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Sinopse
She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!
Episódios
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Stop Liking Instragram Pics
23/09/2025 Duração: 35minB~Love and Syd kick things off with their usual weekend recap, including their first impressions of Cardi B’s new album. From there, the fellas dive into relationship dynamics that hit close to home. They debate whether showing support on Instagram can cross the line when it comes to liking someone else’s photos, and they tackle the tricky question of how to encourage your spouse to hit the gym without sounding critical. The conversation heats up as they explore what happens when friends can’t give you the right advice because you didn’t tell them the whole truth, and they break down the funny but frustrating reality of why your spouse always seems to look extra good right in the middle of an argument. As always, the show wraps with a round of relatable “Would You Rather” questions guaranteed to spark laughs and keep the conversation going long after the episode ends.
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A Tongue Lashing
16/09/2025 Duração: 49minIn this week’s episode, B~Love and Syd dive into what real support looks like in relationships—and how it feels when the people closest to us don’t show up the way we expect. From reposts on social media to showing love out loud, they break down why support matters and how to ask for it without sounding ungrateful. They also tackle a wild “What Would I Do?” story involving flowers, assumptions, and a heated back-and-forth that spiraled way too far. To keep things light, the two wrap up with some “Would You Ever” questions guaranteed to get couples thinking (and maybe side-eyeing each other).
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Don't Go Messing Anybody Else's Happiness Up
09/09/2025 Duração: 58minThis week, B~Love and Syd dive into the real dynamics of marriage—where joy meets seriousness, routines clash with spontaneity, and “rules” only apply when they’re convenient. From early-morning cleaning stand-offs to the gray area of household leadership, they unpack the tension between perception and reality: why men often feel unseen for the work they do, and why women sometimes feel like they’re carrying the visible load. With honesty, humor, and a few throw-blanket jokes, the fellas tackle how to protect joy, respect leadership, and give credit where it’s due—all while keeping love at the center.
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Birthday Rules: What’s Expected vs. What’s Real
19/08/2025 Duração: 54minIt’s a birthday celebration on the podcast this week, and Syd joins B~Love to get real about everything from birthday etiquette to work travel drama. They kick things off with Birthday + Relationship Vibes, diving into the contentious topic of birthday beef. Is forgetting your spouse’s birthday ever forgivable? They also tackle the age-old "Birthday Wars," questioning why women’s birthdays often feel like a national holiday while men’s are a simple text and a Cash App. The conversation continues with the ultimate "Birthday Test": If your partner planned it all, would they actually get it right? They also debate the merits of surprise parties and whether they’re a thoughtful gesture or a low-key selfish act. And for those who celebrate a "birthday month," they ask the hard-hitting question: Are you really celebrating or just holding the house hostage for 30 days?
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Relationships are Partnerships
05/08/2025 Duração: 54minB~Love and Syd are back with another wild and relatable episode of the She & I Podcast. This week, B~Love kicks things off with the Parent Crash Out Basketball Game story — yes, a real-life sideline showdown. Then it’s JD’s flag football moment: when tempers flare, are you thinking clearly or just reacting? More importantly… would your spouse ride or die or grill you the whole car ride home? Next up: the Vacation Period Story. Every couple hits that stretch where everything feels like too much — work, school, sports, and side hustles. But what happens when both partners are burnt out? Who gets the grace when everyone’s running on fumes? As summer winds down, B~Love and Syd dive into cookouts, family reunions, and the chaos of unsolicited advice. How do you shield your marriage from shady comparisons and old-school opinions? Then it’s time for this week’s WOULD YOU RATHER. Tap in — because this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and the kind of moments every couple can relate to.
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Family Vacations to Concerts - Jeezy to Backstreet, We Are Back!
29/07/2025 Duração: 01h07minSyd is back in the studio with B~Love, and they're ready to share all the details of where they've been! Tune in as they recount their recent adventures, from memorable family vacations that brought them closer to the electric energy of unforgettable concerts. Get ready for personal anecdotes, travel tales, and all the exciting highlights from their time away!
