/or clients determine IF you are meant to be following this dream of yours. When we attach our self-worth and confidence to some external factor like how many clients you have, how much money you are making, or how long it is taking for your dream to manifest, it is a set up for failure and certainly doesn’t help anyone. Tell me if this sounds familiar to you: -You get all excited about going after your dreams, whether it is starting a business, growing your business, reigniting your networking team, and you are riding high on ambition and abundance vibes for a couple of weeks. -Then after pouring your heart, soul, time and energy into ALL THE THINGS for a couple of weeks and there is ZERO or ho-hum traction….no one has enrolled, no applications have co

FU*CK IT! I QUIT! These four words have been said dozens of times over my twelve years of being an entrepreneur. Most recently, I said them right at the start of the New Year. Yes while everyone was “New Year, New You’ing” (gag) my heart got shattered into a million pieces when I suddenly and unexpectedly lost my fur-baby, baked potato, bird bean, princess, tootles, Ms. Molly. It happened so dramatically that my nervous system is still processing the event and my PTSD was heavily triggered. On top of that I was in hard-core pre-launch mode for my signature sales course, and I’m in my busy season for both of my businesses. Then just two days later Mike and I got food poisoning, which left me non-functional for 48 hours. My inbox was exploding, my voicemail was full, I had over 65 unread texts, and well over a hundred DM’s, plus a mile long time-sensitive to-do list…so I did what all seasoned mutli-millionaires do and I screamed, “FU*CK IT! I QUIT! This is just too much for me!” Every time I say it, yell it, cr

There are 5 things I wish I did differently when starting my online business, and they will for sure surprise you. Hindsight is always 20/20. I believe reflecting back on what we could have done better is important, just be sure not to dwell on what could have been (this can be challenging for me, a Virgo, Enneagram 6, INFJ). As your business coach, it is my responsibility to share with you not just what works but also what doesn’t work, and the why behind it. Your business is something that is ever evolving just like your personal relationships. You will try things and some will workout great and others not so much, plus a few epic fails. Just know this is 100% going to happen, and if it hasn’t yet, you aren’t going all-in. The first thing I wish I did differently is not focusing on how everyone else is showing up online. I wasted a lot of time and energy on studying how other female online business owners were presenting themselves online, the types of content they shared, how they dressed, etc... None of t

If your current social media audience isn’t bring home the Benjamin’s’ you need to keep reading. I know how frustrating it is to want to serve people so badly, you know you have this gift, and it feels likes no one is that interested. It can make you question your skill set, your business, and yourself. What makes it worse in when you see other people online getting tons of “likes,” comments, and paying clients doing something similar to you, WTH?! What am I doing wrong?!!! First of all let me knock out two myths for you: number one, you don’t need a big audience in order to make great money online, it’s about the type of people in your audience versus the size. Number two, just because someone is getting a ton of engagement on their posts and they have a hundreds of thousands of followers, doesn’t mean they are making major money. (many of these ‘influencers’ apply for my coaching, not knowing how to monetize their audience) Here’s the thing, if your social media audience isn’t consistently growing in size a

Should I quit my job? How do I know when it’s the right time? What if I fail? These questions tortured me for six months before I ripped off the damn Band-Aid. You know I freakin’ love analogies, so get ready one is coming. Leaving a solid career or job that you don’t loooove anymore or maybe you never truly did, that is paying you well but not what you deserve, is like knowing you need to break off a relationship with the “but they are so nice” person. There are some things that feel so comfy and convenient, but it untimely leaves you joyless. Insert the guy I was dreading breaking up with because he was so good at setting up and managing all of the electronics in my house and business….plus “he was so nice.” Smart companies purposely design comp packages to give you just enough to be comfortable that it would be scary to leave. Hell I even had a company car, credit card, stock options, and giant office supply budget. Leaving a crappy job with a miserable boss with low pay is like breaking up with an A-hole,

80% of you will not follow through on your 2020 goals! FACTS!!! This hard stat comes from US News and World Report. The good news is 20% of you WILL achieve your 2020 goals, and I would like to help as many of you as possible be on this side of the equation. From the well of over 1500 people I have coached and mentored, every single one of them has failed at achieving goals multiple times in their lives, ME INCLUDED. The fail-point actually occurs right from start. We unknowingly, subconsciously set ourselves up, by getting caught up in the yumminess of fantasy thinking. It all usually starts around the end of November...mass media; social media, people surrounding us start talking about their plans for the New Year or “next year.” Then we start slowly placing our New Year plans, goals, and visions into our mental magical fantasy filing cabinet. It goes something like this: You are searching for your seventeenth pair of black yoga pants, (but they are your favorites when you feel bloated), and your closet is

