Where's The Lemonade?

This week Paige continues to teach Darren what she learned at "Education Week". This episode we tackle managing problems, not solving problem, managing them. Some problems, like putting socks in the hamper,  take a long to solve, but all problems can be managed.  Checking inExacerbated by my kids, your kids. We are sensitive to this and what we actually do it.Complaints aren’t fun but we need to deal with themWhat complaints do we need to share?You need to decide what is importantOnly the couple can decide together. Four-step problem solvingDiscuss   Use speaker listening techniqueStructured way to communicate safely. The point is to create safety in the relationship.I felt Z, when you did X, in situation Y.Be respectful and be specificMake sure you respect the rulesTaking time to discuss says, "I want to know and understand you better.You are ready to move on when you both understand each other's Point of ViewSet an AgendaPick a bite-sized piece to work onex - Problem is money - bite-size piece is talk about