Esn: Eloquently Saying Nothing

In this episode with guest Wavey and discuss: • Drake & Future going number one & sampling Right Said Fred • Emotional Incest • What examples have we seen of emotional incest • Would you take a kidney from the mother of your child • Do men think about that potentially their child mother can die in child birth? • Should fathers be allowed to be inconistent in their child life and still have chance to play a part? • Do you need closure with an absent parent? • Do fathers have a bigger issue if their son comes out as Gay than their daughters. • Kyrie Irvin refusing the vaccine and then being removed from the Nets basketball team • Should jobs give their employees ultimatiums over the vaccine Catch our guest at: @waveythefirst on twitter Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com It's important t

In this episode we guest Acsha from The Main Squeeze Podcast and discuss: • J Cole the best rapper of 2021? • How hard it is to listen to new music these days • Handbag politics • DJ Webslinger's other 'Get It Off Your Chest' podcast • Liverpool v London • Teaching young girls about fertility • Maternity / Paternity leave • Issues with having children • Periods and menopause • Women worrying about work in regards to pregnancy • The £20 a week removal of universal credit benefit • Dave Chappelle's new Netflix special, The Closer • Whether Black women feel sexism or racism more in society • Tiwa Savage's refusal to be extorted for her sexitime clip • Wearing White at someone else's wedding • Wedding politics • Carnival Sunday v Carnival Monday • Hackney's controversial fruit collection Windrush sculpture • Subtitles v Dubbed Connect with our guest Acsha: The Main Squeeze Podcast: https://podbay.fm/p/the-main-squeeze-podcast/about Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/themainsqueezepodcast Connect with us at &

This week's topics: • Teni's album not getting the recognition it deserves • If Wizkid's Essence is overrated • Zeze Millz's come-up, change of attitude and natural beauty • How different cultures age • Beautiful families • Kardashian's plastic surgery • Hulk Hogan back in the Wrestling Hall of Fame • New AEW (All Elite Wrestling) entertainment and its challenge to WWE • Drug usage and mental problems of wrestling • The drug Khat and its effects • Which drugs we'd take if we had to take one • Nines jailed for two years after admitting to attempting to import £280,000 worth of cannabis • Is it alright for criminals to snitch • A bunch of The Wire love, recapping and spoilers • Moneybagg Yo's girlfriend buying him land for his birthday and the controversary around that • What one should do differently after marriage that they shouldn't do in a relationship • Breaking up with someone because they won't marry you • Being different after relationships • Who is the bigger artist, Michael Jackson or Drake • Michael

This week's topics: • Comments on last week review • Not everyone can be a good podcaster • Do you love people equally • How do you keep the passion alive in a long relationship • Is your partner your friend? • Does listening to someone really mean doing what the person wants • Have you ever greeted an ex maybe too touchy feely in front of their new partner • Have we given all our partners the same version of ourselves • What would be an alternative to bread and wine at communion • The story of the von erich family • suicidial thoughts • Witchcarft & satanism • We discuss our thoughts of religion Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com It's important to subscribe, rate and review us on your apple products. You can do that here... www.bit.ly/esnitunes

This week's topics: • Eating healthy • Teaching yourself enjoy food • Countries with longest life expectancy • The disadvantages of sending money back home • Stolen African artifacts from being sent back to the countries they were stolen from • Prince Phillip's will being kept secret for 90 years • Damian Marley being a great musician and what category of music he makes • Moving to an alien planet • Arrival [SPOILERS 54:30-57:40] • If we'd take an addictive drugs to enhance a skill • Our natural talents • Michael K Williams' life and death • Different drugs being laced with lethal amounts of fentanyl • Cheryl Tweedie's BBC RnB podcast • Enjoying content with hosts that look like you in a different way • Agreeing or disagreeing with a very bad review of the pod • #StavrosSays : Have You Heard George's Podcast [https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p07915kd/episodes/downloads] Colour Out The Box Podcast & Blog [https://colouroutthebox.com/] Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can

