Marriedpreneur Life

Reaching the first 100 of ANYTHING is a milestone. Right? Whether it’s your first 100 clients, speeches, dollars, YEARS... 100 is to be celebrated. We believe the more you celebrate the milestones, the more you enjoy the journey, and that’s what we’re all about here at Marriedpreneur Life. So today, as we celebrate  episode 100 of the Marriedpreneur Life podcast we want to share some of our biggest behind-the-scenes lessons this podcast has taught us. These SAME lessons translate into everyday life- whether you are thinking of starting a podcast or in some way want to amplify your message, then we’ve got something for ya! Check it out, and let us know which one is  your biggest takeaway!! O.L & Sway   P.S. If you haven't downloaded our free Marriedpreneur Map training that puts all of the steps to building a strong Marriedpreneur legacy TOGETHER, grab your free download HERE. P.P.S Not an iTunes user? Take a listen to the podcast over at MarriedpreneurLife.com

The first house we purchased a year into our marriage was a new build. Another family actually started building it, and about 75% of the way through, decided not to finish it. However, they already put tons of upgrades that we would have wanted, and we didn't have to get through the tedious process of having to manage the contractors everyday to be sure they were on schedule because it was nearly complete when we purchased it.  We were both new to owning a home and owning a new one at that.  There were SO many perks that came with a new build that we really weren't aware of until we crossed that road. For example, the major aspects of the house came with a standard 10-year warranty. So, when a tornado came through, we were covered. If the HVAC unit went out, we were covered. If there were ANY kind of major issues, we were covered.  The thing is, we were a bit clueless about how awesome that was until we needed it! The same concept applies as marriedpreneurs + legacy builders.  We can

Guys, this past season has been a bit hectic. We initially thought it was because things were happening all at once, but there was more to it.  Our full plates weren't something that was going away any time soon.  It was imperative that we paid attention to the deeper shift happening.  We prayed.  We discussed. We observed.  Now, It's time we scale our team so we can be in a position to have a life that is truly enjoyable and not STRESSFUL! Fulfilling not frustrating Satisfying not straining. In episode 97 of the Marriedpreneur Life podcast, we're sharing: The sure-fire way to know it's time to scale (note: if you feel like it’s time, its probably PAST time!) Three ways we're finding great talent and coming up with some pretty amazing interviews (this simple strategy is a deal breaker!) How we've divyed out roles during this whole process (from doing the interview, to referrals, to creating the job descriptions, etc. this thing requires partnership on every level!) We're hop

If you listened to our last episode (96) we did a run down of the three main categories of marriedpreneurs. However, what we DID NOT share were those in-between-rough spots when we were transitioning from spousalpreneurs to couplepreneurs. (In short, this happens in a marriage when it starts off with only one entrepreneur and turns into TWO full-time entrepreneurs working together!) It was a rough season for us to be transparent. In the end,however, it worked to our advantage (but at the time, we second guessed everything). Our main goal is to encourage you as you and your spouse may be transitioning as well. So, in episode  97 of The Marriedpreneur Life podcast, here's what we're spilling the beans on: How we made the decision TOGETHER to not return to a 9-5 after being fired from one The one strategy we used to create multiple revenue streams (not because of sheer desire but because of sheer necessity!) How we handled our struggle with roles, responsibilities and lost identity during this sensitiv

Regardless if you’re the only entrepreneur in your marriage, and you feel alone at times, or if you two are down in the trenches together, the business will undoubtedly impact the marriage! We’ve lived through the three categories of Marriedpreneurship, and each season brings its unique challenges and benefits. So, in episode 96 of the Marriedpreneur Life podcast, we’re sharing our story of living through these phases and what to look out for. We’re covering: How to know which kind of Marriedpreneur you two are in now  The unique benefits of each category of Marriedpreneurship (you may be surprised by some of these- most take them for granted). The biggest challenges we’ve faced in each category, and a simple remedy to overcome it. You will likely see yourselves in one main category and possibly more than one as you transition and grow. Our hope is that this episode will further equip and prepare you for your next season. We know how lonely this path can feel, and the truth of the matter is: YOU’RE

