Esn: Eloquently Saying Nothing

In this episode we discuss: • Adeyemi Micheal's short film about his mother • Social media in the afterlife • How men treat their partners compared to their mothers • Defending your partner in public regardless of right or wrong • Women being men's 'peace' • If men are good at showing emotions • Wiley's issues with Skepta collaborating with Dizzee • If people should not connect or do business with someone their friend has beef with • Pusha T's interview on Joe Budden • If it's ok to have pillow talk with your mrs about your boys • Ridley Road In Shop being closed down • Good deeds in silence • Diddy & Cassie breaking up • If there is such a thing as wasted time after a relationship • Responsibilities to a partner after a relationship end • Deliverymen trying to chat up women they delivered to • Charlie Sloth's award stage outburst • Sajid Javid's Asian Paedophile tweet Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts

In this episode we discuss: • Our 8th year anniversary • Sending videos via whatsapp • Black people giving blood for Sickle Cell & Lupus sufferers • Taking more of an interest into personal health & well being • Secret whatsapp groups • Negative feedback of ESN #2.095 • Whether we should podcast for ourselves or for the audience • Repercussions of talking trash or moving mad on social media • Mr Exposed of Three Shots getting blackballed due to social media comments • Slumflower potentially losing an Adidas deal due to previous social media comments • What we on the podcast have done that would get us blackballed if we ever blow up • Compassion between the Trans community and those coming to terms with readjusting to their transition • Nicknames and earning the right to call someone by their government name • Racial disparity conduct and what that might mean for the future of work • Work / Pub culture • Sex for promotion at work • #StavrosSays Recommendion : BBC programs 'The Bodyguard' & 'Killing Eve' Con

In this episode we welcome Georgette from Just The Tip Podcast to discuss: • Beard shaming • Jamaican men who can't dance to Afrobeats • Being a unicorn • Do black people travel and have experiences • What type of traveler are you? • Nappily Ever After review • What does the film mean to us. • Dick shaming • What bad sex is and if it's forgivable • If women know and/or discuss when they're bad at sex • Is climax from fellatio accepted as fully pleasing a woman • Khabib vMcGregor UFC beef Connect with our guest Georgette at: @coco_abroad on Twitter And her Just The Tip Podcast #JTTP on all podcast outlets (@justthetippodcast) Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com It's important to subscribe, rate and review us on your apple products. You can do that here... www.bit.ly/esnitunes

In this episode we welcome guests The Mead & discuss: • Movie deaths that touched us • Controversy over last week's episode • The word 'whore' and its effect on women • Being called misogynistic • Singer MNEK blaming straight Black men for poor album sales • Whether the N word is malleable, can it be used for good or is it always bad • Will Smith getting birthday messages from Garcelle Beauvais & Vivica A Fox with pictures of them kissing • Short shaming • Why people ghost each other • Victim blaming • Pet peeves on dates • Women being more placid if they get the good-good, real good. • Top Tips sex advice • How to 'Master the Pussy' Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com It's important to subscribe, rate and review us on your apple products. You can do that here... www.bit.ly/esnitunes

In this episode we discuss: • Fat shaming • Not sharing information with your friends • The difference between box seats and standard seats in a football ground • Friends getting left behind at airports and missing flights • Yellow Pages & Teletext • BlacKkKlansman movie • Misty in the theatre • How long is worth waiting for good food • Kanye West defending Kim Kardashian's honour • What classifies one as a ho/hoe/whore • Suge Knight facing up to 28 years in plea deal • Michel'le's relationships with Dr Dre & Suge Knight • Paul Manafort being moved from one jail to another • Lupe Fiasco's 'Food & Liquor' v Kendrick Lamar's 'Good Kid, M.A.A.D City' • Best debut album ever on Death Row (Doggystyle v The Slim Shady LP v The Documentary v Good Kid, M.A.A.D City) • Immigration Enforcement wrongly accosting UK citizen • Brexit, why people voted Brexit & the idea of the peoples vote • 90 Day Fiancé • Claims of racism and Black male fetishism against the 'Guys We F**ked' podcast • #StavrosSays Recommendion : Scho

