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You are sabotaging your manifestations without even realizing it. It happens to me too. In fact, I was in subconsciously pushing away the growth in my business I was intentionally manifesting for most of April and May. Of course hindsight is 20-20. It all started when I got my photos back from my epic Miami Beach house brand shoot. I wasn’t in love with the photos, and I had just spent more than I ever had in this business on content. Seeing these unedited photos (which I will never do to my self again) also ignited my exercise addiction/eating disorder brain.  I spent the next 6 weeks with the critical inner bully running my brain. I became focused on everything I don’t have, everything that was wrong in my life, things I didn’t like about my self, my body, my business, even my house.  About three weeks in, I noticed that I was feeling drained, everything felt like a lot of work, even the stuff I love doing. So I thought I was in a “depression cycle,” something that happens when you live with depression and

If you never feel like quitting, you aren’t invested enough in your dreams.  During my first five years of business, I wanted to quit and move to a remote island and make seashell necklaces at least once a week. At one point, I even started to look at jobs boards fantasizing about going back into corporate life. I had so much shame around wanting to quit, and it all feeling so overwhelming at times, that I thought, “maybe I wasn’t meant to be an entrepreneur….” “maybe I’m not cut out for this, I’m too sensitive, not strong enough, smart enough, focused enough…” The truth is, I would get so overwhelmed because I wanted it to work so badly. I cared tremendously about getting my clients superior service and results, so when anything went wrong, it would feel like the end of the world. This my friends IS how an incredible heart-centered entrepreneur should feel. Instead I bet you are judging yourself for having these days and weeks where you just want to give up, and you’re on emotional overload.  Remember this:

Time to burst your Facebook ad fantasy bubble before you waste your money. You’re scrolling and come across a great Instagram ad from someone in a similar niche as you…you check out who this person is and see the “success” they seem to have…you then make the connection that, “maybe what I need to do is run Facebook ads to grow my business.” After all how hard can it be? It looks like they just used a nice image, and wrote a catchy post. I’ll be the first to tell you that Facebook ads are not easy, they used to be back in the day, but now you really must have a strong funnel strategy if want to see results and not waste you money. Don’t fall for the fantasy that you can magically get hundreds of people buying your course, e-book, or free webinar just because you spend money on ads. This is where business owners end up wasting a ton of time and cash, then come to me wondering why it didn’t work, and it seems to work for everyone else.  FACT ONE: If you don’t already have proof of concept with selling your produ

Are you operating at the level required to achieve your dreams? I remember when my long time mentor hit me with this question after I already consumed two glasses of Cabernet. For once, I was left speechless.  The truth is we all know deep down if we are really doing 100% of what it takes to reach our goals….I mean overeating at dinner while I eat almost nothing all day isn’t a fast track to Tiffany losing her back fat.  Here I was whining to him with frustration over one of our bi-monthly dinner meetings that I couldn’t move past the 250-350K marker in my business, and I couldn’t figure out what in the hell I was doing wrong….he set me straight with one question.  Wanting ALL IN results without going ALL IN on your business, is called entitlement and crazy thinking.  You must be willing to: Show up regardless if you feel like it or not everyday.  Invest in your business even when you don’t the money.  Be humble as hell and regularly ask for help and guidance. Prioritize your choices to match your desires. 

The key to growing your business without burning out… What if I told you that a big reason why your business isn’t growing as fast or as grand as you would like is because you are already feeling frazzled, fried, and fatigued with what you are managing now? We subconsciously push away MORE of what we desire, when our bodies and brains are screaming for a break. Why would the Universe give you more clients, more sales, and more cash, if you are barely getting through the week as it is? There are several requirements to scaling your business without burning out (all of which I learned the hard way, so my goal is to save you some pain here): Letting Go: you need to let go of the things in your business that you hate doing and are sucking your life force. My control freaks, this will be hard but burning out will be much harder. Leverage your time: you only have so much time and energy in a day. If you don’t maximize and leverage that time, your income and growth will be capped. Time for you to explore how you ca

