New Life Live With Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions: How do I confront a radio personality who is stalking me? He was my youth pastor when I was a child.  My wife and I have both committed adultery; should we continue after I found out about all her affairs?  In the eyes of God, are my first wife and I still married? […]

Caller Questions: My father cut off contact with me when he got married; does the Bible say anything about cutting off your kids who were born out of wedlock?  I’m married to a husband who stonewalls me for a week at a time, then he accuses me of having an affair.  You mentioned Christ being […]

Caller Questions: My angry husband dwells in the past and doesn’t believe in Christian counseling; do I stay or go?  I’m hopeless and on the verge of giving up after being let go from my job and no one responding to my resumes….help! 

Caller Questions: My 6yo grandson doesn’t know who Jesus is; what’s the best way to encourage my daughter to introduce him to Jesus?”  I’ve struggled with procrastinating my whole life but am semi-retired now; how do I muster the energy and motivation to do the things I need to do in the absence of structure?  […]

Caller Questions: I don’t know what to do to help my daughter whose husband is contemplating suicide.  How do I process being sexually abused by my pastor in childhood? Also my father had numerous affairs and was accused of murdering one of them.  What’s my next step if I just kicked out my Hindu husband […]

Caller Questions: How do I deal with my wife who is going through betrayal trauma from a past relationship? I don’t want to make it worse.  I am on the verge of retiring; how do I keep having a purpose since I have been working since 12yo?  Is it God’s will for me to hold […]

Caller Questions: How do I forgive my friend who said some very mean things about my other friend who died?  I’m a youth leader at church and am interested in a youth pastor there, but he told me he wasn’t interested in me; what can I do about it?  Can a Christian see a demon? […]

Caller Questions: Do you have any insight for my friend who abuses alcohol? His negative wife drives him away, which causes him to drink.  My 39yo daughter has been diagnosed with ADD and is breastfeeding; any guidelines as to how I can help her? 

Caller Questions: What can we do for our 30yo daughter who has PTSD from childhood trauma? She feels triggered when she sees me and doesn’t want Christian counseling.  Is there a way to help my single male friend who is a recluse? His neighbor gave me a note saying he is disturbing them.  How do […]

Caller Questions: Should I confront my adult daughter? She has had anger issues since childhood, and they are directed toward me.  Is it an act of deception that my fiancé has been intermittently contacting his ex-girlfriend? Or is it just his ability to compartmentalize? She doesn’t know I exist.

Caller Questions: How do I deal with the guilt I feel after confessing my infidelity to my wife of 35yrs? I feel worse now than when I kept it a secret.  What is a sexual deviant? I may have encountered one in a dating situation.  Meeting Becky and JJ in person at the last Intimacy […]

Caller Questions: I felt uncomfortable in my gynecological exam because the assistant was trans, so I left the room; should I have handled it differently?  What should I do to recover from feeling like I’ve blasphemed the Holy Spirit?  How do I respond to my friend who feels like he rushed into his second marriage […]

Caller Questions: Any advice for a family gathering when one daughter said something rude to my other daughter on Facebook and they haven’t talked since?  How do I change my life at 52yo? After I drink one beer, I can’t stop and end up drinking a case of beer.  One of my family members is […]

Caller Questions: My 14yo granddaughter thinks I treat her 16yo autistic brother better; how do I help her understand she needs to be more loving to him?  How do I deal with everyday life when I am depressed? The anniversary of my father’s death is coming up.  Why isn’t deliverance a priority message from the […]

Caller Questions: How do I break the pattern of always getting into relationships with men who have traumatic childhoods?  Is it normal as an introvert to not need relationships outside your spouse?  I am overwhelmed with my son’s medical problem and also caregiving for my developmentally disabled brothers. I tend to isolate.  How do I […]

Caller Questions: How do I get unstuck if I have ADHD and feel overwhelmed after I moved from California to Texas with my wife and seven kids?  How do I get away from the victim role? I’ve been in recovery for 34yrs, but things that happened when I was a teen still haunt me.  What […]

Caller Questions: How do we approach our brother who is committing adultery with a second cousin? Our mother also committed adultery, but it was kept a secret.  Did I have a trauma response when my body froze after I heard an explosion outside of my house?  How do I keep my peace when my husband […]

Caller Questions: My 17yo son has ADHD, is addicted to porn, has dyslexia, and is homeschooled; what does he do about his sexual urges?  What Scripture tells us that once we come to know Christ, we must change our behavior and repent of our sins? I don’t know how to change.  How do I deal […]

Caller Questions: My husband and I went to IIM workshop last weekend and loved the facilitator in our small group! He helped us reach down inside and find the answer to the questions we had.  Besides praying, what else can I do to help my 45yo bipolar son whom I believe is demonized but not […]

Caller Questions: How do I meet my husband’s sexual needs and make sure I get my needs met as well?  Our 26yo son is in the military and has become suicidal; how do we help him?  How long do I wait to contact my wife after 8mos of separation? She asked me not to contact […]