In this episode we discuss: • The Power finale (with spoilers 7:29 - 14:50) • Ghetts' 'Ghetto Gospel: The New Testament' album • Machine Gun Kelly v Eminem • Eminem not being a top 10 Emcees • Diddy allegedly getting Tupac killed • How difficult it can be for a popular rapper to battle a less well known rapper • Back home report from Nigeria & Ghana • Moving back to Africa (or not) • Corruption back home • Africa / China relations and loans • The murder of Botham Jean by off duty policewoman in his own home • Closing down Disneyland Paris Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com It's important to subscribe, rate and review us on your apple products. You can do that here... www.bit.ly/esnitunes

In this episode we welcome our guests Ny & also Mo from Colour Out The Box podcast to discuss: • Our first full time job • Mr Wolf school reunion • Wahala experience at the Afro Hair Talk show • Nas dissertation about his relationship with Kelis • The stress of fathers not being able to see their child • Serena's problems at the US open final • Is Serena trying to balance Motherhood, Tennis and being a full time megastar getting to her. • Was the umpire bias • Nike Just do it campaign with Colin Kapenick • Are they just backing Colin for the publicity or do they truly believe in his cause. • Should Nike remove sponsorship from the NFL • Mac Miller R.I.P • Ariana Grande getting backlash for leaving Mac Miller due to his drug problem. • Janet jackson being black balled by a CBS exec • Is it ok for Amandla Stenberg a mix race woman to play a black woman in a real life adaptation. • Wizkid stating he wants to build a school in every African country. • Drake & Meek Mill making up • Faith Evans vs Mary J Bilge "

In this episode we discuss: • Meeting some of the fans of the podcast. • Is it ever ok to cockblock another man • Men that diss other men to get women • Christians that support the new testament bible • Should Africans support their cultural religions • Does hip hop need to have more positive lyrics in the music • Eminem & D Double E album review • Ghett's Black Rose and should he have spoken about colorism in the past • Odell Beckham JR record breaking contract • Carnival & the numerous video shown on social media • Is it wrong for adult women to whine with young boys • Theresa May shanking and thefing! • Podcasts causing friendships to break up • The guys advice on how to run a podcast • Would you let people know if you gave a large sum of money to charity • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Yardie by Idris Elba Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast

In this episode we welcome guest Simply Tops & discuss: • The recent quadruple stabbing in Camberwell • The murder of the young British Nigerian model • Drill music and violence • Women kneeling to their husbands at a traditional engagement • The customs of asking for a woman's hand in marriage • Grime artist Chip's response to criticism over lack of Black women in his Instagram picture • The curse of Ham • Wishing dark skin children on people who don't like dark skin • Whether you need to square a big change in personal appearance with your partner first • Social media not matching real moderate life • Whether it's best to moderate spiteful, racist youtube comments or not • Why Afrobeats is linked with Africa • The Eagles' Greatest Hits album outselling Michael Jackson's Thriller to become biggest seller in America ever • The 'social experiment' Tinder date between one woman and over 100 men • Serana Williams' catsuit being banned from the French Open • If Benny Hill could exist in 2018 • YomsTv overstepp

In this episode we welcome guests Lisa, Afisa & Faith, 3/5 of the 'Let's Tlk' podcast and discuss: • Lux Afrique Polo day • My daughter can't be these women • Teyana Taylor's gangster ways on Jeremih's tour • Jason DeRulo x Selina Gomez • The Brampton Manor • The Polish contingent • The Harlesden Utopia • The idea of a Black UK University • Life insurance beneficiaries • African floats at Carnival • Benevolent Stormzy • If love is a choice Connect with our guests: Let's Tlk are on Instagram @Letstlk_ & Twitter @Lets_tlk. Use the #LetTlk hash and search for the podcast 'Lets Tlk' on Apple Podcasts, Soundcloud and anywhere you get your podcasts Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode we discuss: • Giving blood for the culture • If the ESN podcast is problematic • Getting blocked on social media • Changing for the better as we get older • Black women with straight hair and the best way to challenge that • Whether Black men with straight hair are worth saving • Nicki Minaj's 'Queen' album • 50 Cent collecting his money from strippers • Paying for strippers and paying for sex • Honesty on the ESN podcast • The transition of having no game with women to having game • Paying for girls' drinks or paying for things for a man • If Lyor Cohen is a Culture Vulture • Dame Dash's description of Culture Vulture • How divide & conquer works • The issues with Rwanda, Ugnanda & Congo • The peace after 2 decades of war between Ethiopia & Eritrea • 360 record deals • Supporting Black businesses • Negativity being pushed in the Black community over positivity • The new Peng Life show • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Lux Afrique Polo Event 18th August : http://www.luxafriquepolo.com/ Connect