This week's topics: • Cristiano Ronaldo's return to Manchester United • Afrikan Vikings Meme • Tv talk • The most gangster wife from century old programmes • "Them" TV programme discussing • If Them was copying US • Corporate branding • Dancing whilst shopping • Ironing tekkers • Being called Prince rather than King in a relationship • Emma Raducanu's US Open win • Women's tennis • Breaking up fights on road • Father's being embarrassed by their son's crying • Texas' draconian abortion policy • Intersteller v Arrival • The famous closing statement from A Time To Kill • Channel 4's 'Black to Front' Black takeover day • Commercial's representation • #StavrosSays : Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World [https://www.netflix.com/title/70117312] Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.facebook.com/ESNpodcasts www.twitter.com/ESNpodcast www.instagram.com/ESNpodcast @esnpodcast on all other social media esnpodcast@gmail.com It's important to subscrib

This week's topics: • Kanye's album, Donda • DaBaby controversy and feature on Donda • Marilyn Mason controversy and feature on Donda • Drake's album, Certified Lover Boy • R. Kelly's controversy and sample on Certified Lover Boy • Whether we'd release a song with a R. Kelly sample or not • Everyone having a cancelable event in their past • The power of influencers • Favourite songs on Donda • Drake's strange relationship with Millie Bobby Brown • R. Kelly's marriage to Aaliyah confirmed in court • Side-eyeing people who get with someone right after they become legal • Rick Ross, Drake and Pusha T's Luxurious Rap • Why people release such long albums now • The difference between statement albums and a collection of songs • The Love Below being dragged down by Speakerboxxx • How to publicly apologies properly • Gospel House section • Prosperity Churches • Tyler the Creator having a top 5 album • WizKid selling out o2 three times in under 20 minutes • Is Dancehall and Bashment the same thing, or do they both s

This week's topics: • Not remember song titles • CD & Tape era of music • African men getting pedicures • Family ganging up on in-laws • Breast feeding • Adult men drinking breast milk straight from the source • Our guest's book 'Life After The Big D' • Rules and exercises to help get over a divorce • Guilt with children during a divorce • Older generations not getting divorced • The difference between men and women cheating • Whether cheating is innate • If you can love someone you're cheating on • Love: emotion and/or action • Pinterest and Black hair style ideas • Air fryer love • Samsung bricking their TVs that were stolen in South Africa • The Create Challenge • The silly things we used to do as youths • Jay Z & Beyonce's collaboration with Tiffany • Jay Z's obsession with Basquiet • Kanye West’s Donda MP3 Stem Player • The power of Kanye • School Clothes Event : https://instagram.com/uptownmic • #StavrosSays : Bedtime Stories Podcast [https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/NySjRhw45zvaaSAf6] Support our gue

This week's topics: • Shaybo's new album 'Queen of the South' • Ms Banks & Stefflon Don's new song 'DIP' • Buying concert tickets • Yam Festival • Young artists making silly moves for their lives • Trainer / Sneaker talk • US withdrawal from Afghanistan and the immediate takeover of the Taliban • Mr Wolf adds his views on the Kevin Samuels conversation from episode 317 • People not listening to the partners or siblings because they're too close • What makes someone a nice person • Why you should or shouldn't be friends with someone • Former American Idol contestant, Syesha Mercado, having her two young children taken from her by the government • Brother Polights accusation of sexually abusing his wife's daughter • Fake prophet's • People following great orators and powerful people • The power of the tongue • Only Fans banning porn • Porn being at the forefront of technology • The risk of sex workers having to find another avenue after the banning of explicit content on Only Fans • #StavrosSays : Vivo Movie

In this episode we welcome guests Nezzy & Tunde of 'Tales From The Plantation' podcast and discuss: • How to navigate Instagram • Stagette & men at Baby Showers • Not wanting gifts • Nigerian men being hyper-masculine • Ghanaian men being laid back • Men in relationships doing housework • Househusbands not doing the same amount of work in the house as housewives • The negative effects of Kevin Samuels on the Black male community • How society is encouraging the growth of incel culture • Men hating women • Black women and the Golden Ratio • Women with children being less desirable • What triggers domestic violence outbursts • Black women finding Polynesian men attractive • ESN being seen as a hate speech podcast • The possible false foundation of science • Going on holiday during covid season • Liking Kanye West's music but not liking Kanye West the person • #StavrosSays Recommendation : Go on holiday Connect with our guests: Tales From The Plantation are on Instagram @talesfromtheplantation Twitter @planta

