Where's The Lemonade?

We had to go to marriage counseling to resolve a problem that has bubbled up over time. In this episode find out how we have used marriage counseling to strengthen our marriage and help us feel like we can tackle the problems thrown at us (with some help of course).Counseling in the BeginningWe started counseling the day we got engaged.Our counselor taught us how to communicate and empathize with each other.We spent time getting in the trenches with each other.Learned to give each other the benefit of the doubt.Periodically we go back to a counselor to get a refresh and help us work through problems.Benefits of CounselingBoth parties get impartial adviceA safe environment for honestyAn opportunity to unburden resentment and frustrationA forum to rebuild trustCreating an attachment bondEffectiveness of Marriage CounselingThe motivation of both partners and time, play an important role in success.Find a "good fit" counselor for you and your partner.Don't wait too long to reach out for help. (average people wait