My mom was on the plane (in the air) when it caught on fire..no lie.  She was the only one who saw it initially. Thankfully, it was on the inside of the plane so it could be quickly contained.  I was in disbelief when  she recanted the story to me like it was something out of 007 or something... Well, the point is that SHE was the one to identify, and once she alerted the crew they were able to address it immediately with an extinguisher  You see, what if the extinguisher was not visible? What if they couldn't find it?  What if... Point is this: VISIBILITY IS CRITICAL! It doesn't really matter how much value you have to offer if no one knows where you are...right? In episode 95 of the Marriedpreneur Life podcast we're sharing How we recently landed a pretty major media opportunity for FREE and how we will be using it the FULLEST to impact nearly 1.2 million families across the States! The difference between a visibility plan and an actual marketing plan Why you NEED a visibil

As crazy as it may sound, when I married my husband, I did NOT fully trust him.  But trust is a 'funny' thing... I didn't have doubts of him being unfaithful, but I DID have other doubts and lacked trust in some other critical areas. For example, at the time we had two totally different money mindsets and how to create and grow wealth. Me being an entrepreneur my whole life, I saw things a bit differently, more frugal if you will at times.  Yes, he'd been in the banking industry for a few years at the time, but I knew the kinds of money decisions he made up until that point, and to be quite frank, I had serious concerns.  It wasn't just financial concerns (although, those were there) it was more about my emotional security and us having a clear way to resolve an issue when we vehemently disagreed.  There was NO way we could have successfully ran ANY kind of business together with at the time with THOSE kind of trust issues.  Thank God, things have changed (and are still changing for t

I know we don't like to talk about it much because, well, bruised toes will be the outcome  BUT if we're totally transparent, we MUST confront the 'buying-followers elephant.

I'm sure by now we've all heard of the scarcity vs. abundance thinking.  and, to be quite frank, it's a legit thing.  The thing about scarcity thinking is you don't realize you have it (on some level) until you are confronted with others who don't. Scarcity (or limiting beliefs) will do just that..LIMIT your growth.  It's like putting a cap on your own potential.  Crazy, right? The great thing is, limiting beliefs can in fact become UNlimited beliefs.  FACTS.  (ask us how we know).  On episode #92 of the Marriedpreneur Life podcast we're not holding back and sharing these tried and true strategies to breakthrough whereEVER you guys are on your journey. We're talking about: The SURE sign you may have a limiting belief (and you likely don't even know it).  The different ways to confront your spouse's limiting beliefs based on his/her personality (it makes a huge difference!) The NUMBER one way to confront and CHANGE your limiting beliefs to UNlimited beliefs (it's a

My mom taught me how to read a map back in elementary school. Sway here- I promise you, she ALWAYS had a map of whatever area we were driving to.  Long before Mapquest (ya'll remember that?

I remember during our first few launches how our unsubscribe numbers starting climbing... We were so nervous and thought we had to do something to get them to come back and be a part of our amazing tribe. But we had it all wrong. We were so focused on pleasing others that we failed to be ourselves.  It's like we were scared to even ask or offer anything to them... How crazy is that? You have something to offer that will help change life as they know it but you are fearful to offer it because you don't want them to leave....what kind of twisted thinking?.... Thank God for freedom from fear! Today, when we do launches or make an offer, we actually look FORWARD to getting unsubscribes. Here's why... Those who unsubscribe aren't buyers anyway..and if they DO buy,  they would make poor customers (and who wants meloncholy whiners trying to shake the amazing vibe in your tribe?

Go take a listen to how we’re using adding REAL value (not fake value) as a part of our marketing strategy. Marketing doesn’t have to be slimy or disingenuous. In episode #89 of the Marriedpreneur Life podcast, we’re sharing simple ways you can add REAL value and dream clients to your tribe today! 

We're in the middle of launching our Marriedpreneur Growth Kit, and neither OL or I could have anticipated the fulfilling (and at times intense) journey when creating it. Wow! It's been so much fun to watch couples reply and email us! That's what we hoped and planned and built it for, but it's still the best feeling in the world to watch.  Ok, One MORE last thing, over on today’s podcast Episode #88, we’re sharing how and why imperfect action is better than perfect inaction.  

Working with your spouse in business? We need to answer a question that we are often asked about working with your spouse when you have business differences.