I’ve discovered there are 7 common traits in the way female millionaires think; let’s see how many of them you have… I came up with this list after being interviewed for special article coming out in Glamour Magazine on millionaire mindset. The writer asked me, “out of all the female millionaires you’ve coached, collaborated with, are friends with, what are their common traits?” (Insert…a loooong pause before I could answer.) For those of you who have been part of the ProjectME Posse community for a while, you know that I am rarely at a loss for words, but this question really made me think. So I asked the writer if I could create a great list to best answer her question, thankfully she agreed. My list started with 23 traits and I narrowed them down to these key seven: Female Millionaire’s may not know exactly how they are going to achieve their goals, but they are confident they will figure it out no matter what. Female Millionaire’s are critically aware of their strengths and weaknesses, and are resourcefu

One of the worst forms of metal abuse is the kind we inflict upon ourselves! I was the MASTER at making my self feel like crap. The weird thing is I had zero idea that it was self-inflected…which is why I’m sharing this story with you today, as a mentor pointed it out to me several years ago, and it hit me between the eyes. Comparison is form of self-sabotage and self-abuse. The scary reality is that is can be addictive. The definition of addiction is you are doing something repeatedly that is robbing you of your health, mental wellbeing, spirituality, and/or livelihood, yet you continue to do it anyway. Going online and ending up in the Comparasionitis spin cycle and sink hole, and not doing anything to stop it, is a HUGE RED FLAG. The same holds true for doing this in person….you are at a networking event or at the gym, you find yourself comparing and making yourself feel less than, and yet you do nothing to stop this “habit.” THIS WAS ME. I even would know that I needed to get off social media, it wasn’t m

How to align your energy with your 2020 goals… The most important and priceless resource you have is your energy. As I always say, personalities can be faked, but energy cannot. If your energy is out of alignment with your 2020 goals, they will not manifest into reality no matter how hard you work at it or how much money you throw at it. Believe me, Tiffany 1.0 tried it doesn’t work. Here’s how you know if your energy is out of alignment with your vision: if your body are mind are tense, stressed, or anxious anytime you think, speak, or take action towards your goal…you my friend need an energy adjustment. Our bodies never lie…our Ego’s do. Sometimes we think we want something but it’s not our true soul calling. We get conditioned by society, our gender, money, and the media, to do certain things by certain ages and in a certain way…it’s important that we tap into our bodies and our intuition, as this is where the truth lies. To get that energy flowing towards our greatest good is a daily practice. I need you

There is a strategy behind packaging your services to guarantee they will actually sell. After all that is the point here right? You are running a business, not spending all of this time, heart, and energy for a hobby. Most of my business-coaching clients come to me after they are fed up, exhausted, and feeling deflated after trying it all but their shiz still isn’t selling, at least not with any ease. I get it, I’ve been there. My first three years of business I spent hustling my bootie off doing tons of presentations and sales calls, with a less than impressive close rate (this is number of people who buy from you compared to the number of people/businesses you pitched). My rate was 35% at best. Yes I made legit cash, around 200K per year, BUT, I was grinding away to make that number, so much so, that I wanted to quit on a weekly basis, as being an employee was waaaaay easier. When I was on my last thread, I had heart to heart conversation with my self (I do this often BTW…only child syndrome perhaps)… “Tif

Guess what’s standing between you and the multiple 6 or 7-figure life you desire? It’s not some special strategy (that can easily be taught or paid for). It’s not a different networking company. It’s not having more social media followers. It’s not you getting another certification or credential. Some tough love here…you are the common denominator in all areas of your life. It’s you who is in your own way: The lack of belief in yourself, your lack of trust in yourself, your impatience, and most of all your willingness to surrender to a power greater than yourself (the Universe, God, angels, etc…). Let’s commit to being done with standing in the way of your dreams for 2020. Let’s leave these abundance blockers in 2019. I’ve recorded a special episode for you today, and brought on a guest who is going to teach you how to train your mind to get the life of your desires. Taylor Simpson is a Subconscious Mind Expert, Motivational Speaker, and Money Manifestation Coach. Light a candle, break out the crystals, get y