I didn’t think I was dying, I knew I was. After seeing countless specialists, giving vials of blood, changing my diet, everything kept coming up “normal.” Well nothing was normal anymore, as I could barely find the energy to shower, and even then I had to sit down to do it. The last straw was when I got sent to a Psychiatrist and they based my symptoms on having ADHD, and put me Adderall. I spent the next month feeling like I was on crack-cocaine, but inside the body of a dead person. I knew this wasn’t the answer either.  I had heard of Breast Implant Illness, but there wasn’t much scientific data out there, so I didn’t think it was a real thing. Part of me didn’t want it to be real, as that would mean I had to have major surgery to remove my implants. That sounded scary to me. Just as how all things work in my life, God made it undeniable that these saline sacks had to come out. My breasts kept getting bigger and bigger, they took on a life of their own; my body was holding onto weight and inflammation that

Here’s how the Instagram Algorithm is working in 2021: Before I get into this whole algorithm thing, no one outside from the powers at be inside Facebook know exactly how to “beat” the Instagram algorithm. It is a constantly moving target, just like Google’s algorithm, that all of us digital markers are trying to beat. Thankfully there are some key things we do know… Instagram looks at the user’s past behavior on the app, does a sweep of the latest pieces of content on the app, and then evaluates each one to predict how appealing that piece of content will be to that user. The highest-ranking pieces will appear first. How does Instagram determine this “appeal factor?” It is something they call “ranking signals.” To keep it simple, it is based on the level of interaction that user had with the account owners + if the user typically likes/comments/saves/shares this type of content + the time-factor of the content + how often the user is on Instagram + the users average session time. (I know A LOT right?!) Crea

93% of brands get new customers because of video on social media.  (Source: Animoto) 84% of customers say they’ve been convinced to buy a product or service because of watching a brands video on social media. (Source: Wyzowl) Straight up stats that video will make your business money online. However, you just slapping a video together then posting and hoping isn’t a proven strategy.  In the world of video marketing there are things that absolutely do work and things that absolutely don’t work. It’s my job to share with you what I know is proven to work, so you can maximize your time, and actually generate more revenue with each video you create.  I’m going to teach you how I make five-figures a week online using my phone, and no fancy camera or editing software to make videos. Remember it’s more about what you say and how to you say it, then how flashy it looks.  Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money? A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, t

“Why would anyone listen to me?” My heart still drops every time I hear one of you say this to me. I think it’s because I used to feel that same exact way. Like, why would anyone hire me or listen to me when they could work with (insert anyone who had more money, years of experience, degrees, press, followers) than me.  Here’s the thing…we can all hear the same message our entire lives, but somehow when we read it or hear it fromm a certain person, it just hits differently. Sometimes for you, I’m that person…Other times I’ve shared the same thing with you 100 times, and then you tell me something amazing you learned from reading a book, which is the same damn thing I’d been telling you. For whatever reason, you were able to absorb it at that specific time from that specific person. Who you are as a person, the life you have led, your energy, your vibe, your communication style, your lifestyle will be so relatable to some people and not at all to others. This relatability and sense of trust is what allows YOUR

There is an 85% chance you hate your job.  According to a recent global Gallop poll only 15% of people worldwide are happy with what they do for a living. Don’t me wrong, every profession, career, or business has its crap days or even months…but if over all you don’t love 80% of what you do to make cash, there’s a problem. It’s easy to blame the company you work for, the boss, the industry, etc.. but the common denominator is YOU. I bet there are thousands or even millions of people who do something similar to what you do for work, who love it! I know many people who have a desk job, where they go into work everyday staring at spreadsheets, and spend their day in mostly unnecessary meetings. But overall they enjoy what they do; I personally would die a slow death doing that job. Have you even thought of the fact that maybe you aren’t feeling fulfilled because you aren’t living out your life’s purpose. You aren’t meant to be doing what you are doing for money, even if you went to years of school for it. Maybe

