Jj Virgin Lifestyle Show

"No one should suffer. I think a lot of cancer survivors get told, be thankful you're alive. We've got all these wonderful treatments. We will keep you alive and just deal with the side effects of treatments, and that just isn't true." - Dr. Mindy Goldman When I sat across from Dr. Mindy Goldman at dinner the night before Tamsen Fadal's World's Hottest Menopause Party, I knew I had to get her on the podcast. As someone who's spent decades watching women suffer in silence after breast cancer treatment—told just to be grateful they're alive while managing devastating menopausal symptoms—I was thrilled to meet someone breaking down these barriers, finally. Dr. Goldman has created something revolutionary: the only program in the country that bridges breast cancer care with menopause management, training over 300 providers to support survivors through virtual telehealth. We dive deep into the biggest myth plaguing women today—that ALL breast cancer survivors must avoid hormones forever—and she explains why that's

After decades of working with thousands of women and perfecting my own health journey, I'm sharing with you exactly what fuels my body every single day. This isn't some Instagram-perfect fantasy—this is my real-world daily nutrition routine for women over 40 that travels with me 70% of the time and has helped me maintain muscle mass, energy, and metabolic health as I've aged. From my morning coffee ritual (yes, it's actually a health food!) to my strategic supplement timing, I'm walking you through every meal, every supplement, and every decision that keeps me strong and energized. You'll discover why I choose certain proteins over others, how I time my carbs for better sleep, and the game-changing supplement that increased my muscle protein synthesis by 18% in just three weeks. This daily nutrition routine for women over 40 isn't about restriction—it's about optimization, and I'm sharing the behind-the-scenes strategies that actually work. What you’ll learn: The exact morning routine that sets up meta

"When you take care of your health, you improve your skin to the level that you need less makeup because your skin is already showing up so much healthier." - Dr. Alessandra Zonari What if I told you that the secret to reversing skin aging isn't about slathering on more products, but about targeting the "zombie cells" that are literally aging you from within? Dr. Alessandra Zonari, a PhD stem cell biologist, just blew my mind with her breakthrough research on cellular senescence - those damaged cells that refuse to die and instead pump out inflammation that breaks down our collagen and thins our skin barrier. As women, we hit a biological cliff at 30, and by our 40s and beyond, these senescent cells are accumulating faster than our bodies can clear them out. But here's the game-changer: we can actually reverse this process, not just slow it down. Through targeted skincare that eliminates these zombie cells, combined with smart lifestyle choices around sleep, exercise, and nutrition, we can turn back our biol

In this behind-the-scenes episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on exactly how I've maintained strong, defined arms well into my 50s, and more importantly, why this matters so much more than just appearance. After decades in the fitness industry, I've learned that most women are approaching arm training completely wrong – focusing on light weights and endless cardio instead of the proven strategies that actually work. I'm sharing the exact training principles I use and teach my clients, including why I don't focus on traditional bicep and tricep exercises, the critical importance of progressive overload, and how compound movements like pull-ups and push-ups can transform not just your arms, but your entire metabolic health. This isn't just about looking good in sleeveless tops (though you absolutely will!) – it's about building the muscle that serves as your metabolic engine, helps regulate blood sugar, and keeps you strong and powerful as you age.   What you’ll learn: Why muscle mass is your "metabol

"I can seal your leaky gut. It'll take a while, but I can seal it. But if you keep swallowing razor blades, you're gonna tear it right open." - Dr. Steven Gundry What if I told you that your brain isn't actually in charge of your thoughts and cravings? My longtime neighbor and friend, Dr. Steven Gundry, just blew my mind again with revelations that completely change how we think about hunger, decision-making, and brain health. We're walking around, believing we're making conscious choices about food, but the truth is that our gut bacteria are pulling the strings, like puppet masters. This conversation unveiled the shocking connection between our deteriorating gut health and the rise in neurological conditions we're seeing in women over 40. From the patient with Parkinson's who got her life back to why you feel amazing eating pasta in Italy but feel inflamed after a "healthy" meal at home, Dr. Gundry reveals the hidden razors we're swallowing daily that are literally shredding our gut lining and creating brai

After four decades in this industry, I've discovered something that will validate every frustration you've felt about your stubborn metabolism. You're eating clean, hitting your macros, crushing your workouts, watching every calorie—and the scale won't budge. The truth? Your body isn't broken, and you're not failing. You've simply been following the wrong set of rules that may have damaged your metabolism over time. Today, I'm revealing the 10 hidden biological barriers that could be sabotaging your efforts, plus the one surprising factor that will blow your mind. This isn't about restriction—it's about restoration. It's time to understand why getting metabolically healthy comes first, and weight loss follows. For every woman over 40 who's ever wondered if she's going crazy, this episode will change everything you thought you knew about your body.  What you’ll learn: Why chronic calorie restriction can actually lower your metabolism by 500 calories per day The hidden connection between inflammatio

