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Join us as we chat with the “Dildo Duchess” Zoë Ligon all about orgasms, erogenous zones, masturbation, sex toys, why sex is more than just penetration, and so much more. We also answer a sex question - I can orgasm better from masturbation rather than partnered sex.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Zoë Ligon is a Detroit-based sex educator, journalist and artist who is also the proprietor of progressive online sex toy emporium, Spectrum Boutique, where she has made it her life’s work to blast away the stigmas and misinformation that prevent us from having the amazing sex we all deserve. As the founder of Spectrum Boutique, Zoe Ligon established the sex positive toy store 5 years ago to help all identities, genders and experience levels fulfill their sexual desires as a self-affirmation and human right. Zoe hand-picks each and every product Spectrum carries, and each selection is 100% ethical. The mission of her brand is to celebrate self-love and encourage conversat

How can men show up in a bigger way in relationship? How can they be of service without becoming a servant? How does this increase passion in the union? And what about nudity and penis shame? What gives? We also answer a sex question about nipple orgasms!  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. About our repeat guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experiences, men's retreats, Tantra and transformational festivals, men's circles, and group coaching programs across the world. To learn more visit themasculinepillar.com/. Want to sign up for The Pillar? Use code SHAMELESS SEX for a discount! Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Ge

In this episode we chat all about anal sex, rimming, sex toys, fuck boys, and all the in betweens with Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe of the CockTales Dirty Discussions podcast.  We also answer a sex question: My partner listens to your podcast and now thinks he knows everything about sex. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.  About our guests: CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long-term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences and dating lives. You can listen to CockTales on all of the podcast apps. To learn more visit https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube A

Dr. Nan joins us once again - only this time alongside her wonderful partner John -  to talk all about how to stay connected and keep the intimacy alive in longterm relationships. Whether you are monogamous, monoga-mish, poly, or open, Dr. Nan has some great relationship advice for you.  We also answer a sex question: Why does my partner sleep all day after we have sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.  She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters a

How do we navigate the world of online dating? What should people know about when choosing a dating app or platform? And how does someone make a great dating profile?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Sarah Sloane is a sex and relationship educator and coach, as well as the director of operations & communications at #open - a dating app that prioritizes personal empowerment and choice. For the past two decades Sarah has been helping others create the sex, intimacy, and relationships that they desire through education & personal coaching. To learn more about the app, visit hashtagopen.com   Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 15%

What is premature and delayed ejaculation, and how can folks develop more control?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.  About our guest: Keeley Rankin is a sex and relationship coach, pleasure advocate and a sexy-preneur. She works with individuals and couples who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. Keeley received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. For seven years, she worked closely with the world-renowned author and transpersonal psychotherapist who coined the phrase ‘spiritual bypass’, John Welwood. She also specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples. Pre-Covid, she would meet couples in Paris for the a unique-extreme-sexy-connected date night – private sessions aimed to prep the couple for an evening at a sex club. She has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male se

Happy Anal August! What is a Prostate Orgasm? How is it different from a regular orgasm? What are the benefits of prostate massage and stimulation? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. He grew up in Los Angeles and attended the University of Southern California where he majored in biology. After his undergrad studies he took a different path, starting a successful business partnership in the area of computer technology that lasted for 30 years.   His relationship with Aneros began in 2002, and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since. This started when he was a customer and purchased their very first device. The impact on him was life-changing turning around a decades-old health condition while revealing a powerful new orgasmic experience he would later call the “Super O”. After a series of productive conversations with the owners of the company,

How does one become a dick-sucking expert and Master Oralist? What is the art of sucking dick? And how can oral sex lead to empowerment?  We also answer a sex question: My partner thinks oral sex is degrading... Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 23.  About our guest: Headusa Divine is a Master Oralist, Webcam Model, Self-Published Author and Content Creator. She is a Dick Sucking Expert and author of The Blowjob Handbook where she shares her experiences, techniques, and advice to help self-empower and improve within the art of sucking dick. Not only does she focus on the physical aspects of sucking dick, she also incorporates the mental and spiritual aspects, because they are just as - if not - more important. Her goal in sharing her wisdom and experiences from entertainment & educational perspectives is to influence the fellatio culture as well as for you to learn new techniques & skills so that you are inspired to become your own Master Oralist. To learn more visit iamheadusa.com Other l

