Creating Magical Relationships With Bert & Nelly

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show State what you want and then let the other person have choice. We tend to hold back from asking for what we would actually like to have in a relationship rather than saying it and giving the other person choice. It is actually kinder to be clear and it will open doors to greater possibility for both of you and your relationship if you are brave enough to try it. When you keep thinking you want something in a relationship and it is not what you would actually like to have, you keep creating it so it won’t work because it is not really what you would like to have. If the things you really wanted in your relationship were not a wrongness in your eyes and you were okay with it, then you will be willing to ask for it and you would create a situation that actually works for you and the other person. When what you are looking to create takes on a life force of its own You keep trying to identify your awareness, your knowing as thoughts feelings and emotions and they are desi

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show What is Sexuality? What are the differences between Sexuality, Sexualness Sensuality? Does your body define your sexuality? Do you buy the definitions of your limitations based on your sexuality? When do you recognize that you are the gift to the world? How do you limit yourself and your receiving? What is consciousness? People try to embody sexuality here, which is always judgement. Defining yourself by your sexuality requires you to separate. HUH? It is a choice to receive only from certain people, which requires you to cut off receiving from everyone and everything else. You hide the consciousness of you behind your sexuality. Sexuality is always an exclusion; it always excludes some part of yourself. In simultaneity you are all things, you have been all things, and you done all things. There isn’t anything we haven’t been, done, had or created. What if sexuality wasn’t true, but a lie you have bought to limit you? ~ More About Creating Magical Relationships with B

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show Most people create sexual energy based on what is forbidden or what they have decided is sexy or sexually exciting. They are doing judgement to create and generate their sexual energy. Their judgement is what they use as a way to make themselves excited about having sex with someone.  "Turn On" is a series of judgements you do to create sexual energy. What if that sexual energy could be available all the time? If you are not functioning in your sexual experience from question, you are functioning from judgement and conclusion. You are not going to have any fun. What if you have sex because it was fun for you? You could change the world because you would actually be in the computation. The fact is most of you are not in the computation, based on your judgements of who you will have sex with. Fun is not reckless abandonment. Reckless abandonment is “ I am going to throw away my consciousness and have sex with this person anyway, regardless of the outcome”- that usually

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show Some use sex as the source of love and create a relationship and really has nothing to do with it. They assume that copulation solves the issues you have creating a relationship instead it creates more problems. Often many of you got hot and heavy, the sex slows done or stops and wondered why the relationship fizzled out? Sex becomes the focus of whether your relationship is working or not and they assume their relationship is not working if they are not having sex as often as they use to. So they start to break the relationship apart because they are not having enough sex. When you can experience the place where sex is not about creating relationship or love and recognize how your body enjoys it, how your body sings. It becomes something you felt like doing because it felt like a good thing to do that day, not because you needed to do it to prove anything. ~ More About Creating Magical Relationships with Bert & Nelly ~ Do you have any places where you are locked up w

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show A lot of us function from the idea of need, it is such an entrenched idea that you may never have thought of. I need this person to be with me in a relationship, I need to have a relationship to be happy, I need to have this type of body to be happy. I need to find a partner, my biological clock is ticking away. In this reality its that need that keeps a relationship together but guess what... its that need that drives the relationship apart. Imagine for a moment if you did not have a need? How much freedom would you have? What could you choose to create? in your relationship? In your life?what could you choose? ~ More About Creating Magical Relationships with Bert & Nelly ~ Do you have any places where you are locked up with creating the best relationship and sex life you’ve ever had? What if those places could be unlocked and you could begin to enjoy relationships again? What if you didn’t have to give up or cut off parts of yourself and you can see the value and co

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show When you say that men or women are the opposite sex you will find a way to be in opposition to them. Men and women are different, not right or wrong, powerful or weak, just different. You will create an opposition automatically and is that in your best interests if you really want to create a relationship? How about they are the other sex, as the other sex, they can contribute to your life. Many people think they are choosing for themselves when they are actually choosing against someone else. Are you making choices in your relationship based upon objecting, rejecting, refusing, denying or fighting someone else`s point of view. Who are you fighting? That would be you. You choose against yourself because you are not really choosing. You have determined you will fight everyone for everything so that you can have you. But fighting is not the way to have you. If you fight everyone, that everyone includes you. Fighting for your points of view (POV) of what it ought to be i

