New Life Live With Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions: How can I walk in the spirit and forgive a person who borrowed money from me but never paid me back?  I am helping to raise my 2yo grandson who throws tantrums; what can I do?  How do I get unstuck if I’m 76yo, divorced, homeless, and all I do is sit and […]

Caller Questions: What steps can I take to grieve my divorce if I’ve been married 42yrs, my husband is addicted to Vicodin, drinks, and had an affair?  How do I start a Life Recovery Group? I am a recovering addict and have been sober over 2yrs.  The woman I’m dating called me a con-artist and […]

Caller Questions: Do you have any advice for me as a 31yo divorced woman with values and having a hard time dating men in this modern world?  How can I get my siblings to get help? We grew up with an abusive mom who was a medium.  How do I get out of my marriage […]

Caller Questions: What route do I follow after my daughter gave marijuana gummies to my 15yo granddaughter to calm down? My granddaughter is cutting.  Why didn’t you recommend that the previous caller call the school to tell them about her granddaughter and daughter?  What happens at your Intimacy in Marriage Workshop? My daughter is engaged, […]

Caller Questions: I have been clean for a year from alcohol and drugs after I hit rock bottom and had to live in my car!  What advice can I give my 38yo daughter who is hurt because her aunt doesn’t want her involved with her wedding?  Is it my responsibility to report my ex to […]

Caller Questions: How can I respond to my wife about my lustful eyes when she says that the damage is already done, and she doesn’t feel good enough?  I am 82yo and hoarding has taken over my life; how do I move on?  How do I maintain a relationship with my 35yo adopted daughter when […]

Caller Questions: Interview with Max Lucado about his latest book God Never Gives Up on You and the biblical story of Jacob.  My 16yo daughter was seeing a young man secretly and doing inappropriate things because her dad and I forbid her to see him; did our actions push her to seeing him secretly? 

Caller Questions: What do I tell my 24yo granddaughter if her fiancé wants to watch football all day with his friends on his only day off?  How do I begin the process of confronting my son-in-law about his alcoholism?  I’m two years clean from heroin addiction, and The Life Recovery Bible was a big part […]

Caller Questions: How do I deal with my 19yo daughter getting pregnant with her 43yo work supervisor? He has three kids.  I am almost 50yo, and I’m discouraged that I’m not growing like I’ve seen others grow.  My dad passed away and my siblings took me out of his will.  Life Recovery Groups’ coordinator, Terri […]

Caller Questions: When I ask my 19yo college student son why he never shows up for work, he says it’s not my problem. What else can I do?  I’ve been married more than 20yrs; is my husband dependent controlling? What can I do if he is? 

Caller Questions: My wife and daughter-in-law won’t make any attempt at reconciling with each other and it has been 3yrs.  What can I do to support my niece who is married to a paraplegic narcissist? He is mentally and verbally abusive to her and her 10yo son.  Should I approach my daughter-in-law about leaving the […]

Caller Questions: How do I get over my divorce 20yrs ago and stop blaming myself? I married my drug dealer who was physically abusive and cheated on me after we got married.  What should I do to stop swearing when I’m mad? I am disabled from three major accidents and swear when I’m mad at […]

Caller Questions: How do I move on after my girlfriend of 3mos broke up with me because I stopped having sex with her? The Holy Spirit convicted me.  What help is there for me as a struggling alcoholic? I took my first drink at 8yo and don’t want my son to see me binge drink.  […]

Caller Questions: How do I deal with my husband’s parents who overstep our boundaries? His mom has bought airplane tickets to visit us without asking.  My husband hasn’t worked in a year, and this pattern has been going on for 17yrs; should I get a divorce?  Is it appropriate for my 14yo daughter to go […]

Caller Questions: How do I get over my guilt for not going home to take care of my dad with dementia 20yrs ago? I didn’t want to leave my boyfriend to help my dad.  Why do we sing songs at church asking God to forgive us when we’re already forgiven?  My husband and I want […]

Caller Questions: We found out on Facebook yesterday that our 24yo granddaughter is in a relationship with a girl. How do we address that in our family?  How do I deal with my wife of 3yrs who is chasing after God’s anointing and says I’m the voice of the devil?  My 19yo granddaughter talked to […]

Caller Questions: I divorced my abusive husband 11yrs ago, but now my adult sons are taking their anger out on me.  What can I do if my husband of 29yrs is a meth head and living in a hotel with a prostitute?  This is the first time I’ve listened to your program; I wish I’d […]

Caller Questions: I am a college student and can’t focus because I constantly get distracted; can you help? I also struggle with past regrets.  How do I prepare my daughter, a high school senior, to go to college next year? She will be exposed to drinking and more in college.  What level of communication should […]

Caller Questions: My mom was a narcissist; did I pick it up from her? Is narcissism passed down?  Are women allowed to preach or be senior pastors according to the Bible?  My daughter-in-law and grandkids live with me, and my son moved out and now lives with his girlfriend. If I go see my son, […]

Caller Questions: Should I divorce my second husband and go back to my first husband? My ex says I’m living in sin because I got remarried.  My 6yo grandson lived with me because his mom was in prison; she’s out now and has her son back, but she won’t let me see him.  How do […]