Still Standing With Valerie Silveira

People have a need for connection. We often find this connection through shared interests, such as our favorite sports teams, musical groups, culinary passions, or a great book. It's fascinating how a simple act like buying a new car can suddenly make us feel connected to others who own the same vehicle. We may exchange smiles or nods with fellow drivers who share our automotive choice. We also seek connection in tragedy, loss, and hardship. While it is valuable to connect with those who understand our struggles, it's crucial to avoid being defined solely by these experiences. We must remember that we are more than the labels society might impose or that we place on ourselves. Some can define our entire existence! Yes, tragedies and heartbreaks are genuine, and they shape us, but they are not the entirety of who we are. Life is a tapestry woven with various experiences, both pleasant and painful. Embrace the fact that you are a multifaceted individual who has encountered numerous ups and downs, successes a

My special guest this week is Casey Arrillaga! He is a clinical social worker and chemical dependency counselor who has lived with and around addiction for all his life. In his book “Realistic Hope: The Family Survival Guide for Facing Alcoholism and Other Addictions” and his podcast “Addiction and the Family”, he shares the knowledge gained from conducting hundreds of family workshops and helping thousands of family members, and also weaves in his own narrative of recovery both as an individual and a family member. In his newest book, Casey and illustrator Skye Hilton worked together to help kids start to find hope and healing by giving them a voice and encouraging them to use it in facing the difficult subject of a parent's addiction. The message of the book, seen through a child's eyes, is based on years of working with family members of all ages, as well as his personal experience of wishing as a child that his own father would find sobriety. This is what we talk about on this episode. Not only is Case

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, Valerie tackles the difficult topic of moving forward when someone you love is unable to do so. She emphasizes that taking steps towards personal growth and progress is not selfish or a sign of losing hope. Instead, it is a testament to the value you hold in the world and the importance of fulfilling God's purpose for your life. Valerie encourages listeners to let go of guilt and understand that caring for oneself does not mean abandoning or giving up on loved ones facing their own challenges. It is about recognizing that your own well-being is just as vital and honoring your own journey towards becoming a beacon of hope and courage. By choosing to move forward, Valerie reminds us that we not only create space for our own growth but also inspire others to do the same. We become living examples of resilience and strength, offering hope to those who may be struggling to find their own way. Valerie empowers listeners to embrace the notion that by prioritizing our own

Brenda Ferland is an incredible warrior with a story that will inspire you to stand up and stand on yours! She is a strong woman of faith who has overcome tremendous trauma and pain, and continues to walk this earth determined to help others find purpose in the pain. Connect with Brenda at: https://purposeinthepainretreat.com/ Follow her at: https://www.facebook.com/purposeinpaintretreat/ Connect with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com

Courage is powerful, not just for ourselves, but for those around us. As we cultivate courage within ourselves, we become a source of inspiration and hope for others. We can ignite a fire within them, showing them that bravery is both possible and necessary. In a world filled with fear and uncertainty, people are searching for leaders to guide them. They need someone to show them the way and motivate them to step out of their comfort zones. When we display our own courage in the face of fear, we become living proof that it is possible to overcome our greatest challenges. Connect with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com Listen to Podcast Episodes at: www.ValerieSilveira.com/Podcast Follow her at: https://www.facebook.com/ValerieSilveira Watch videos at: https://www.youtube.com/valeriesilveira

Do you have a loved one in addiction or recovery? This POWERFUL episode with my guest, Sandy Banuelos, will give you insight and perspective into so many questions you have had about your loved one's life in addiction. Here message contains incredible wisdom and so much hope! Sandy said, "I never thought I would make it to 42!" Now, she has a fulfilling life. Still living with many challenges (like the rest of us), she does so with an incredible attitude of gratitude. Connect with Valerie at www.ValerieSilveira.com Find the Podcast at: www.ValerieSilveira.com/podcast Follow Valerie at: https://www.facebook.com/ValerieSilveira/

Raising grandchildren is a big commitment, and it's not for everyone, but these two incredible Warriors knew it was part of their path. They bravely said "yes" and have never regretted their decision. My Warriors in Hope guests, Jeri Griess and Dianne Chatelain, discuss the difficulties, but importantly the passion their decision has ignited in them with their determination to leave a legacy inside their grandchildren and beyond. Connect with Jeri & Dianne as Warriors in Hope! www.WarriorsinHope.com