In this episode we discuss: • How can men so easily leave their children • LeBron James opening a new school • Episode 49 of The Receipts Podcast featuring Oloni • Lying about living alone to a new partner • Starting off relationships with a lie • If we'd invest money in a business that goes against your morals • Hackney's new late night curfew for bars and clubs • If we'd consider moving to Nigeria • If the Joe Budden podcast the podcaster's podcast • Who we'd want to hear do a podcast • What Busta Rhymes' best album is • If men can fall for a woman that they don't find physically attractive just by their personality • If ugly people have to be humble in life • What we'd do if our partner said they settled with us • #StavrosSays Recommendation : D Double E - Back Then https://youtu.be/fBKQhQl2Bmk Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on a

In this episode we discuss: • YouTube show Candid Conversation's 3rd episode • If Black men protect Black women • Comparing Black issues to White issues when the subject was Black issues • A bunch of stuff around interracial dating including why interracial couples tend to marry more than Black & Black ones • Black people's views on public displays of affection • R. Kelly's "I Admit" song • James Gunn being removed from Guardian's of the Galaxy franchise for old tweets • How pedophiles find each other • If Blue Ticks on social media give people extra society credit • If we'd be cool with our friends going out with our widow 20 years after our death • Mandem protocol on holiday when you're sharing a room and your boy brings a woman home and you don't • 'Lady Of The Night' holiday stories • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Boombox Therapy Radio Show with DJ Niki Stylus on www.behindagroove.com Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.face

In this episode we welcome guest Travis Jay and discuss: • Black British Comedians • The Big Narstie Show • Millennials complaining about Generation X & Baby Boomers and vice versa • Having targets set for definitive ages in your life • The pioneers of viral comedic clips • The longevity of comedians • British comedians making it in America • Women expecting men to pay for their 'time' on dates • If it's cool to 'floss' money on a first date • How a woman upgrades herself to good date • Sending mixed messages on dates • Love Island • Hulk Hogan being reinstated to WWE Hall of Fame after 3 years of exile for using the N word • If it's wrong to not overtly show your Black side • Rich African people not contributing to Africa • The Chinese in Africa • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Anker electrical products https://www.anker.com/ Connect with our guest: @travisjayent on Instagram & Twitter Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.faceboo

In this episode we discuss: • Using a different barber for a wedding • Being able to swim • The Trump protests in London • Kylie Jenner being called a self made millionaire • Charlemagne's 17 year old rape accusation • People in their early 20s dating people in their mid teens • Whitney documentary • The continuation of the World Cup • Having an open top bus celebration for coming third place • If it's disappointing for Serena to lose in the Wimbledon final • Drake being at Serena's tennis game around her husband • Drake's Fire In The Booth • Father's being friends with their children • Schooling choices and expectations for children • The relationship we have with our children • Lying to parents • What we thought of Big Narsty's TV programme • #StavrosSays Recommendation : West Coast Rapper 'Caleborate' Soundcloud : https://soundcloud.com/caleborate YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeoGKCRkQKRYEEET-jDd8Ew Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments

