New Life Live With Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions: What else can I do to heal the horrible relationship between my ex-wife and our 20yo son? She came from an abusive family and had six affairs. How do I answer my 10yo granddaughter as to why I divorced my first husband?  My 15yo grandson has Asperger’s and is angry and difficult; how […]

Caller Questions: There are a lot of guys hurting from being betrayed by their wives.  How do I identify what kind of therapy I need if I have a painful memory of my dad leaving me as a child?  My 35yo daughter texted me that she didn’t get the childhood she deserved; how do I […]

Caller Questions: Kevin Downes, a producer on Jesus Revolution, talks about the new movie in theaters on February 24.  What’s the best way for me to break free from porn, masturbation, and overeating? I am 32yo and live out of my car.  I struggle with porn and just told my wife. Where should I start […]

Caller Questions: What should I do to help my 25yo son who gambled away all his money and might be suicidal?  Am I enabling my children and grandchildren because I can’t accept their limitations?  How do my mom and I confront my uncle for molesting my aunt and cousins a long time ago?  How can […]

Caller Questions: Is there ever a time when it is OK to give your adult child advice?  How do I learn to love when I’m on my third marriage, struggling with porn, and keep falling off the wagon?  After keeping my childhood sexual abuse a secret, God has done amazing healing by removing the guilt […]

Caller Questions: My drunk husband came on to my 21yo daughter; how do I navigate that?  What do I do now that my wife of 37yrs just walked out to be a nanny for our grandchildren and filed for divorce?  What are my next steps with my anxious 13yo daughter who is smoking marijuana and […]

Caller Questions: How do I let go of the man I loved for 6yrs but broke up with because he smoked pot and often flew into a rage?  Do my reoccurring emotional triggers mean I haven’t forgiven my brother for molesting me? Or my husband for his pornography?  My wife has explosive anger, says she […]

Caller Questions: Interview with Every Man’s Battle presenter, J.J. West. “Month after month, we get to see men set free!”  What’s our next step with our 20yo daughter who lives with us, has substance abuse problems, and is sexually active?  How can the family live with the pain of our 39yo son who has a […]

Caller Questions: Our 22yo son lives at home, has experimented with LSD, and smokes pot. How do we get him to be an independent adult?  How can I recover from porn addiction if I’ve been addicted since my teens?  Why am I having a hard time following through with my divorce from my unfaithful, unsafe […]

Caller Questions: I was emotionally and physically abused by my mom as a child and abandoned by my dad; what do I do next?  I’m emotionally distant from my wife after telling her I looked at porn; is this normal?  What’s our role as parents if our daughter’s fiancé has a porn addiction and they’re […]

Caller Questions: How can I help my angry 16yo son whose grades are slipping since I started divorce proceedings?  What can I do after finding out my husband has been cheating? He denies it.  My daughter is breaking up with her 7yr boyfriend for looking at porn; how do I talk to him about Every […]

Caller Questions: Dr. Heidi Summers shares why someone would go to see her as a New Life Coach.  Can your Restore Workshop help me if I was molested by my father and have dissociative disorder?  My bisexual adult son is taking female hormones; how can I help him see how harmful it is?  When I […]

Caller Questions: My husband doesn’t have a job and stays in his messy room the whole day. I’m tired of being a single parent.  How do we help my daughter-in-law with her drinking problem? Yesterday she was inebriated with my 8yo grandson in the car.  My grandson and his 9yo daughter with ADD live with […]

Caller Questions: How can I support my 17yo daughter without supporting her decision to get an abortion tomorrow?  My 14yo son is questioning God and doesn’t want to go to church; how do I guide him back to God?  My husband had an affair 3yrs ago and I stayed; how do I move forward when […]

Caller Questions: My friend is in hospice care; what should we put in the letter I’m helping her write to her son who is distant?  Can I hold my dad accountable for his drinking and gambling? He lives with me. 

Caller Questions: Without Every Man’s Battle and Sustained Victory, I would have never recovered from sex addiction!  How do I let go of the verbal and physical abuse I experienced from my mom growing up?  When is it OK to get a divorce after 20yrs of emotional abuse from my husband? I just found Christ, […]

Caller Questions: After almost one year of marriage, what is the point of my husband owning a property that’s falling apart? It belonged to his deceased wife.  How am I to love my non-binary friends when I know it is wrong?  Do you have any tools I can use when my husband of 8yrs gives […]

Caller Questions: How do I approach my separated daughter and her husband about attending your Intimacy in Marriage Workshop?  How do I forgive my husband who committed suicide? We haven’t told the younger members of our family.  My husband is controlling and angry; how is that related to his porn addiction? Am I being insecure […]

Caller Questions: I can’t get over my Bible-believing, Christian husband having a year-long affair and lying to my face about it for 14yrs.  How do I protect my heart? My husband was unfaithful to me 40yrs ago, and we have a counseling appointment scheduled so he can disclose everything.  What should I do to help […]

Caller Questions: Am I doing the right thing by taking baby steps with my husband who has PTSD and makes me feel unloved?  I declutter but I always return to hoarding; is this a way of coping and not getting to deeper issues?  What questions should I ask my boyfriend who told me he has […]