New Year’s Eve manifesting techniques to set you up for maximum abundance in the New Year: Not sure if you guys know this about me but I have been a student of the Law of Attraction and an active manifestor for 15 years. I studied privately for ten years with a top spiritual guide in the field, for hours every week. One of the many benefits of living in Los Angeles. I see manifesting as an artistic dance. The energy is always moving, and if you skip a step and get lazy, you will end up with a bruised foot. Also in keeping with that analogy, the more you practice the dance, the better at it you get. What’s most important is that you start, even if it’s baby steps….as long as you believe this manifestation thing is possible for you. If you think it’s total hogwash (where is the hell does that term come from anyway? LOL), then don’t bother, as like attracts like, so your disbelief will attract more things and circumstances to prove to you that it is in fact hogwash. Today I’m going to share with you my step-by-s

Who is the heck are “THEY” anyway? “THEY will think I’m under qualified.” “THEY will think I’m too fat.” “THEY will think I sound stupid.” “THEY won’t buy from me.” “THEY say you need X, Y, Z in order to be successful.” THEY are the negative committee inside our own brains. Usually comprised of every toxic person we have encountered in our lives. This is great news, as we, our higher abundant selves lead this committee and have 100% voting power. When a “THEY will think,” or a “THEY will say,” enters your mind, I want you to picture yourself in a giant judge chair with a gavel, and slam that thing down and say, “order in the court!” Gain back control of the unruly, ignorant, loud mouths in your committee. Don’t allow them to take over your courtroom. To get you further fired up, I brought on the Queen of Confidence, Rachel Luna. She is a best selling author, sales and confidence strategist, a former US Marine, Founder of Girl Confident, and Host of the live event Confidence Activated. Connect with Rachel: Ins

Here’s why your social media following isn’t growing, even though you are doing “all the things.” There isn’t enough of the REAL you infused into your content. What I mean by the “REAL YOU,” are your quirks, your habits, your obsessions, your silliness, your sass, your playful side, and all the other stuff that you have deemed “boring.” “Tiffany I don’t really do that much, I’m pretty boring, so there isn’t much interesting stuff to share.” LIES LIES LIES LIES No one and I mean no is boring. Everyone is interesting in some way. You just need to convey your “boringness” in an interesting way. Look at your social media platforms that are personal-brand based (versus product-based, like a jewelry company), like mini reality-TV shows. People are voyeurs and nosey by nature, this is why realty-TV and live streaming has taken over. If you have a personal brand, make the damn content more personal, showcasing your uniqueness. I’m an introvert, empath, homebody, so if I can manage to make my “boringness” interesting

“If you keep on believing, the dreams that you wish will come true.” (Cinderella) Have you ever gone back and watched some of your favorite childhood fairytales as an adult? There are so many incredible abundance mindset perspectives that we can apply to our adult lives. In the case of Cinderella, a large part of her life was crap. She was unwanted, abused, and publicly ridiculed. Yet, there was a light within her that couldn’t be dimmed no matter what. She so strongly believed she was meant for more, that she manifested her way to a better life. When I think about it, I have my own Cinderella story, one of abuse to abundance. I’m sure this why even as young as seven years-old I remember watching this movie so many times, I wore out the tape (who remembers those giant Disney VHS tapes and covers?) It’s no wonder that the Universe connected me to a real-life former Disney Princess who was the voice of Cinderella (crazy right?!). This woman is nothing short of remarkable. Deanna Falchook had a severely abusive

Have you lost your business mojo? For some reason many entrepreneurs become so shocked and discouraged when they lose that lovin’ feeling for their business. I want you to know it is absolutely 100% normal to fall out of love for your business many times. In the 11.5 years of me being a full-time entrepreneur, I have been head over heels in love with my businesses, have hated them, have felt indifferent, and then I’ve fallen in love all over again. Just like a long-term romantic partner, you will not be madly in love with them at all times. The sound of them even chewing or how they wash the dishes, will be enough to irritate you some days. Ladies can I get an “AMEN.” The relationship with your business is no different. You will need to work at getting the mojo back for your work, and do your best to keep it alive. For me, that requires an extreme balancing act, which I’m going to share with you. If you are feeling business burnout, then likely your output is out of balance. You have been putting so much ener