Victim To Victor With Victor Pacini

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Sinopse

Helping people overcome adversities so they can live inspired and productive lives.

Episódios

  • PARENTING AS A SURVIVOR

    11/03/2020 Duração: 03min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/parenting-as-a-survivor Parenting is a difficult journey to embark on. The exhaustion those first few months paired with the awe of this beautiful new person is life changing. There is frustration of a defiant toddler and the amazement of them stringing together sentences. Parents experience pride with their child’s independence in adolescence; they are growing up! But there is also the deep ache that as a parent you are no longer the first person your child seeks out for attention or guidance. Any and all of this can be a trigger to us parents. But what about survivors of child abuse? https://www.victorpacini.com/parenting-as-a-survivor -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories ---------------

  • THE RIGHT TO COME FORWARD

    04/03/2020 Duração: 05min

    Often times people will question why an adult who was sexually abused in their childhood waited years to disclose. I cannot speak for all victims or survivors, but I can say with a certainty many of us felt shame, embarrassment, and guilt; we were led to believe it was our fault or we could get in trouble. Many of us loved our abusers because that same abuser was someone we once trusted and we didn’t want them to get into trouble. It is possible for victims and survivors to work through healing and unlearn what they were taught in the midst of survival: they were never at fault and their abuser is to blame. www.VictorPacini.com/the-right-to-come-forward

  • WHY EVERY YEAR?

    27/02/2020 Duração: 03min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/why-every-year Every year our children review and relearn information from the previous year. Bus evacuations, fire drills, tornado and inclement weather drills, code red and lockdowns, and even stranger danger. All of this is taught and learned and relearned with one goal in mind: to keep children safe. When Erin’s Law was passed in 2013, it followed the same logical as every other safety lesson: With education and conversation, we can reduce a child’s risk of sexual abuse. https://www.victorpacini.com/why-every-year -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helpi

  • WHAT IS ERIN'S LAW

    19/02/2020 Duração: 04min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/what-is-erins-law On January 24th, 2013 Governor Quinn of Illinois signed Senate Bill 856 into law. More commonly known as Erin’s Law, this legislation mandates all public schools to provide comprehensive prevention education on sexual abuse. Statistically speaking, 1/4 girls and 1/6 boys will be sexually abused before their 18th birthday. If this law had not passed, countless children over the last 7 years would have been left in the dark to fend for themselves, suffer in silence, and bare the weight of a secret they should never have been told to keep. https://www.victorpacini.com/what-is-erins-law -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com htt

  • THEY'VE TOLD YOU...NOW WHAT? PART 2

    12/02/2020 Duração: 04min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what-part-2 As significant others of survivors, we have to remember that sexual abuse breeds in secrecy and thrives on silence and complicity. Without sharing openly, your loved one will continue to suffer with the terror all alone. https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what-part-2 -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories creates programs and products that help children build

  • THEY'VE TOLD YOU...NOW WHAT?

    05/02/2020 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what An initial disclosure of sexual abuse is the first step in a survivor’s decision to heal. They have determined that you are a safe person to go to. They are taking a leap of faith telling you what has happened to them, and most likely hoping you will respond with compassion and love. https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories crea

  • DO'S AND DO NOT'S OF DISCLOSING

    29/01/2020 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here www.victorpacini.com/dos-and-do-nots-of-disclosing Now more than ever, the topic of child sexual abuse is discussed. Parents and those who work with children are inundated with information that could help a child: Signs of abuse, grooming tactics, statistics, coping mechanisms, how to be supportive on a healing journey, and how to cope as a parent if your child has been through trauma. All of this information is crucial, but so is knowing how to respond in the event of a disclosure. www.victorpacini.com/dos-and-do-nots-of-disclosing -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children inc

  • STANDING TALL AND SPEAKING LOUD

    21/01/2020 Duração: 04min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/standing-tall-and-speaking-loud Speaking up for what we believe in has never been an easy feat. Standing by our values, beliefs, and mores can be risky; History has shown us time and time again speaking publicly against injustices can put us in danger. Fear and all, so many of us jump into the void of the unknown that is self-advocacy. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day, which we celebrate every third Monday in January, is a powerful reminder of why self-advocacy can ultimately be for the world. https://www.victorpacini.com/standing-tall-and-speaking-loud -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victorie

  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD ABOUT SEXUAL ABUSE

    15/01/2020 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/how-to-talk-to-your-child-about-sexual-abuse Most children will never experience sexual abuse yet for the 1/4 girls and 1/6 boys who will be victimized before their 18th birthday (Source 1), this conversation will make all the difference. At Childhood Victories, we teach students about sexual abuse from pre-school all the way up until senior year. Our curriculum normalizes the conversation in school and empowers children to use their voice. https://www.victorpacini.com/how-to-talk-to-your-child-about-sexual-abuse -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping chi

  • WHY EMPATHY IS SO IMPORTANT

    08/01/2020 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/invisible-battles Whether we like to admit it or not, we all have invisible battles that others may have no idea are happening. As adults we deal with everyday responsibilities like bills, work, and our households. We ebb and flow with relationships, from our love interests to family and friends, and sort through the healthy and the toxic. We look back on our childhoods with fondness and nostalgia or find a path to recover from injustices. -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice

