Dr Karin Love & Life

Estranged. Cut off. Disengaged.Whatever you want to call it—it’s trending! Going “no contact” has become so ubiquitous Oprah covered it in a recent podcast episode, Mel Robbins just wrote a NY Times article about it, and it’s the subject of several books and thousands of TikToks.What’s going on? Why are so many adult children cutting off their parents and families?Is Going No Contact a difficult, yet imperative, decision to protect oneself from a toxic family?Or, does it reflect an unwillingness to navigate the messiness of adult family relationships, because, of course, it’s way easier to solely interact with likeminded friends. Is it self care or self sabotage?Elliott and I delve into the myriad elements surrounding this phenomenon, including:1️⃣The increase of family disengagement Elliott has witnessed in his clinical practice. 2️⃣The Going No Contact debate—does it facilitate or impede our emotional development and maturity?3️⃣How “self-help culture” has introduced therapeutic terms into our everyday lexi

We’ve been in a series about how we handle family dynamics during the holidays. In past episodes, we’ve talked about staying present vs. distracted, connected vs. isolated, all while staying authentic to who we are as individuals. Today, we continue the conversation with some practical strategies for dealing with these conflicts. What do we do if a family member continues to make jabs at us (no, not that jab!)?How do family systems play into these dynamics?What roles can we play as individuals in our unique family system?What if family feels threatened by our own personal growth and development?These topics and so much more!We hope today’s episode will leave you feeling empowered with practical strategies as you head into the holiday season with your loved ones!Dive headfirst into the complexities of family dynamics, particularly focusing on estrangement and holiday conflicts. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, the role of humor in easing tensions, and the challenges of confrontation within fa

Today we have Liz James from Blessed By His Blood on the podcast to discuss the ways in which the blood donation industry isn’t everything most of us thought it was. As it turns out, there is a lot of money involved, and as with most things, everything is not as it seems. In response to this, Liz started Blessed By His Blood after she felt God leading her in a new direction in the wake of 2020. We hope today’s conversation will inform and empower you to take charge of your health and give you some tools and insights to make informed decisions about your health care. Blessed By His BloodWebsite: https://www.blessedbyhisblood.com/  X: http://x.com/blessedBHB Apply for Membership:  https://www.blessedbyhisblood.com/apply/ Donate: https://www.blessedbyhisblood.com/#donate Senate Hearings Referenced in InterviewTexas 2025 House Hearing on SB125: https://rumble.com/v6ub183-texas-state-house-hearing-may-2025.html Texas 225 Senate Hearing on SB125: https://rumble.com/v6smf15-texas-state-capitol-march-2025.html Dr. Ka

Today we have some listeners questions related to navigating the complexities of family and relational dynamics during the holidays.  How do we relate with family members who are takers?How do we grieve well with those who are experiencing grief during the holidays?Elliott shares tools and practical tips for how to navigate givers and takers in family relationships, the importance of self-reflection, and how to embrace grief during the holidays. Be blessed as you listen and please let us know if you have more questions related to the holidays! We’d love to address them on the podcast for you. Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

I connected with React 19 at the Children’s Health Defense Conference in Austin earlier this month. I wanted to invite some of its members to share their stories of COVID shot injuries. To this day, most of the public is unaware of the horrific adverse events many people experienced when doing the “right thing” by taking the “vaccine” during COVID.Doctors ignored their conditions or claimed they were psychosomatic. Insurance companies often refused to cover their treatments, surgeries, and medications. Some victims’ lives have been forever altered. They’ve gone from healthy and vibrant to bedridden and wheelchair bound. Some have died. Will anyone acknowledge them? Acknowledge their suffering? Acknowledge they tried to do their part to stop the spread of the virus—only to endure lifelong suffering?Will they ever be heard?React 19’s mission is to support these victims and provide a platform through which they can share their story. At Love & Life we see them; we hear them; we walk arm and arm with them. Th

With the holidays upon us, Dr. Karin and Pastor Elliott delve into the complexities of family dynamics during the holiday season. They explore the challenges that arise when families gather during the holidays and offer various perspective shifts we can have to move through those challenges. From navigating estranged relationships to embracing the joy and tension of holiday traditions.How do we navigate triggering family dynamics during the holidays?How can you manage expectations to reduce holiday stress and anxiety?How can you embrace emotional sensitivity and allow feelings to surface without shame?How can you foster meaningful connections with kindness and grace within family tensions?Join them as they discuss the importance of being present, navigating expectations, and finding connection in the midst of family gatherings. Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

Karin got to attend the Children's Health Defense Conference in Texas last week and got to meet Love & Life favorite Dave Wayne for the first time IRL! On today's episode, Karin and Dave review the conference and the key takeaways from speakers— many of whom are fighting these issues on the front lines of our culture. They also discuss the concerns so many of us have regarding the physical, emotional, and mental health of future generations. Particularly the impact of environmental factors, the rise in autoimmune diseases, and many more issues we've seen increase in the United States among children in recent decades. You can check out more on the Children's Health Defense at childrenshealthdefense.org Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