This week's topics: • A Salute to the New "Farda" Griff • Will Fuji music ever take-off • Do you use Telegram & signal? • Binance getting shut down • The Lox bullying Dipset • Why did Dipset lose • Fat Joe break down of the VERZUZ • Jadakiss being the MVP • Wizkid selling out the 02 in minutes • People only going to know Essence at the concert • Do we need to acknowledge the Naija Jam legends • We get into a NaijaJam, Hiplife mix • Who could beat Mobb Deep in a VERZUZ • Rhianna is a billionaire • Jorja Smith getting pressured for stealing an southern house & jumping on the Amapiano wave • Dr Dre's 38 year old daughter living out of a car • Should you still be responsible for your adult child • Is it ever ok to walk out of your child life • If your child says they don't want to take to you anymore should you respect their wishes? • Stillwater controversy • Older Gay people who have had to hide their sexuality due to society • If our wives left us as they've realised they'

This week's topics: • ESN Radio Podcast • Why South Africans are so possessive • How Nigeria is seen as the leaders of Africa by other Africans • The many rules and politics around Amapiano music • Amapiano music being the next to take over • Garage, House, Funky, Drum n Bass • 2000s Rap concerts being trash • Whether they make artists like Tina Turner & Michael Jackson anymore • Classic colognes worn during our heyday • The power of a good DJ • Wanting a faster car • People acknowledging you for having nice things • ULEZ • Treating yourself • Using fancy cookware • Being comfortable in your in-law's house • Expensive designer bags • Buying a gift for someone that you don't approve of • Lux Afrique Polo Day • Dawn Butler being thrown out of the House of Commons for calling Boris Johnson a liar • Children growing out of wanting to be round their parents • Keeping boundaries with children • Disciplining other people children • Whether it's to not bath everyday • Simone Biles dropping out of gymnastic event

This week's topics: • Biz Markie's death • Rappers dying young of natural causes • Wanting to free Vybz Kartel • Taking the rap for a friends crime • People that do crime for necessity v people that crime for bants or acceptance • If children owe their parents • Good 3D films • Billionaires in space • Having voices that go along with thoughts • Understanding bad English speakers • The pleasantness of Eastern Europeans • The connection between Eastern Europeans and Black people in England • If England is the best non Black Country to be Black in • Black people focusing on racism too much • The division of India and Pakistan [by the English] • The division of Ireland [by the English] • The French governments harsh attitude to non-vaccinated • How society is splitting between mask wearers/vaccine positive people and non-mask wearers and vaccine dubious people • The BBC's Dominic Cummings interview • Heads of state not running things at all • Why Jeremy Corbyn might not have been a good leader, or why he would h

This week's topics: • Griff's clinical, expansive and thoughtful takes on popular culture • Griff's lack of clincal, expansive and thoughtful takes on Black Brits who hate on the England football team • Black people playing for England (or any other coloniser country) • African and Caribbean teams not looking after their sportsman • Lack of empathy for Black players who get racially abused by English fans because they choose to play for a team that they know would that • Players not steeping up to take penalties • John Barnes breaking down White Supremacy and English snobbery in an interview • The current English team being different than teams from the past • Comedian, Andrew Lawrence getting cancelled for a joke deemed racist and our take on that • Who it's acceptable to make jokes about on the social ladder • Marcus Rashford defaced mural perhaps not being racially motivated • Men being in the delivery room when their partners are giving birth and trying not to mess things up and upset the woman • Men ha

This week's topics: • Most popular recent artists • Michael Jackson never dying • Juvenile's Vax That Thing Up remix • Taking advantage of a part • The idea that a man should love a woman more than vice versa in a relationship • Men fighting the stereotypical male trope • Nigerian men having to overcome the Yoruba Demon trope • Different Caribbean accents • Massages, vitamins and the benefits of self care • To shower or not shower AFTER having a bath • Black couples feeling external pressure in their relationship because they're Black • Is 'The Man' pushing interracial relationships to diffuse Blackness • What 'The Man' is doing in the background to bring down Black people behind the scenes • NFL paying out less money to Black players than other players for injuries picked up during their playing time due to racial bias • Being surprised that when and where White people would be racist • The surge of Nigerian kidnappings • Taking responsibility for actions after colonialism • Chip going in on Stormzy and now

