Esn: Eloquently Saying Nothing

In this episode we discuss: • Growing old and not understanding new slang, specifically the word 'pattern' • Date night with the other half • What makes a spontaneous activity • If African Countries should go back to being tribes as opposed to the coloniser designed countries • The Biafra war / Nigerian Civil War • The issues with Nigeria • If pretty girls know when they're receiving pretty girl privilege • Jermaine Dupri's views on current female rappers • Lauryn Hill (The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill) v Missy Elliott (Supa Dupa Fly) • Swizz Beatz being an overrated producer • Podcast Beef? Joe Budden (The Joe Budden Podcast) v Crissle (The Read) • If A$AP Rocky should be defended by the Black community since his incarceration in Sweden after his lack of support for activism towards Blacks • #StavrosSays: The books from 'The Caine Prize for African Writing' [www.caineprize.com] Voice note us at esnpodcast@gmail.com Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments w

In this episode we welcome guest Darran Griffiths and discuss: • Darran's comedy special • Dealing with hecklers on stage • Best ever comedy special • Uproar around Black singer Halle Bailey playing the live action Ariel in The Little Mermaid live action remake • Kids parties that are actually adult parties • Failing out with friends over wedding planning • What you expect from other people • If it's desirable to be labeled the first Black person to... • If Stormzy deserved a headline spot at Glastonbury after one one album • Deportation for people that have been in the country for most of their lives • Coco Gauff's Wimbledon run • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Text "PAC" to 65075 for Pac code to change contract (UK) Connect with our guest: @griffthejoker on Instagram & Twitter or www.darrangriffiths.com for tickets to his one man comedy show, Essex Bwoy Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.co

In this episode we discuss: • Our favourite adult actresses and their impact on their lives • What counts as too big an ass • The best sex song • Having sex with multiple people on the same day • If it's a bad thing to reminisce over good times with old friends of the opposite sex • Men being men and not letting over men step on their men business • Male and female roles in relationships • Investment strategies • Going out with friends of the opposite sex when in a relationship • Why people wouldn't want bridal party dancing with too much vim at their wedding Voice note us at esnpodcast@gmail.com Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts It's important to subscribe, rate and review us on your apple products. You can do that here... www.bit.ly/esnituneswd

In this episode we welcome discuss: • Big Wahala's wedding • Governments poisoning citizens on purpose • The difference between intent and negligence • The removal of Louis Farrakhan from social media • Why they don't teach financial literacy and Black history in school • The best TV/Movie Dad for Fathers day • When They See Us (Yes, again) • Pulling up on companies to get what you're owed Voice note us at esnpodcast@gmail.com Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts It's important to subscribe, rate and review us on your apple products. You can do that here... www.bit.ly/esnituneswd

In this episode we welcome discuss: • Wahala’s Traditional engagement • The etiquette of whining & what a man should do whwn he gets ’heated’ • Stalking your own children • Blacks getting a pass for racially sensitive conversation • Serena Williams’ White husband trying to learn to do his bi-raicals daughter’s hair by entering a close Black haor group • The advice we give to a Father having his first child (daughter) • Being refused to enter the delivery room when our woman is giving birth by the woman • The dangers for women dating • The sagas of not washing legs in the shower • Webslinger Recommendation : (www.issue6ix.com) • Simple Simon Recommendation : (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-windrush-sunday-block-party-tickets-63324425060) • #StavrosSays Recommendation : - Darren Griffiths’ ‘Essex Bwoy’ comedy show (https://www.darrangriffiths.com/essexbwoy) - The Shield, TV show (https://www.channel4.com/programmes/the-shield) Voice note us at esnpodcast@gmail.com Connect with us at & send your question

In this episode we welcome guest Gbontwi Anyetei and discuss: • Black women in Love Island • Dating someone who has been on Love Island • The compative beauty in Africa • If a stop over in a country means you can claim that as a country you’ve been to • ADOS: American Descendants of Slaves as a new and divisive movement • Black British v African Americans • Gentrification and its effect on the community • How Black people that were not born and raised in Africa are seen when they go back home. • The ‘When They See Us’ series on Netflix, documenting the Central Park 5’s case • What messages parents should give their children if ever stopped by police • Women being sexually assaulted on public transport • Another suspecious death of a Black man in police custody • Why Black people don’t / haven’t risen up violently to retaliate against police brutality and White supremecy • The protests in Liberia against President George Weah • The army killings of citizens In Sudan • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Julie Adenu

