Where's The Lemonade?

Transparency in marriage is a hot topic in social media right now. The constant pull between personal privacy and sharing everything with your spouse has several couples at odds and is lighting up the blended family social groups. In this episode, we discuss how we tackle this hard issue.Start with a mutual understandingBoth Paige and I had trust issues because of our previous relationships.Come up with an agreement that bans secrets from your marriage.Your spouse is the one person that you should be completely open with.A mutual understanding of transparency helps hold you accountable.For us that meant:Everything has to out in the open: Email, texts, account passwords, etc.Watch out for land mines of trust (Triggers from a previous relationship)Remind each other that we are not the person from the previous relationship.Give your spouse first priorityIf you have good or important news, your spouse should be the first one to know.Darren has a friend who found out his daughter had her baby through social media