Itsrichardmartinez

huge part of being a great leader/lover is being able to dwell in understanding with someone. People have a need to be heard, valued & understood. When you feel understood, you feel loved; when you feel loved all things seem possible. Understanding, Under…standing
 What's under their standing? 
 What do they stand on? 
 What is at their foundation, their core values? What is their heart saying through their words? To dwell in understanding means to listen to ones words but hear their heart. It's to use their words as a highway into their hearts in order to get to know what is "under their standing." What's at their core?