This week's topics: • Does every man want to own a Porsche 911? • What super car/sports car would do we want • How the new cars maintenance has changed • Leasing vs purchasing a car • Complaining about driving in London • Avoiding central London due to all the restrictions in place • A Quiet Place 1 & 2 discussion • BlackPeople Screaming "IT'SCOMING HOME!!!" and supporting England • Would the England team without the Black players be just as good. • Female football commentators • Would we be upset if 3 white pundits were on Nigerian TV covering a football game. • Stav story about being stopped in a store by security • When was the last time we got stopped by police • Bill Cosby release • Would we take a court settlement instead of taking the police to court. • Sha'Carri being banned for 30 days for smoking weed • Trans Race • #StavrosSays : ESN #2.003 : The Cats, Dogs, Rodents & Pidgin Episode [https://soundcloud.com/esnpodcast/esn2003] Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpo

This week's topics: • Costco • Relationship joint accounts • Keeping money separate from your partner • Dirty John • Afronation refund • Sending money back home • Pride over borrowing money • Taking money from a partners family even though they don't want to • Swallowing pride to aide a relationship • Pretty privilege • Taking gifts from someone with a sexual agenda with no intention of them receiving anything • Sugar Daddies • British MPs claim White privilege theory being blamed for the neglect of White children in school results by British MPs • American politicians trying to ban Critical Race Theory teachings • If we'd give up their privilege • If it's nature or nurture for men to be the dominant protectors • A British college accepting race trauma as a reason to postpone work • Women taking time off work for period pains • Free pads for women in toilets • Women not understanding period pains • Derek Chauvin, the killer of George Floyd • #StavrosSays : Fast & Furious 9 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v

This week's topics: • The pros and cons of polygamy • Having lots and lots of children • When polygamy becomes illegal / immoral • Anti-Asian hate crime laws passed in America • How different communities deal with communal money • Money and responsibility • Who we'd be happy with our children idolising • Jada Pinkett Smith's love for Tupac • Being jealous of a deceased Ex • The etiquette of Exes • Being your partners second best • How fame and fortune change parenting • English football fans booing their own team during the taking of the knee • The conservatives stand off'ish approach to the booing situation • The difference between American and British slavery • British people's lack of their racial history • Hatred for English imperialism • Zambia's first president, Kenneth Kaunda, dead at 97 • LGBT representation in Love Island • Navigating not offending people in modern society • JK Rowling, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie & Dave Chappelle doubling down on alleged anti-Trans sentiment • Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

This week's topics: • Poorly promoting the podcast • Supporting your friend's businesses • If a man can eat food that emasculates them • Accepting Salt Bae feeding you his meat in your mouth • Someone flirting with your partner in front of you • The lost art of chatting up someone on road • Catfishing online dating • Filters and changing one's body too much for social media • How being family orientated might be a negative in a new relationship • People that find being super cool with their family as weird • The toll of lockdown • Getting cut off • Being open versus being anti-social • Naomi Osaka refusing to be interviewed and the punishment for that • Mental illness in sport • Christian Eriksen clasping on the football pitch on live TV • What TV channels should do if they witness medical problems during a sport • Learning [and teaching children] first aid Connect with our guest Kourt Wils: Twitter: @kourtwils Instagram: @ kourtwils Voice note us at esnpodcast@gmail.com Connect with us at & send your qu

This week's topics: • Blue Therapy finale • African men cheating • Getting more guests on the podcast • Making mistakes editing the podcast • Spotify podcast playing issues • Not eating stew • Making too much food and throwing food away • House buying chronicles • Living in a boujee or ghetto area • People living in private homes not wanting to share areas • Having a community whatsapp • Where you can afford to live in the UK • Government housing scheme • Looking down on working class • Ray J • People dividing themselves • Social media fronting • Showing how much you earn on social media • Temp working • Nigeria banning Twitter • Nigeria's downturn • Nigeria's brain drain • #StavrosSays : Talking Africa : The Africa Report Podcast Episode 113 [https://www.theafricareport.com/94870/nigeria-the-lingering-roots-left-by-britains-looting-and-killing/] Voice note us at esnpodcast@gmail.com Connect with us at & send your questions & comments to: #ESNpod so we can find your comments www.esnpodcast.com www.twitter.c