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Wives Should Date Their Husbands
17/06/2025 Duração: 59minIndia Marie is back this week, and the "Date-a-Thon" continues with B~Love! They kick things off by reminiscing about their favorite dates so far, sharing what made those moments truly special. This leads into a lively discussion: How many dates should wives take their husbands on? They explore the importance of intentional connection, and how all the time they've spent together has undoubtedly brought them closer. Get ready for some relatable banter as B~Love calls out India Marie's tendency to overuse alarm clocks, a conversation sure to resonate with anyone who's shared a bedside table. Finally, they tackle a tricky social etiquette question: Can you be complimentary of an ex in public? They dive into the nuances of past relationships and present boundaries.
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Father's Day Gifting That Hits Different
03/06/2025 Duração: 01h02minThis week, B~Love and Syd are back with a packed episode! They kick things off with a Jacob Latimore album review, giving their unfiltered thoughts on his latest work. Syd then provides a candid update on Cam's vasectomy, offering a glimpse into their personal journey. The "Barrett & India Dateathon" continues as they discuss how rekindling the flame has led to a newfound appreciation for stillness in marriage. They explore how rare these moments of pause are and the powerful reset they can provide. This naturally leads to a discussion on whether couples with kids should intentionally create these windows more often. And speaking of dates, you'll get the scoop on Syd and Cam's favorite local date spot! As Father's Day approaches, they shift gears to Father’s Day gifts that hit different. Forget the same old ties and tools—they share some thoughtful gift ideas that go beyond expensive presents, focusing on what truly resonates. The conversation then turns to the often-overlooked challenge of coexisting with
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Just ‘K’? The Text That Starts Fights & Ends Friendships
20/05/2025 Duração: 53minSyd is back again with B~Love this week, and they kick things off by tackling a universally relatable query: Is "K" the most triggering text message you can receive? They dive into the nuances of short replies and the myriad of emotions a single letter can evoke. Following that, they share a Mother's Day recap, likely filled with personal anecdotes, reflections on the day, and perhaps some memorable moments. They then wrap up the episode with a lively game of "Would You Rather," promising some entertaining dilemmas and insights into their personalities.
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Shannon Should Have Watched Sinners
29/04/2025 Duração: 53minThis week, Syd returns to the podcast with B~Love to delve into a discussion inspired by the movie "Sinners." Their conversation begins by exploring the complexities of controlling temptation, examining the internal and external factors that influence our desires and choices. They then shift their focus to the dynamics of dating younger people, considering the potential benefits and challenges that can arise in such relationships. Finally, Syd and B~Love discuss the various perks and advantages of being committed to one person, highlighting the emotional security, deepened connection, and shared experiences that often come with long-term monogamy.
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Which Friends Messed Up the Group Chat
15/04/2025 Duração: 52minSyd joins B~Love this week, and they launch into a discussion about the value of preparation in their lives, exploring how they each approach planning and organization. This leads to a candid moment where an "off-mic conversation" comes into the spotlight, revealing a discussion about honesty and seeing things clearly, even when it's uncomfortable. They then delve into the delicate territory of relationship red flags, debating whether or not to support a friend's decision to bring a new, potentially fleeting partner to an event. The conversation shifts to the balance of having fun on guys/girls trips while maintaining respect and connection with their partners at home. They also tackle the common challenge of handling arguments with a spouse before joint events or tasks, seeking strategies for constructive conflict resolution. A listener writes in with a "What Would India Do?" scenario, describing discomfort with their wife's flirty male coworker who acted inappropriately at her birthday party despite prior c
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We Need a New Mattress
01/04/2025 Duração: 54minIndia Marie is back, and she and B~Love jump right into a fun recap of their weekend adventures! They share laughs and stories about their time out and about. Then, they get real about how their individual entrepreneurial journeys have shaped and changed their relationship dynamic. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of building their own businesses while supporting each other. Switching gears to a more domestic (and relatable!) topic, they chat about the need for a new mattress and take a hilarious trip down memory lane, reminiscing about the story behind their very first mattress purchase. Get ready for a lighthearted and entertaining episode filled with relationship insights and funny anecdotes!
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Postpartum Loneliness
25/03/2025 Duração: 59minB~Love welcomes back Syd, who shares an honest and vulnerable account of her life with two children after the birth of her son, Weston. Syd opens up about her feelings of anxiety and loneliness, emphasizing the crucial role of a supportive husband and a strong community in navigating the challenges of motherhood. This episode offers a raw and relatable perspective on the realities of postpartum life, offering comfort and encouragement to those experiencing similar emotions.