  • TRANSFORMATION

    01/01/2020 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/using-the-past-to-fuel-a-new-present Much of our present life can feel overtaken over by our past. When we think about it, why wouldn’t it? Past pain and traumas can rear their ugly heads at any moment, with seemingly no warning. A trigger during the holiday season, second guessing someone else’s goodwill as possible grooming, or even maintaining hyper-vigilance long after the danger in our lives is gone, is nothing short of suffocation. We understand why feeling “stuck” in the wake of trauma can feel like drowning. We also know that choosing to kick and claw to the surface and making choices can alter the present as we know it. https://www.victorpacini.com/using-the-past-to-fuel-a-new-present -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- M

  • WHY TRIGGERS ARE THE GREATEST GIFT

    26/12/2019 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/why-triggers-are-the-greatest-gift Triggers have gained quite the negative reputation the last few years. Simply put, a trigger is when an event, memory, or interaction elicits an emotion. These are an emotional response to stimuli. You may be surprised to know that not all triggers are painful. But whether they feel positive or negative, scary or not, triggers are actually the greatest gift. -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal str

  • WHY COPING HELPED ME SUCCEED

    11/12/2019 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly-of-coping Trauma symptoms are all relative to our experiences in life. What may seem disastrous and harmful to me may just seem like an every day occurrence to another. There is no comparing horrors; “the worst of the worst” is subjective in our own happenings. No matter your past, no matter what others deem as “worthy trauma” we all face the arduous path of coping. -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal

  • WHY ABUSE PREVENTION EDUCATION IS IMPORTANT?

    03/12/2019 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/why-abus... Preventing sexual abuse can feel like an overwhelming and never-ending battle. Talk about personal body safety as early and as often as possible. Use anatomically correct words as parents. Keep an open dialogue about relationships, feelings, and seemingly everyday and mundane life experiences. Listen, listen, listen. Maintain vigilance over who spends time with our children and how they interact with them. Listing it out like this CAN make it seem impossible. -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by

  • WHY AM I GRATEFUL?

    27/11/2019 Duração: 04min

    Sexual abuse disclosures do not match the instances of abuse. Many children wait years, sometimes until adulthood, before finding the strength to speak the unspeakable. Maybe they were threatened. Maybe they never understood what happened to them WAS abuse and that it was NEVER their fault. Maybe…just maybe…they were unsure of how their loved ones would respond. ----------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories creates programs and products that help children build

  • CIRCLE OF TRUST VIOLATIONS

    20/11/2019 Duração: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/circle-of-trust-violations From the day that they are born, children depend on others. In a perfect world, family and community work together. They provide basic necessities and nurturing. Children have no choice other than depending on these people. While children grow from that care, so does the love and trust with those closest to them. This creates a Circle of Trust. This bond allows children to feel safe and free to be their true and authentic selves. -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering the

  • VIOLENCE WITHIN CULTURES(AMERICAN, SPANISH, INDIAN)

    13/11/2019 Duração: 05min

    This week we wanted to take a look inside abuse within different cultures. Though all abuse is based in power and control, there can be individual beliefs, reactions, and legal ramifications that are unique in some cultures. Let’s start with American culture. ------------------------ Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories creates programs and products that help children build courage, confidence, make positive choices, and develop goals and dreams. ----------------------- Relevant T

  • TO BE (FORGIVEN), OR NOT TO BE (FORGIVEN)?

    06/11/2019 Duração: 04min

    That is the question, no? The age old debate for survivors: Do I truly need to forgive to heal? Am I unable to “move on” without forgiving? If I do forgive, is that weakness? The answer to all of those questions is, no. Forgiveness is not mandatory for healing. You can still live your life without forgiveness. And you are never weak for finding it within yourself to forgive someone; Someone who has not likely acknowledged the pain they inflicted upon you, let alone apologized. Today, we want to look at two stories of survival. Both survivors are, without a doubt “well-adjusted” in adulthood, yet bare the scars from their childhoods each and every day. One has found solace in his forgiveness, the other finding strength in feeling the anger. -------------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pa

  • WHY AWARENESS IS SO POWERFUL

    29/10/2019 Duração: 03min

    In today’s world of prevention, it’s hard to find a curriculum that meets the needs of every student. Between cultural, language, age, communication, and developmental barriers, it can seem impossible to educate every student who receives Erin’s Law. Though it may seem overwhelming, we are absolutely capable of helping each student on the difficult topic of sexual abuse. Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- www.ChildhoodVictories.com Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories creates programs and products that help children build courage, confidence, make positive choice

  • HOW DO CHILDREN GET ABUSED?

    22/10/2019 Duração: 05min

    At Childhood Victories, we believe in telling it like it is which includes using accurate terms like, “sexual abuse” and “grooming”. If this is tough for you, as it is with many adults and children, Victor also came up with the term, “Tricked into Trust©”. This simple way to describe what grooming is has brought our “Be Seen and Heard” program to a child’s level and made It easier for them to talk about. Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories creates programs and products that hel

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