Building courage is crucial for personal growth and overcoming challenges. Just like physical muscles, courage needs regular exercise to stay strong. Start by identifying areas where fear holds you back and take small steps outside your comfort zone. Surround yourself with a supportive network for encouragement and guidance. Challenge negative self-talk and celebrate every accomplishment along the way. Remember, building courage takes time, so be patient and embrace discomfort as a sign of growth. With practice, your courage muscles will strengthen, empowering you to seize opportunities and live a fulfilling life. Connect with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com Follow her at: https://www.facebook.com/ValerieSilveira Watch videos at: https://www.youtube.com/valeriesilveira

We avoid adversity like the plague. As if it’s something to endure, but what if it’s is here to serve us? Rather than hating adversity, let it be the jet fuel that propels you toward your purpose. It's your superpower. Listen to this episode to learn why! Connect with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com Follow her at: https://www.facebook.com/ValerieSilveira Watch videos at: https://www.youtube.com/valeriesilveira

We all know what happens when our hearts stop! As the heart of the family, Warrior, you cannot afford to let your emotional and mental heartbeat stop. You are the heartbeat of your family, friendships, groups, and your circle of influence. In this message, Valerie shares stories and analogies to motivate you to become the Warrior this world deserves and needs. Connect with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com Follow her at: https://www.facebook.com/ValerieSilveira Watch videos at: https://www.youtube.com/valeriesilveira

You are courageous and I can prove it! Listen to this engaging episode with some entertaining and enlightening stories to help inspire you to believe you are already courageous! Connect with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com Follow her at: https://www.facebook.com/ValerieSilveira Watch videos at: https://www.youtube.com/valeriesilveira

It's natural to feel disappointed when life doesn't go as planned. We all have hopes and dreams that may never come to fruition. However, it's important to remember that life is full of unexpected challenges and detours. Instead of getting stuck on what didn't happen, focus on what you can do now to create a fulfilling life. Check out this latest episode for a new perspective on your amazing life. For more perspective on your NEW amazing life, come to the Freedom Experience in October! www.ValerieSilveira.com/events

Independence is about taking control of your own life and breaking free from external control. It's a reminder that you are worthy and capable of living life on your own terms. You don't have to let society dictate your actions or limit your potential. Declare your independence today and start living your best life. Be at The Freedom Experience to set yourself free!! www.ValerieSilveira.com/events

Suffering is unavoidable. It is a part of the deal on planet earth. But, Misery is Optional! Manna has experienced many different types of trauma from early childhood on, but you would never know it listening to her. Join us for this down to earth and enlightening discussion with a true warrior. Manna Ko has a diverse field of experience as an Entrepreneur, Author, multiple TEDx Speaker, International Speaker, Educator, Scholar, and Transformational Leader. She has an EdD in Leadership for Change, a PhD in Philosophy, an MA in Psychology, and graduate certifications in several health disciplines. And more! One of her rare gifts is the ability to see people’s one-of-a-kind calling – and to know how to help them step into that promise. She is a fierce, yet fun-loving, and compassionate modern-day warrior, committed to being a voice of truth, justice, honor, kindness, and generosity for humanity (hence, "HuMannaTea"). She lives a grateful life with her family and "furmily." Find Manna at: www.https://www.h

Parents of children with addiction often face judgment and blame. If you are a parent, have you ever wanted to tell the world we are not that different from you? If you are not, have you wondered what parents of addicts must be like? Either way, this message is one everyone needs to hear. Get Your Tickets for The Freedom Experience: www.ValerieSilveira.com

My special guest, Tucker Stine, shares his realization at 40 that "the only thing I needed to change was everything." This epiphany came at a time when everything seemed great on paper. But what was happening inside and in his personal life didn't mirror that piece of paper. You will relate to Tucker's story on some level (or many). Connect with Tucker at: www.TuckerStine.com

Life is unpredictable and we all face obstacles and challenges that may make us feel like giving up. It's natural to get caught up in the negative events and define our lives by them, but this can be limiting and keep us from experiencing the many possibilities that life presents. It's important to keep in mind that life is constantly changing and evolving. The tough times can teach us valuable lessons and lead us to discover our strength. If you are tempted to put a period at the end of one part of your story (or already have), you need this message! Link arms with Valerie at: www.WarriorsinHope.com

We use labels to distinguish and identify. Not all labels are bad, but those that are the toughest parts of our stories tend to be those we stamp on our forehead! In this entertaining episode, you will be inspired to get out the scissors and remove the label. Link arms with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com

You are stronger than you think. You can make it through more than you imagine (or can't even imagine). It's time to start to conquer what you fear most! Link arms with me at: www.ValerieSilveira.com

Comparison in itself is not a bad thing. It can be a helpful tool. But, when it comes to comparing our Beasts (our struggles, losses, etc.), it's very dangerous. Let this message inspire you to stay out of the comparison trap. Link arms with Valerie at: www.ValerieSilveira.com