In this episode we discuss: • Liverpool's win in the Champions League final over Tottenham • Arsenal's loss to Chelsea in the Europa League final • Anthony Joshua's loss to Andy Ruiz Jr • Coming up with a friend and them leaving you behind • Endz Festival and if it's for mature people • Time flying between 30 and 40 • Our thoughts when we found out our partners were pregnant • Different styles of Fatherhood • What middle class Africans look like and the difference between lower, middle and upper class • The new and very restrictive abortion laws in America • The nuances between losing a child in the womb and abortion • Women having a sex ban for female empowerment • A women measuring her man's penis • Supporting Black business • Different gay terminology • Wearing rainbow clothes as a straight person • #StavrosSays : Netflix's mini series regarding the Central Park 5 'When They See Us' (https://www.netflix.com/title/80200549) Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: www.esnpodcast.com www.fac

In this episode we discuss: • The Marvel comics Onslaught Saga • Disney's upcoming streaming service v Netflix • What programme has the best ending • The idea that people that sleep 8 hours aren't successful • Wedding counselling, what it entails and how useful it could be • Love languages • Doing things we don't wanna do for a relationship • Wanting people to want to do things they don't want to do • Paying people upfront before service rendered • Billionaire Robert F. Smith offering to pay the student debt for all 2019 graduating class of Morehouse College • When public displays of good works is a good thing • The fallacy of academia equaling success • Sir Ken Robinson's ideas on nurturing creativity • Game of Thrones ending • #StavrosSays : Channel 4's music & spoken word programme 'Foot To The Floor' (https://www.channel4.com/programmes/four-to-the-floor) (https://www.youtube.com/user/LemonadeMoneyTV) Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcas

In this episode we discuss: • Stav talking about his travels • What would you do if someone asked you to review something you didn't enjoy but they're a nice person • What it's like living in New York • Mr Wolf sister attempted car jacked in NY • How do you feel about crack heads? Can you spot a crack head from someone who just is a little off? • Would you help a disabled person if you saw them in a gym & they didn't ask for assistance. • What do we think of Falcon being the new Captain America • Are all the major cities the same? • Why does Chadwick Boseman seem to be getting all the historical black characters. • Jeremy Kyle Show getting cancelled • Game of Throne discussion / spoilers.. Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/esnpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media

In this episode we welcome guests Fred Santana & Temi Alchemy The 90's Baby show podcast and discuss: • Stav tales from Toronto • Uncle Behaviour • What the last time your Dad took your Mum on a date • Fred wanting people to cancel meetings. • Ayesha Curry wanting to be desired by other men apart from her husband • Do we as men want to be desired by other women that's not ours • Danny Baker chimp picture of the new royal baby • Is Charles about this Ruler life? • Is outward racism back in fashion • The dating game for young people vs the older generation • Is the art of conversation now dead in dating • Is it more attractive to have woman that doesn't have social media account • Would you go to a woman barber • What would you do if your woman gives another man more food than you in the house. • What jobs would you learn so that your partner doesn't have to go to another man do it. • Would you give up your throne for love? • Liverpool and Spurs reaching the champions league final Connect with our guests

In this episode we welcome guests Mo from Colour Out the Box podcast and discuss: • Taking time off work after redundancy • Game of Throne spoilers! • Waiting for your partner to watch shows • Is Simple Simon raising a road man going too far? • R.I.P respects • Police asking to have rape and sexual assault victims phones for evidence • Instagram hiding likes and followers • How influencers and businesses will be effect by instagram changes • Social media and mental health • Hamza Choudhury FA charges due to Social Media comments • Should companies punish you for things you said online before joining them • Caster Semenya losing her court case • Do you think you should live with someone before you marry them? • What things do you think are men and women jobs in the house? Connect with our guests Mo: Instagram, Twitter & Facebook @Colouroutthebox www.colouroutthebox.com and search for the podcast Colour Out The Box on Spotify, Apple Podcast, Soundcloud and anywhere you get your podcasts Connect with us

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In this episode we welcome guests She Talks & Lala of '2 Girls & A Mic Podcast' and discuss: • Dating down and financially yoking yourself to someone with less ambition • If Black women refuse to change expectations when searching for a partner • Staying with someone who is destructive • Why people can talk about other people but not take their own advice • If money is linked to ego and confidence • Jussie Smollett having to pay for wasted police time • Cardi B being dragged for drugging and robbing 'customers' in her past • News Anchor, Jon Snow, saying "I've never seen so many White people in one place" on TV • If we were White, would we date Black? • Trying to force people to be attracted to what they're not attracted to • Dr. E. Dewey Smith, Jr. - Homosexuals & the Black Church clip (https://youtu.be/rOe3siDAyJA) • How to deliver the word of God to get results • Being agnostic • Hindu's views on hell • Culture v Religion • WARNING: 'US' SPOILER DISCUSSION between 2:06:15 - 2:26:00 • #StavrosSays : Next

