Conversations With Cinthia

Is your relationship enjoyable?  Successful?  Painful?  Delightful?  Is there as much closeness as you want, or more than you know how to handle?  How much effort does it all require?  Society no longer provides the structure for dating that many societies, including our own in the past, have provided for the building of a marriage; this means we have to be willing to build structure for ourselves and seek it with someone else. If you're not sure what this should look like, you're not alone; let Cinthia give you a place to start.