How can parents build confidence in talking about sex with their kids? What about sex after having kids - how can couples keep the intimacy alive - especially when time is limited? What about folks in poly/open relationships?  About our guest: Tamica Wilder is a somatic sex coach and multi-qualified therapist with a deep passion for teaching you to re-attune to the language of the body while giving full permission to shamelessly prioritize pleasure and play. She believes that our current cultural narratives around sex, intimacy, pleasure and relationships need a damn good shake up! Never one to shy away from a challenge, Tamica is committed to leading the change. WorkIng with our sexuality, intimacy and the less mastered parts of our human nature can be a tricky and intricate piece of the personal development puzzle. Tamica brings 18 plus years of facilitation and group work experience and guides with compassion, humour, gentleness, love and curiosity, in all that she does. As a mother of 2 little critters, s

Kim explains what - in her opinion - it means to be a Well F**ked Woman, as well as the difference between what she calls gourmet and fast-food sex. She also gives some tips on how can folks have more powerful g-spot/cervical orgasms.  We also answer a sex question about difficulty reaching orgasm.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.  About our guest: Kim Anami is here to infuse more passion into your life and bed. She is a holistic sex + relationship coach, writer and speaker. Her work is a spiritual synthesis of over two decades of Tantra, Taoism, Transpersonal psychology, philosophy and a host of quantum growth-accelerating practices she uses to propel clients into higher stratospheres of connection, intimacy, energy and creativity. Her musings on life and love have graced Playboy, Elle, Marie Claire, Shape, The Sunday Times (UK), The Daily Mail, GQ and national talk shows from E! Network to CNN and NPR.  She divides her time between Bali and Los Angeles and a host of beaches in betw

What makes great sex? Is it really all about the orgasm? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.  About our guest: Sarrah Rose is a Tantra practitioner devoted to helping others reach a higher plane of passion and pleasure and she realized early on that the only way to get there was through a holistic approach. You can’t make love better if you do not love yourself, you can’t feel more in intercourse if you are not in touch with your body. She developed her techniques by studying tantra, mixing in evolutionary biology, and adapting it for practical use in the modern world. Sarrah wasn’t always the liberated teacher she is known to be. Like most of us, she used to needlessly deprive herself of joy and pleasure. Through the study of Tantra, she was able to turn her life around. To learn more visit tantricactivation.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.

How can women learn to confidently ask anyone for anything and assert and their power - both in and out of the bedroom? Join us as we interview badass empowerment queen and Dominatrix Kasia Urbaniak. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21.  About our guest: Kasia Urbaniak is the founder, CEO and headmistress of The Academy, a school that teaches women the foundations of power and influence. Over the course of nearly 20 years, she has worked as professional Dominatrix and has practiced Taoist alchemy in one of the oldest female-led monasteries in China. Since founding The Academy in 2013, Kasia has taught hundreds of women practical tools to step into leadership positions in their relationships, families, workplaces, and wider communities. Her upcoming book, Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power, offers precise, practical instruction in how to stand in your power, find your voice, and use it well. To learn more visit weteachpower.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSE

We are IN LOVE with this episode! Buck Angel - Adult Performer, Filmmaker, Activist, & Sex-Toy Designer - joins us to tell us all about his experience as a trans man with everything from what it was like transitioning from female to male, why he stands by the belief that  "It's not what between your legs that defines you", and so much more! We also answer a sex q: Best tips for penetrative sex with a small penis?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. Buck Angel is a world-renowned motivational speaker, human rights activist, pioneering filmmaker and adult performer, and transmale sex-toy designer. While Buck was assigned female at birth, he never felt it in his core and struggled through life until he had the life-changing opportunity to transition from female to male and finally live life authentically. Buck’s mission is to inspire people to re-define gender and to foster a new generation as they discover the fluidity of sexuality and navigate gender politics. His message "It's not wh

What is the link between sex and exercise? How does exercise increase libido and sexual response? And what is an exercise-induced orgasm? We also answer a sex question about ways to let go of a negative body image. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.  About our guest: A competitive runner since sixth grade, Dr. Jason Karp quickly learned how running molds us into better, more deeply conscious people, just as the miles and interval workouts mold us into faster, more enduring runners. This passion that Jason found as a kid placed him on a yellow brick road he still follows as a coach, exercise physiologist, author of 10 books and 400+ articles, speaker, and educator. He is the 2011 IDEA Personal Trainer of the Year and two-time recipient of the President’s Council on Sports, Fitness & Nutrition Community Leadership award. His REVO₂LUTION RUNNING™ certification has been obtained by fitness professionals and coaches in 23 countries. To learn more visit run-fit.com Other links: Get 10% off +