In this episode we welcome guests Ola Curvy Creative and discuss: • The correct way to give social information on a podcast • Podcast editing protocol • The four bases of sexual affection • Giving children 'the look' in public to avoid • Embarrassment in public • Dress code for parents picking up children from school • Having pride in watching siblings lying for each other • Self gentrification and what that actually means • Keeping money within the community • Chinese businessman Mike Zhang gets a Chiefhood title in Nigeria • Africans giving their respective Countries away • Ageism being the last acceptable ism and how it affects everyday living Connect with our guest: Ola is @thecurvycreative on Instagram Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com It's important to subscribe, rate and review

In this episode we discuss: • Scammers • Old mobile phone networks • Buying dodgy goods • Spartacus • Diane Abbott drinking on the overground • David Lammy’s sudden social change • What 3 celebrities would you want as a role model for your daughter • The importance of living in an area with your ethnic group • Which area in London is best to live in • Paula Radcliffe discussing the Caster Semenya trial and transgenders in sport • Social experiments • #StavrosSays: Fleabag on BBC and Avengers End Game Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/esnpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media

ESN #2.120: The We've Had Better Years Episode by ESN: Eloquently Saying Nothing is a podcast discussing current events, answering listener questions and dealing with life's big issues (like weave) all with a dash of humour.

In this episode we welcome guest Hazelann and discuss: • Making people wait for WhatsApp responses • Arguing in relationships • When a good time to stop sexing is • Going to Turkey for hair and body surgical enhancements • Life's obstacles and how we've overcome them • Period parties and talking to children about sex • Meditation • £10k a month for 30 years (£3.6m) or £2.6m right now • Nipsey Hussle's Death • If working in the community is worth the risk • Dying young as a mytar or living long, happy and insignificant to the big world • The pros and cons of Caribbean v Africa comedy shows • #StavrosSays : Kingdem Fire In The Booth (https://youtu.be/h-_qTNmk0cQ) Connect with our guest Hazel Ann on Twitter & Instagram @hazelannw Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/esnpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media

In this episode we welcome guests My Own Royalty & Akua Aubrey of 'No Shade Podcast' and discuss: • The cons and cons of Nigerian men • Whether to trust or not to trust at the beginning of a relationship • How women who are vocal are spoiling their relationship • What a 'Pick Me' person is • Feeling threatened your partner may stray, in a relationship • Last week's fancying someone at work situation again • Unexpected cheating • If it's once a cheat/liar, always a cheat/liar • Old school methods of promotion still working • 3 Shots of Tequila's exclusive deal with Spotify • Our missed podcast opportunities Connect with our guests: My Own Royalty is @MyOwnRoyalty on Instagram & @MyOwnRoyalty_x on Twitter and www.tinyurl.com/MyOwnRoyaltyYT on YouTube Akua Aubrey is @Akuaaubrey_ on Instagram & Twitter No Shade Podcast are on Instagram, Twitter and Youtube @noshadepod Search for the 'No Shade Podcast' on Apple Podcast, Soundcloud, Spotify and anywhere you get your podcasts Connect with us at & send your que

In this episode we welcome guests Smokez And Big Rome of 'DMD Podcast' and discuss: • The growth of podcasts • Personal Training • The recent changes in Dem Man Dere podcast • Having a second favourite football team • Fighting temptation • Women wanting men they can’t have • Soca slander • The moral pros and cons of secretly tracking your children • The integrate dynamics of beating children • Maya Angelou video chastising a young last for calling her by her first name • Diddy admitting he should have married Kim Porter • Taking women for granted • Dealing with heartbreak • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Utilise tax allowance before April Connect with our guests: Smokez is @smokez_official on Instagram & Twitter Big Rone is @northlondonpower on Instagram & @nlpowerpt on Twitter DMD Podcast are on Instagram @dmd_official & Twitter @Dmdyea Their website is www.dmdlive.co.uk Search for the 'Dem Man Dere' on Apple Podcast, Soundcloud, Spotify and anywhere you get your podcasts Connect with us at & send your

In this episode we welcome guest Simone and discuss: • The #ThemFirst movement • Big men looking at young girls • Pedophiles being part of the LGBTQ community • Sexual objectification within a relationship • The blurred lines of objectification in the workplace • The new Michael Jackson documentary 'Leaving Neverland' • How White victims of violent crime get much more media presence than Black people • The racism claims against Dave's song 'Black' • White men feeling marginalised and censored in modern society • Terry Crews being attacked for saying children need a Father • The importance of Fathers • British rapper Zuby 'breaking' women's weight lifting records whilst identifying as a woman to prove a point • The validity of transgenderism • Transgenders and sport • Strangers looking at inter-racial relationships in disgust • The struggle of looking after children Connect with our guest Simone: Twitter: @SimoneAshby Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.co