Are you tired of talking to people who can’t afford to work with you? Hearing the dreaded, “I would love to, but I just can’t afford it right now,” is manageable when you hear it once in a while, but if this is what you are mostly hearing, we need to get this fixed and fast. You may be at the point where you think it’s you, “maybe they don’t trust me or value me.” I’m sure you are wondering what you are doing wrong, or even if this is what you are meant to be doing. Without my eyes looking at your business and coaching you personally, I can’t give you a complete answer, but I can tell you a couple key areas where I bet you are missing the mark. Number One: You don’t really know the exact person you are targeting. You kinda have an idea who she is, but you don’t know your ideal client on a deep emotional level. Without clearly identifying who she is below the surface, and her inner most private thoughts and fears, you will end up spinning your wheels and wasting a ton of time and money trying to attract client

I used to put deodorant on my face.  FACTS: In my first job as a pharmaceutical sales rep, I was so nervous and scared to approach my potential clients (all high level medical doctors), that I spent the entire day in a full visible sweat. Since I knew that wouldn’t make a good impression (hence the phrase “never let them see you sweat”), I had to put deodorant on my upper lip and brow daily to stop it.  Even though this mega multi-billion dollar corporation I worked for, put me through extensive sales training…even semi-privates with Tony Robbins, that didn’t matter when it was time to for me to go out there and make the sales.  What they didn’t train us how to do, is sell in way that feels good to each person individually, as a highly sensitive, introvert, empath, intuitive…conventional sales methods feel awkward, pushy, and annoying to me. I had to come up with a solution quick or I would have lost my job, my car, and my apartment. This is when my Emotional Based Sales Techniques were born, many years ago,

Posting and hoping for sales is not a strategy. I see what you’re doing online…it’s my job to stalk all you; so I can best show you how to reach your goals. Sometimes that requires me giving you some hardcore Tiff-talks, where I tell you what you need to hear, not necessarily what you want to hear.  You study other people’s posts that you view as being “successful” in your niche. You then use their hashtags….try to talk about similar topics….all the while envying their content wishing yours got all of that engagement too. After spending weeks and maaaaany hours writing, recording, and pretending to be a graphic artist in Canva, you lose steam, feel discouraged, frustrated, and unmotivated…then either give up or feel like you don’t have what it takes to make money online. What you have been doing isn’t a strategy; it called GUESSING. Instead of guessing and hoping something will work, I want you to learn a high-converting content strategy that has been proven repeatedly to work. But first I need you to underst

Want to know how I made 70k from my phone while buzzed at the beach? I was actually surprised the first time this happened. The scarcity side of my brain wanted to believe it was a one-off fluke, but after taking about a week to process it, I knew exactly what I did, and it was something I could easily replicate. If your brain is anything like mine, you are an over-thinker, over-analyzer, and get easily overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do list. When you throw launching programs, products, and offers for your business into the mix, this will take your head spinning to a new wild level. When we are in that state of overwhelm, fear, self-doubt, obsessing, we actually repel the vary things we want, and can even attract more of what we don’t want.  It’s easy to go into fantasyland about something new you are launching while in the creation mode…once you launch it, if you are white-knuckling it waiting for your PayPal notifications to go off, or your inbox to ping with new applications…YOU ARE IN BIG TROUBLE SIS.

I used to think I was savage, but I was average AF. On the surface, I appeared to be as savage as they come. I had the luxury lifestyle, traveled in private jets, generated tens of millions of dollars in sales transactions a year, and appeared to have it all together. The reality, I was a disaster behind the scenes. Working 12-14 hours per day/7 days a week, grinding for every dollar, only resting when I was sick, and hating the world. My limiting beliefs had me operating as average, and it was costing me money, time, and energy that I could never get back. The issue is I had zero clue that I was at the center of it all. So I’m sharing with you exactly what I wish someone pointed out to me on repeat. Stop trying to build your business on your own with little direction, you will waste so much time and money that you may even end up having to quit. Stop playing cheap with your dreams. You are so willing to buy an iphone, get monthly gel manicures, and spend hundreds in take out, but resist hiring a business co