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Seven Years of Different Parenting Styles
05/03/2025 Duração: 57minB~Love and India Marie are back with a dose of relatable relationship realness! They start by recapping their recent date night, sparking a conversation about the importance of consistent date nights and the ever-present question: "When are YOU planning the next one?" B~Love playfully puts India Marie on the spot! Then, they dive into the wonderful world of having a seven-year-old. They share hilarious and heartwarming stories from their son Blake's recent 7th birthday celebration, reminiscing about how birthday parties have drastically changed since their own childhoods. Finally, they tackle the always-interesting topic of parenting styles. B~Love and India Marie candidly discuss their differences in approach and how they navigate raising their children together, offering insights into finding common ground and supporting each other as parents. Tune in for laughs, relatable moments, and a glimpse into their family life!
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Should Your Wife Make Your Doctors Appointments
26/02/2025 Duração: 55minB~Love and India Marie tackle the everyday challenges of relationships in this episode! They delve into the debate of who should schedule doctor's appointments - is it a shared responsibility or should one person take the lead? Next, they discuss the importance of emergency contacts and why it's crucial to have those conversations with your partner. Who do you call when things go wrong? The kitchen heats up as they discuss the division of labor when it comes to cooking dinner. Is it a shared responsibility, or does one person bear the brunt of the culinary burden? Tune in for a relatable and insightful conversation filled with laughter, practical advice, and maybe even a few heated debates!
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Funny Married Couple's VALENTINE'S Day Gift Swap!
11/02/2025 Duração: 57minB~Love and India Marie are back with a special Valentine's Day episode! They dive deep into their expectations for this romantic holiday, sharing stories about past Valentine's Day gifts and discussing what truly makes a Valentine's Day special for them. Get ready for some laughs, some heartfelt moments, and maybe even a few spicy revelations as they share their hopes for a love-filled Valentine's Day.
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Love and Respect Marriage Conference
04/02/2025 Duração: 49minB~Love and India Marie are back, and they're kicking off the episode with a hilarious story about why they missed last week's show: the dreaded Norovirus! They share their comical (and slightly horrifying) experiences battling the stomach bug and offer some much-needed sympathy to anyone who has ever experienced this unpleasant situation. The couple then dives into a deep discussion about their recent attendance at the Love & Respect Marriage Conference. They share their key takeaways, insights, and how they plan to apply the lessons learned to their own relationship. Get ready for a funny and insightful episode filled with relationship advice
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What Is A Luteal Phase?
20/01/2025 Duração: 01h12minB~Love and India Marie kick off the new year with a bang! In this episode, they catch listeners up on their exciting holiday season. From celebrating their daughter's birthday to planning a grand 70th birthday celebration for B~Love's mother in Mississippi, they share all the details. India Marie also enlightens B~Love about the luteal phase, providing valuable insights into women's hormonal cycles. Get ready for a fun and informative episode filled with family updates, relationship insights, and a healthy dose of laughter.
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Don't Let the Holidays Ruin Your Marriage
17/12/2024 Duração: 55minShe & I is back with another heartwarming episode! In this episode, India Marie shares exciting news: a special discount code for She & I listeners to enjoy 30% off their 10-Class Pass at Work It Pilates when they use code SHEANDI. B~Love and India Marie then dive into the world of R&B music, discussing how this genre has contributed to the stability of their marriage. They share their favorite R&B artists and songs, and explore the emotional connection that music can bring to a relationship. As the holiday season approaches, they talk about their holiday expectations and traditions. They discuss the importance of setting realistic expectations and finding joy in the little things.Podc
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India Marie is Back to Discuss the Vacation to Aruba
10/12/2024 Duração: 53minShe & I is back! In this episode, India Marie returns and shares the reasons behind her hiatus. She opens up about her experiences and how she used the time to recharge and grow. B~Love and India Marie then celebrate their 10-year anniversary, reminiscing on their journey together. They discuss the excitement of their ring upgrade and their romantic getaway to Aruba. Join them as they share their love story and offer insights into maintaining a strong and lasting relationship.