Mr Kristofer and Amp of the Watts the Safeword Podcast join us to talk about various aspects of kink including what it means to be a Daddy, puppy play, urethral sounding, and more! We also answer a sex question about a fur coat fetish.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guests: Mr Kristofer and Amp are both sex positive educators who create kinky content under the brand Watts The Safeword. A sex positive youtube channel and matching podcast that destigmatizes and educates on all things kinky. Mr. Kristofer has been in the BDSM Community for over 30 years and considers himself “Guard Classic.” He has directed gay male porn for the last 30 years for Falcon and COLT. Where Amp is a blogger, sex worker, activist and producer of "Watts The Safeword," a sex education channel with a few kinks. With his background as a sex educator and sex worker he, along with guests of all abilities, backgrounds, experiences and kinky lifestyles, destigmatize topics on sex and other LGBTQ+ issues.

What is the adult industry really like? Tune in to hear all the juicy details from erotic photographer and podcaster Holly Randall.  We also answer a sex question about how to find ethical porn.  Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 15. About our guest: Holly Randall is an erotic photographer and host of the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast - a series that sheds light on those working in the adult industry and explores all topics of sex with authors, educators, and advocates. Holly interviews some of the biggest names in the adult industry, and various non-porn guests who touch on the subject of sex in one way or another. With an honest and humorous outlook on life, Holly strips away the misconceptions on people who work in the sex industry, and offers sex-positive discussions on various social and political issues. You can follow Holly on both Instagram and Twitter at @hollyrandall. To learn more visit hollyrandallunfiltered.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSE

Amy is grieving. She is going through the waves of heartache and breakup. April is in the process of reevaluating her current relationship. This episode is not about bashing partners or ex's or airing out anyone's dirty laundry. It's about expressing our vulnerability alongside tips and tricks on how to move through breakups and heartache. Whether you've been through heartache, are going through one now, or will go through one in the future, there is probably something here you will relate to. Because F*CK, breakups and heartache are hard.   Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com      

What are some of the misconceptions about bisexuality? What is the power of sexual fluidity, and can people learn to be more sexually fluid? Also, what is “The Power of the Pause-Up level with edging” and how can you use a pause to increase the power of orgasm? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Monique Gomez is an intimacy and embodiment coach, educator and TEDx speaker. She serves others to support clarifying their relationship with their intimate selves to live in deep satisfaction with their sexuality, relationships, body, mind, spirit and heart. She speaks about the Power of the Pause and intuition as a tool for living authentically. Her passion is helping others heal sexual wounding, live consciously and embodied. To learn more visit moniquegomez.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your se

Wow, what a powerful episode! Marlee Liss joins us to share her story about why she chose the restorative justice route with her rapist and how it helped her heal her trauma. Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual violence and therefore it may bring up some intense emotions. Reminder - all emotions are welcome, be sure to reach out for your resources if you feel you need support, and please be gentle with yourself.  About our guest: Marlee helps women claim sacred sensuality so they can live in self-love and inner wholeness. As a women’s embodied love coach, author and retreat facilitator, she has worked internationally to inspire transformative healing. Marlee’s work is deeply shaped by her background in social work, trauma-informed yoga, somatic sex education, and body image facilitation. In 2019, Marlee founded an organization called Re-Humanize, focused on uplifting cultural standards of empathy. Marlee has shared her story of restorative justice for sexual violence worldwide across major platform

What is swinging and what are the biggest misconceptions about the swinging lifestyle? What are the benefits for non-monogamous couples, and how can partners dip their toes into swinging?  We also answer a sex question: How do I come out to my partner about my desire for non-monogamy? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guests: Brenna and Brian are the hosts of the sex-positive podcast, Front Porch Swingers, where they chronicle their real-life adventures in consensual non-monogamy. They've shared their passion for the swinging lifestyle in many formats, including countless lifestyle podcasts, online publications, Hustler Magazine, and sex education platforms. They are recipients of ASN Lifestyle Magazine's Sexiest Lifestyle Resource in January of 2020, proving that you can educate and titillate at the same time. They host seminars on an array of lifestyle topics, including handling jealousy and how to properly vet potential play partners. Their YouTube channel, also called Fro