If you want to make BOSS level cash, then you gotta act like one everyday! Straight up, the reason why you aren’t making the level of cash you desire in your business, is because you are operating it like a low level employee instead of a CEO. In my first 2 years as an entrepreneur, I can’t tell you how many times I would beg for a sign from the Universe to show me what in the hell I was suppose to be doing, because what I was doing, wasn’t working well at all. Even when I started to make a consistent 6 figures, I was exhausted, overworked, and actually felt trapped by the very business I created to give my self more freedom. When you manage your day like a Boss, you prioritize your physical and mental health above all else. Most of us were taught that to be successful we had to sacrifice ourselves. Being exhausted and frazzled is normal for a go-getter. What a lie we all innocently bought into. If you want to see lasting success with ease and joy, then you must intentionally map out your time every day. Inst

Money is easy to make….WE are the ones who make hard. Do you feel like making big money seems so far out of reach sometimes? Then you see other people who appear to have all the abundance come to them so quickly and with such ease….it frustrates you like, “what in the hell am I doing wrong?” You see, I’ve made a lot of money the haaaard way…. forcing, grinding, working 7 days a week, being miserable kind of cash. This my friend, is not abundance. I would be so bewildered and low-key jealous of friends and strangers on the internet who seemed to attract all the money, opportunities, and experiences without even trying very hard…. meanwhile I was over her spinning my wheels, in a constant state of anxiety, and on a speed train heading to burnout city. When I begged the Universe for a sign, for help, for some kind of break….it delivered, but not in the form I was asking for (of course). When the student is ready, the right teachers appear. I’m honored and privileged to be that teacher to so many of you. At this

Aren’t you tired of it all??? Aren’t you exhausted by your own self-doubt? Sick of the negative thoughts in your brain? Way over scrolling and comparing yourself to Polly the Influencer? Annoyed at the fact you keep toe dipping on your dreams instead of just doing that damn thing? I pray you answered YES to these, because this level of frustration and discomfort will push you to stop messin’ around and go ALL IN on your dreams.  In fact, it’s required for anyone who I agree to coach privately. Real change and action only occurs when we are uncomfortable, miserable, and discontent. Think about it, when was the last time you put a ton of time and energy into changing something when you were content? After coaching thousands of you, I can confidently say, those who get the best results and make the most money, are the people who are in pain with where they are at, and say, “enough is enough already,” and go ALL IN regardless of the fear. If you are in pain right now >>> it’s there for a reason….to light a fire u

There are secrets to creating a standout brand. Many experts have shared them, even taught them, but not in the direct way I’m about to explain them to you today. If you want to create a business that makes bank, you must do one of three things: Solve a unique problem Solve a common problem in a unique way Solve a problem to a unique demographic of people. BUT….this alone isn’t enough, no matter how great of a solution you have on your hands. In order to for people to buy your product or service, they need to be aware it exists. Haven’t you seen great products, TV series, and restaurants disappear? You wonder WTF happened “it was so good?” There weren’t enough people consistency consuming, period. The secret to a successful business is to position it to stand out from the crowd. There’s a catch, you must be willing to NOT be for everyone, in order to make it crystal clear who your products and services are perfect for. Here are questions to help get you started: What makes your business different? What ups

Anything that comes after these four words is a lie. I hear these words from you guys multiple times a day… and I used to say and think them dozens of times a week my self. “If I could just…” IF I COULD JUST get my sh*t together. IF I COULD JUST be more motivated. IF I COULD JUST stop procrastinating. IF I COULD JUST be more disciplined. Because then what? Then you would actually follow through with the actions required to get what you want? I really believed that too! If you’re being real honest with yourself, how long have you been saying these “If I could just” statements around your goals? My strong guess is…. It’s been so long you don’t even know. This simple shift helped me get out of this limiting mind trap and dream killer: Replace these statements you say and think with questions. “So, how can I better manage my tendency to procrastinate?” “How can I hold my self accountable to being more disciplined?” “What actions can I take to feel like I have my sh*t more together?” In switching these from statem