In this episode we discuss: • BBQ season in sunny London • Lacking Vitamin D • The chances of trouble rising in the heat • Losing weight or keeping in shape for your partner • Black British people supporting England during the World Cup • The success of Gareth Southgate • How the British press jeopardises the English team with their negativity • Passing culture down to our children • If politics and sports should cross beams or are they completely separate entities • Belgium and King Leopold's legacy of racist torture. • German's accepting their Nazi history and acting upon it • Black men feeling unattractive to European standards • If we personally feel attractive or unattractive • If going out with a really attractive woman made us feel better • Serena Williams saying she's the best tennis player • Why women don't laud Serena Williams as much as they do Beyonce • Pride and how their movement has spread so far and wide • If it's an issue to teach children about gay parents in pre-school without informing the

In this episode we welcome guest Darran Griffiths and discuss: • If we should feel sorry for Samira from Love Island and if she was a he, if he'd get any sympathy • If a certain type of Black woman is attractive to White men • Why Jason Derulo rubs so many people up the wrong way • Drake's Scorpion album • If the beating Joe Jackson dished out to his children was worth the success they obtained • The Dame Dash and Lee Daniels money dispute • What we'd do if you saw someone who owed us money, that had been 'ducking' us, at a wedding • What we'd do if our wife used all our savings to pay off their students loans, without telling us • If you're obliged to pay off your partners debts • How we think about money in a relationship • Terry Crews discussing his sexual assault with congress and 50 Cent mocking him for not fighting back • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Podcast App Anchor - https://anchor.fm/ Connect with our guest: @griffthejoker on Instagram & Twitter or www.darrangriffiths.com Connect with us at & s

In this episode we welcome guests Mr Vans & Fols of 'Off The Cuff' podcast and discuss: • If you can cheat on your partner and still be described as 'a stand up guy'? • The idea that if you're not married, you're single. • Why women don't want men that are nice • The pros and cons of the "Toxic Feminist" Slumflower • J Hus being caught with a knife and if it's easy to avoid 'that life' when you've made it • If the negative comments aimed at XXXTentacion after his murder are justified or out of order • Juneteenth: Should the abolition of slavery be celebrated • Sway asking rapper, Nick Grant to include non-Black women in his ode to Black women • If a Black person that has a non-Black partner can really be 100% pro-black/for the Black community • If Alan Sugar's Senegalese tweet is racist or not • If Jay Z & Beyonce's album, 'Everything Is Love' released over Nas' 'Nassir' album a coincidence or something more • Teyana Taylor's album K.T.S.E (Keep That Same Energy) • #StavrosSays Recommendation : World Cup Fan

In this episode we discuss: • The significant enough of the MAGA hat • Kanye's Yeezy marketing scheme • Jay Z & Beyonce's On The Run II concert & new Love Is Everything album • Not wanting to go raving anymore • Our views on newer albums having a shorter running time & so few tracks • Nas' Nasir album • Being in a concert crowd of White people singing the N word • What percentage of men go out of their way to make [their] women feel bad • What would happen if everyone from the opposite sex had an indoor 6pm curfew • If we treat better looking people better than not so better looking people • The Hood PTSD theory • If we'd want to know when you're going to die • If we'd prefer to know when you're going to die or how you're going to die • If people who commit suicide are seeking attention • Thinking about the legacy we'd like to leave in the world • If we're seen as good men • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Crooklyn, the movie, the soundtrack & the song Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #

In this episode we welcome guests Mo & Jay of Colour Out The Box podcast and discuss: • Chimamanda Ngozi Adichi's comments that men are more likely to listen to men • Roles given to daughters v sons • What the consequences should be to false rape allegations • Judging women who have a promiscuous past on a present rape allegation • If Black people are actually willing to have therapy • Social media & its effect on mental health • How social media has helped create a generation of people who aren't willing to weaklings • Black women v Black men on social media • How Black men can help/support Black women in their many plight: • #StavrosSays Recommendation : South African singer Shekhinah's album, Rose Gold • Unfiltered Podcast with Akala : https://youtu.be/atfVUgyEIOI • Chimamanda Ngozi Adichi on The Daily Show with Trevor Noah : https://youtu.be/czogWQ34X1Y Connect with our guests Mo & Jay: Instagram, Twitter & Facebook @Colouroutthebox www.colouroutthebox.com and search for the podcast Colour Out The Box on