We are tackling a topic today that is currently revolutionizing every aspect of the world around us: A.I. Specifically, we are looking at how A.I. is impacting our most sacred connections as human beings in our relationships. How do we as human beings engage with this new artificial reality that we find ourselves in? What are the implications on our faith, relationships, and the very psychology of our humanity? What are we at risk of losing if A.I. goes unchecked?At this moment in time, many of us find ourselves asking these questions. Join us as we dive into and try to make sense of this complex topic! Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

Today’s episode was recorded just days before Charlie Kirk was murdered back in September. We decided not to post it after his death as we were all in shock and grieving after the events that took place. We are releasing it now as a bonus episode. Although it’s a few months old now, the topic seems more relevant than ever. How do we live authentically with integrity when it means we do so alone? How do we face isolation? What happens when that isolation comes from family and friends? How do we face trials and suffering?What does the Bible mean when it commands us to count it all joy when we face difficult circumstances?These are not easy questions, yet they are things we wrestle with in our journey through this life. We hope you’ll find peace and comfort in this episode no matter what difficulties you are facing. You are not alone. Please reach out with any questions or comments. We’d love to hear from you!Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: s

Elliott recently shared some of psychiatrist Dr. William Glasser’s work with Karin. Karin hadn’t researched his work in a long time, and it immediately resonated with her and the times we are living in. Dr. Glasser developed Reality Therapy and Choice Theory and was very critical of traditional therapy modalities of his time.In this episode, we explore these themes and how we can see them through a Biblical lens. Elliott relates this to many of his clients who have recently felt stuck in their ability to make choices and move forward in life, making change. Karin also explores the ways in which modern-day therapy disempowers and dehumanizes so many people seeking help. What actions can we take to make real change? How do we get unstuck?What are the choices we make day to day that we have the power to change?We hope you are encouraged and empowered as you listen. Make it happen! Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBoo

After a variety of counseling sessions that revolved around similar themes Karin and Elliott dive into the topic of control. What do we do when our world around us feels chaotic and anxious? How do we deal with being misunderstood and mistreated? What’s the antidote to trying to control the people and situations in our lives? Where is God in the midst of anxiety and fears?Karin and Elliott share their strategies, re-frames, and wealth of experience on how to deal with these big questions we all face. Be empowered and encouraged as you listen! If you have any additional questions or comments feel free to reach out to us on our website or on social media. Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

Today we have the pleasure of hosting Love & Life favorite David Wayne to discuss the intersection of faith, mental health, and the devastating ways Big Pharma impacts those seeking help. We discuss the spiritual awakening that many have experienced over the last 5 years, the challenges of navigating the mental health system, and the importance of emotional connection and self-empowerment in recovery. * The mental health system often perpetuates harm rather than healing.* How labels dehumanize people seeking help.* How SSRIs numb our emotions. * The importance of our emotions as we heal.* How hope and self-empowerment are essential for recovery.* And much more!Enjoy the conversation and we pray that it meets you wherever you are on your journey towards wholeness and healing. Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

Jennifer Sey, CEO of XX-XY Athletics has proclaimed October 10th (X X) as Real Women’s Day.We at Love & Life are here for it!Jennifer encourages us to speak out—to be bold in our support and protection of women and girls.I have purchased several T-shirts from XX-XY Athletics. The statements on the shirts are logical and reasonable, yet at this chaotic time, they are often perceived as controversial by many people. I wear them to invite others to think. I want them to consider their positions. And, I want to advocate for women and girls. Because when men pretend to be women, they steal women’s positions, championships, and scholarships.In effect, they erase women. In today’s episode, our intern, Evelyn, joins me to share her thoughts, as a young Gen Z woman, on these concerns!We invite you to join us as we support Jennifer‘s campaign. Speak up! Stand up! And, maybe even wear a T-shirt, proclaiming your beliefs about sex, reality, and the importance of protecting women and girls!Evelyn also wrote a piece fo

Elliott and I have recently talked about pain and grief around the assassination of Charlie Kirk. The horror and fury of losing a Godly leader are bad enough. The shocking reality that some people celebrated his murder heaps additional sorrow on those in mourning. (For more on this, please see ep. 372).At the same time, God continues to redeem and bring glory to even the most hideous of circumstances. A spiritual fire has awakened many—people are returning to church and speaking boldly about their beliefs and faith.We focus on this beauty for ashes (Isaiah 61:3).In the midst of division, we find comfort with likeminded friends—this shared grief provides healing in and of itself.For example, after listening to the episodes about Charlie, a friend from college texted me with a heartfelt, supportive response. Elliott and I discuss her text which led to a conversation about attachment.We use the framework of Attachment Theory to flesh out the tension, pain, and dissension we feel at this time. How do we move thro

