Where's The Lemonade?

Your history has a profound effect on who you are. When you are in a second marriage that includes your relationship with your previous spouse. Sometimes learning about your spouse's previous relationships can be difficult, but we have found over the years that it has given us a better understanding of each other, where we have come from and what has shaped and molded each of us.Why your previous life is importantThe experiences that you have had made you who you are.Understanding your spouse's previous experiences is important to understand them, their triggers, and why they do what they do.Don't say previous life, previous marriage. Might be sensitive to your kidsThe kids' life and who they are is made up of the experiences with their parents. You cannot erase them. Remember when you try to erase or talk bad about your ex-spouse you are trying to erase part of your child. This can be very isolating and damaging to your relationship with your child.Fitting in and Accepting your new spotAccepting your spouse'