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show What would you LIKE to have in your relationships? What would you NOT LIKE to have in your relationships? Don’t ask for what you WANT, ask for what you LIKE TO HAVE because it is different than what you want. If you look at the idea of two people increasing each other capacity to Thrive, you will become aware of the energy you would like to have as your life. Then you can see if that other person might be a contribution to that this a totally different way of looking at relationships. You will find you desire something greater, because in the larger picture this person is contributing to the energy of what your life to be. You are the only power source that keeps you stuck where you are to change this requires more than choice you have to be willing to demand. The aim here is to get you out of trying to fiquire out how you fit in, how you benefit and get you to a place where you can actually choose. There is no choice in the things you do that are about fitting in, be

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show What are Fairy Tale Relationships? Where did you learn what Relationships should be? Parents, Relatives, Friends, Books, Television, Movies? Do Fairy Tale Relationships really exist? All those stories like Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Rapunzel, soul mates, twin flames, to be the proper thing to happen in this reality. The idea that the purpose of a Relationship is finding the perfect one, does he or she really exist? Would that require you to judge you or to choose you? ~ More About Creating Magical Relationships with Bert & Nelly ~ Do you have any places where you are locked up with creating the best relationship and sex life you’ve ever had? What if those places could be unlocked and you could begin to enjoy relationships again? What if you didn’t have to give up or cut off parts of yourself and you can see the value and contribution of you in every relationship? Let’s talk about what nobody talks about and gain access to the possibilities of amazing and empowering

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show How many of you have bought into the expectations that people who truly love you would be able to read your mind? If they really love you, they would know how to please you? If they really love you they would know what you want, what you require, how you would like things? We create these false assumptions and agendas about relationships and give up ourselves to make someone else happy. Listen in to Bert & Nelly as they discuss some of the false assumptions around relationships, how you become aware and change what is not working for you, creating a magical relationships with ease. ~ More About Creating Magical Relationships with Bert & Nelly ~ Do you have any places where you are locked up with creating the best relationship and sex life you’ve ever had? What if those places could be unlocked and you could begin to enjoy relationships again? What if you didn’t have to give up or cut off parts of yourself and you can see the value and contribution of you in every rela

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show Are you looking at your relationships and asking yourself how do I fix this? Why would you try to fix something that doesn't work? Is that what you have been told you are suppose to do, so you suffer? Is that really true? How about creating something different? Perhaps you judged yourself wrong and you bend, fold, mutilate who you are to fit in? You look at the wrongness in you to get your relationships right? Do you spend so much energy and work to get your relationships right by the end of the day you are totally exhausted and unhappy? What is right and by whose standards, yours or somebody else? What are the choices and possibilities to create a relationship with ease, joy and fun, unique for you? ~ More About Creating Magical Relationships with Bert & Nelly ~ Do you have any places where you are locked up with creating the best relationship and sex life you’ve ever had? What if those places could be unlocked and you could begin to enjoy relationships again? What i

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show Are you searching for intimacy in your relationship? Looking for love in all the wrong places? (I seem to remember someone wrote a song) What is intimacy for you? What is intimacy for your partner? Do you know? How do you define intimacy? What are your decisions, judgements, conclusions, computations of what intimacy is and is not? In this reality intimacy is having sex. Is that enough for you? What else is possible? Bert and Nelly have an amazing intimate relationship, listen in as they tell you how you can have the same if not more intimacy in your life. ~ More About Creating Magical Relationships with Bert & Nelly ~ Do you have any places where you are locked up with creating the best relationship and sex life you’ve ever had? What if those places could be unlocked and you could begin to enjoy relationships again? What if you didn’t have to give up or cut off parts of yourself and you can see the value and contribution of you in every relationship? Let’s talk about

Creating Magical Relationships Radio Show Gaslighting is an subtle form of manipulation and control, which derives its name from a 1938 play, Gas Light, and a film adaptation starring Ingrid Bergman. The victims of gaslighting are misled and forced to doubt what they know to be true, even about themselves. Victims end up doubting their memory, perception, and sanity. Over time, the gaslighter’s manipulations grow more complex and potent, making them difficult for the victim to avoid. Gaslighting can occur in personal or professional relationships, and gaslighters target their victims where it hurts: their sense of identity and self-worth. Gaslighting is a tactic in which a person or entity, in order to gain more power, makes a victim question their reality. It works much better than you may think. Anyone is susceptible to gaslighting, and it is a common technique of abusers, dictators, narcissists, and cult leaders. It is done slowly, so the victim doesn't realize how much they've been brainwashed. Even if a