I’m still somewhat in shock. I NEVER thought I’d hear America’s most powerful leaders acknowledge what mothers of autistic children have known for years—the autism epidemic has nothing to do with genes and EVERYTHING to do with toxic and pharmaceutical exposures.Including vaccines.And yes, in the press conference, Trump initially mentioned Tylenol and the fact that taking it during pregnancy leads to an increased risk of a future diagnosis of autism for the baby.But, right after that, Trump brought up vaccines stating that autism is virtually nonexistent in some communities where children don’t get them.He looked to Bobby for confirmation and Bobby agreed that yes, several studies suggest this to be true in communities like the Amish, for example.I was THRILLED to hear the top health official in the US utter this truth! Finally, the moms of autistic children are vindicated. Finally, pediatricians won’t be able to gaslight them anymore. Finally, “believe all women” applies to them!I invited our favorite dissid

As we continue to mourn the murder of Charlie Kirk and reflect on his legacy, Karin shares her personal experience attending Charlie’s memorial service this past Sunday. She describes what she witnessed firsthand and the impact it had on her and those she attended with. Karin and Elliott also delve into the significance of forgiveness, healing, and confronting anger in the process of grieving while also addressing the criticisms and outrage that some commentators expressed about the memorial service. Was the memorial a platform to encourage revenge or forgiveness? How do we wrestle through these topics that have seemingly become so polarizing? Please join us as we have a real dialogue about how we navigate through these topics as we seek to honor Charlie’s legacy. Sponsor:The Wellness CompanyWebsite: ⁠https://www.twc.health/lovelife⁠Code: LOVELIFE for 15% off your order!Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagr

I’ve been thinking a lot about friendships in the wake of Charlie Kirk’s assassination. Especially because, as we’ve talked about before on the program, many friendships have become strained in these highly charged times. So when you admire a prominent figure who takes a stand politically, you can be certain friends who vote in the other direction will not only NOT admire him, they may actually despise him. And, should he be murdered, they’ll shed no tears. They might, in fact, be secretly glad he’s dead. Where does that leave the friendship?We typically lean on friends during our pain and sadness. We look to them for empathy—even if they aren’t suffering the same loss.True friends imagine how we’re feeling; they put themselves in our shoes and grieve with us. As Paul instructed, they “carry our burdens.”But maybe they can’t—or, won’t—when the loss involves someone or something they abhor. Then what? What happens to the friendship?I’m dealing with this right now and in today’s episode, Elliott helps me proces

How do we move through the shock and grief of murder?We’re horrified, outraged, and demoralized. Nothing makes sense. WHY, God?And furthermore, Charlie was gunned down for inviting others to debate him at universities. Aren’t universities designed for spirited discourse? When we disagree, isn’t the solution to continue sharpening our positions, as opposed to silencing counter-arguments?Elliott and I respond to Charlie’s murder by sharing Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’ Stages of Grief while supplementing her model with principles from Scripture. If you’re grieving, please join us for a word of healing and hope.Sponsor:The Wellness CompanyWebsite: ⁠https://www.twc.health/lovelife⁠Code: LOVELIFE for 15% off your order!Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

We continue our conversation today discussing some of the issues we find in the therapy profession and the impact it has on individuals seeking help. Specifically, we explore: • What is Big Therapy? • The Problem with Codependency in Therapeutic Relationships • Mental Health Awareness and Its Implications • How to Frame Mental Health Positively • The Dangers of AI in Therapy • And More!We want to empower individuals to make informed decisions and to think critically when seeking out therapeutic help. If you have questions about therapy please don’t hesitate to reach out to us at http://loveandlifemedia.comSponsor:The Wellness CompanyWebsite: ⁠https://www.twc.health/lovelife⁠Code: LOVELIFE for 15% off your order!Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

Therapy is a powerful tool that aids us in navigating complex issues, pain, trauma, and anxieties that are inherent to the human experience. The concept of seeing a therapist or a “shrink” was once considered taboo but has now become widely accepted in our culture as a normal response to challenging situations.However, as with many aspects of life, the shift towards acceptance can sometimes lead to overemphasis. Ironically, we find ourselves in an era with an unprecedented number of therapists, yet the prevalence of mental health issues remains at an alarming level. Some individuals even experience a worsening of their condition after undergoing therapy.In this episode, we delve into the intricate dynamics of modern therapy. We examine the challenges inherent in traditional therapeutic models, highlight the significance of reframing negative thought patterns, and explore the role of faith in fostering mental well-being.Sponsor:The Wellness CompanyWebsite: ⁠https://www.twc.health/lovelife⁠Code: LOVELIFE for 15