Today, it's a little bit of a rant we would say...    Probably the biggest hangup couples have with regards to starting and scaling a business together right now, is the belief that marriage and business don’t mix and will always end up in regret.   It's pretty easy to come to that conclusion when: We live in a rush-and-hustle culture that presents their own definition of success vs. each couple defining success for themselves. #powermove You two are so different and have varying views of how to move forward in business. (which really isn’t a bad thing…) It’s challenging to get a simple date night in without talking about business. It’s easy to turn into roommates. You're constantly running doing mostly non-revenue activities because they need to be done, and you’re not taking time daily to tweak your systems.  The logical conclusion is...working together is drab, so you might as well go at it on your own.  But before you nod your head yes, you'll want to check out our podcast

I recall a few years back when we had the largest emotional set back to date. We were super excited about the program we were about to launch. However, what we didn't have was a launch strategy.  We invested more than ever before, and we thought our marketing was going to be effective, but the issue was we were just putting pieces together- it wasn't a real launch system. Over the years, we invested in more coaching, and things became a lot clearer as far as the NECESSITY if having a launch strategy.  It's NOT what we originally thought.  What tripped us up was when we saw different influencers launching and it seemed to be successful. However, we were only seeing a fraction of the work- not what was really going on behind the scenes.  Recently, in our 2ccx coaching program, we were given the ins and outs of a pressure launch campaign (a way to pre-sell and release a new product). We. are. geeked to implement it to what we have already been doing. So, we want to take you behind the scenes

This past Sunday was monumental. We were installed as Pastors. Never saw it coming. Never sought it out. More about that in a future email… Now, we’re realigning our lives and calling to both the marketplace and ministry (and marriage of course).  But we feel like there are other couples who are walking this unique call out as well.  With that being said, we're changing some things.  Whenever you're called to do something differently, people won't get it and think you're crazy. The cost of leadership is going first AND going against the grain. This past month we had to make yet another decision that - to some - sounds backward, but we know it's the cost of walking in a greater calling.  If you two are doing well and feeling like you're in your flow, that's great! However, if you've been seeking the next step to understand how to make progress towards the next goal, then we've got good news for you.  Here's what we're diving into:  How your chemistry in marriage can dictate you

Burnout is an interesting thing.  Sometimes we get burned out because of the TYPE of clients we choose to work with. Not all clients/ prospects are created equal.  So, if you're feeling drained or unfulfilled with your lack of progress,  it's not them really...it's you.  As entrepreneurs and leaders, it's our job to train people how to treat us.   In episode #83 of the Marriedpreneur Life Podcast, we're sharing with you the steps that we implement to focus on our DREAM clients (which are way better than your IDEAL client). You're gonna hear about: How our his/hers approach is totally different but still helps us get to our goal as a team  The real reason why you may be attracting the wrong clients (and don't even realize it) This episode is full of practical insight that will boost your confidence and clarify your value. Check it out, and if it's helpful, be sure to let us know in a review or in our IG stories. Just tag us at @MarriedpreneurLife Here's to living powerfully in

So this past week ,we spent time with friends and family in Dallas. With it being Father’s Day weekend, we especially couldn’t pass up the opportunity to slide through our grandparent's house. Those moments  are rare. This month they will celebrate 65 YEARS of marriage- that’s like a lifetime..right? So, of course, in true Buckley form, we asked them for a quick interview so we could share with you some of the nuggets they often share with us behind closed doors. We promised them it would be short and simple, and we would only ask ONE main question.  You’re gonna want to hear about it and how they’re still rockin’ with each other through businesses and losing children and so much more… It’s pretty powerful.  Check out episode #82 of the MarriedpreneurLife Podcast and let us know your biggest takeaway over in your IG stories. Just tag us at MarriedpreneurLife Here’s to living powerfully in sync, OL and Sway P.S. You really WILL be encouraged by their amazing insight! Whatever you two are facing,

We're gonna take you behind the scenes of some VERY transparent convos we've had over the years… and we STILL have these convos…  Ever since the hubby got fired about six years ago, we’ve had the saaaame conversation about him pulling his weight, BUT it’s not the same section of the thread.  We move along. Different seasons require different parts of this convo to resurrect.  Although he’s no longer dealing with his new identity as an entrepreneur, he does sometimes get so laser focused in one area of the business that he may drop another (important area) and I pick that part up.  It’s ok the first few times, but the moment I feel that he thinks it’s supposed to be that way, I have to speak up.  In episode #81 of the Marriedpreneur Life podcast, we are GOING there...well, actually  I’M going there  since I’m doing this one solo mode….and you’ll see why. I have a feeling that I’m not the only wife who has ever felt taken for granted, so that’s why I’m sharing how we deal with