New Life Live With Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions: My 73yo husband choked my 23yo mentally disabled granddaughter; what is the next step in my marriage?  Is there anything wrong with freemasonry? I have been a mason 30yrs and am a Christian.  How do I talk to my son and his wife who live with us about neglecting their four kids? The […]

Caller Questions: If I backslide or walk away from my faith, do I lose my salvation?  Why aren’t my prayers answered about my husband’s angry explosions? Do I stay or walk away?  My husband is going out with a lady he met at the dog park; what should I do?” 

Caller Questions: I’m 73yo and am a recovering alcoholic and gambler; it seems like helping people and being a good guy doesn’t pay.  I saw my ex-girlfriend and she put down my Christian views; when is it no longer my business to care about whether she’s saved? 

Caller Questions: The man I’m dating believes you must speak in tongues to be saved; is that true?  My husband of 36yrs has had emotional affairs and thinks a mediocre marriage is okay; time to leave?  How do I help my 44yo addicted and psychotic son who says vile things to me on texts? He […]

Caller Questions: I am a recovering codependent and feel guilty I no longer have to be a caretaker for my family’s feelings; what do I do now? What’s the first step to recover from feeling unloved all my life and to set boundaries?  Are getting cadaver parts in a surgery morally acceptable? 

Caller Questions: I just want to say every time I have a problem, I turn on New Life Live and you help me! You make the most difference in the world!  After experiencing all forms of abuse, how can I control my anger and rage and learn how to process it in a healthy way?  […]

Caller Questions: Is there a way for my relationship with my siblings to improve despite them arguing with me over our parents’ estate?  I attempted suicide last September and have gone through therapy; what’s the best way to tell my story to fragile people?  When I came back to the Lord after my divorce, I […]

Caller Questions: My husband has struggled with transgenderism in the past. Now our 32yo son has divorced his wife and says he is transgender; will we survive this?  How do I have a difficult conversation with my friend and caregiver who sometimes leaves me alone? I am disabled.  My 79yo mom was physically abused as […]

Caller Questions: I’m divorcing my alcoholic and verbally abusive husband. What do I tell our grandchildren as to why they can’t see him?  My ex-wife has been destroying me to our children, and our adult sons have cut contact with me. What can I do?  I am 5yrs clean from pornography, but I have traits […]

Caller Questions: I struggle watching my 90yo mother age. How do I cope with this?  I’ve been raising my 8yo grandson for 4yrs. My son died and my daughter-in-law drinks; should I try for full custody?  How do I deal with vacillating and self-sabotaging behaviors? I lose my motivation to follow through.  My daughter received […]

Caller Questions: I took your advice to smooth things over after I contacted a high school friend. Her husband called and threatened me. Does he need an apology also? Comment for Robert: Don’t mess with law enforcement officers. Just forget about her.  I have unresolved pain from a divorce over 20yrs ago. How do I […]

Caller Questions: My 14yo daughter has been traumatized by our divorce and I have become the scapegoat. How do I help her? How do I rebuild trust in my marriage? I haven’t used porn for 4yrs and I passed a polygraph test, but she thinks I lied.  Should a grandparent get involved when you think […]

Caller Questions: I just found out my husband is being unfaithful right now, and he signed up for Every Man’s Battle. What do I do in the weeks before the workshop?  My wife has had several affairs, and we’ve chosen to work through it. I had a dream she had another affair. Will my marriage […]

Caller Questions: My brother was hazed by the youth group and sexually harassed in our former church; I was bullied there. Should I confront church leadership? Is it a sin for me to walk away from my husband after he’s lied to me throughout our 12yr marriage?  I’m a single mom of a 4yo son […]

Caller Questions: My mom hates me and my dad; she has slandered me for decades. What do I do?  Our 18yo daughter has been a source of conflict for us, and now that she is in college, my husband moved into a different room. 

Caller Questions: What should I do if my friend always goes against everything I say?  My daughter won’t let me see my grandkids. You said to write a letter to her, but she hasn’t responded. What now?  I left my porn-addicted husband last weekend, but he started counseling and wants me to move back. What […]

Caller Questions: I share custody of my 9yo daughter with her dad but haven’t seen her much in 3yrs because of COVID; what do I do?  I’ve been a single parent for 33yrs. My ex-husband told me not to ask for support, so I went to the Lord and He provided!  As a single parent, […]

Caller Questions: Am I missing anything with my alcoholic husband who has been sober 2yrs, but he gets angry and blames me? How do I get a grasp on my emotions when my husband filed for divorce and is now dating and posting on social media?  Is my pastor schizophrenic? He never says hello and […]

Caller Questions: My husband has been physically abusive the last 2yrs; how do I help him heal?  Last summer I found out my husband was molesting our 10yo granddaughter, and he is in jail for 7yrs. I’m very sad; is that where I should be?  How can my daughter get married and not invite me? […]

Caller Questions: Can you talk about the verse in Romans that says God demonstrated His love while we were still sinning?  How do I have a solid relationship with my bonus child? Since the pandemic, my stepdaughter has been very distant from me.  I had three affairs. How do I handle my wife committing suicide […]