"I think true resilience is appreciating what life is offering and finding the gift in it. Finding the gift in the confusion or the gift in the pain, the gift in this circumstance." - Sage Robbins When I first encountered Sage Robbins at the World's Hottest Menopause Party, I was completely awestruck by her presence - not just how she showed up, but how truly present she was. This woman embodies the profound intersection of grace and power that comes from a 20-year journey of health struggles, hormone chaos, and ultimately finding her way back to herself. After enduring multiple miscarriages, IVF cycles, a pituitary tumor, and hormonal imbalances so severe a doctor said her profile looked like "a woman transitioning into a man," Sage discovered something revolutionary: she had to become the CEO of her own health and vitality. Her story isn't just about overcoming health challenges - it's about that beautiful midlife awakening where you stop trying to be who you think you should be and start celebrating who y

I'm about to share something that completely changed how I think about bone health – and it might shock you, too. For years, I've been getting DEXA scans and feeling confident about my bone health because my scores looked great. Then I discovered a revolutionary new test called REMS (radiofrequency echographic multi-spectrometry), and guess what? Despite my "perfect" DEXA results, I actually have mild osteopenia. This was my wake-up call, and it's why I'm passionate about sharing the complete truth about bone health supplements women over 40 need to know. Here's what no one tells you: traditional DEXA scans only measure bone mineral density – how much bone you have – but they miss the crucial piece of bone quality. You could have normal bone density but still have fragile bones if your bone architecture, turnover rates, and collagen integrity aren't optimal. That's why I'm diving deep into the cutting-edge strategies that go far beyond calcium supplements, including specific exercises that load your spine an

"How you feel, what you want, and what you think have to be important to you. But it has to be more important than what anyone else wants, thinks, or feels." - Terri Cole Have you ever wondered why you feel exhausted despite being incredibly capable and getting everything done? Licensed psychotherapist Terri Cole joins me to expose the hidden epidemic of high-functioning codependency that's leaving accomplished women in their 40s and beyond feeling burned out, resentful, and unknown by the people closest to them. This powerful conversation reveals why boundary setting for women isn't just about saying no—it's about reclaiming your authentic self and creating relationships where you're truly known. We dive deep into why saying "I don't care" when you actually do care is corrupting your relationships, how anticipatory planning is stealing your peace, and why that voice in your head saying "I don't want them to feel bad" is actually about control, not love. Terri reveals the two game-changing questions that wil

Sleep isn't a luxury - it's your secret weapon for everything from hormone balance to muscle recovery, especially when you're navigating life after 40. The perfect evening routine women over 40 need looks different than what worked in your twenties, and I'm breaking down exactly why your nighttime rituals matter more than you think. From debunking the biggest sleep myths (no, you can't just "catch up" on weekends!) to revealing why that 4 PM latte might be sabotaging your rest, I'm sharing the exact strategies that have transformed my recovery and next-day energy. Whether you're dealing with perimenopause sleep disruptions or just tired of feeling tired and wired, this evening routine women over 40 can implement anywhere - from home to hotel rooms - will change everything. Your hormones, metabolism, and mood will thank you.   What you’ll learn: Why sleep debt is real and how the right evening routine for women over 40 can combat it The biggest nighttime mistakes that are killing your sleep qualit

"I argue pelvic floor physical therapists can literally change marriages." - Kim Vopni When I sat down with Kim Vopni, known as "The Vagina Coach," she dropped a bombshell that completely blew my mind about bladder infections that should be standard care—but isn't. As someone who's spent decades in the health and fitness world, I thought I knew everything about taking care of my body. But this conversation revealed a massive blind spot that affects up to 50% of women who've given birth, and countless others who haven't. Kim's expertise revealed why pelvic floor health for women over 40 is absolutely critical, yet so many of us are secretly struggling with issues we've been told are "just part of being a woman" or "normal aging." From understanding why 95% of women with low back pain have pelvic floor dysfunction to learning how vaginal estrogen can be a game-changer for UTI prevention, this episode will transform how you think about your body and empower you to take action that could literally change your li

After decades in the health and nutrition space, I'm finally sharing exactly what's in my supplement arsenal—and trust me, it's evolved significantly since my twenties and thirties! In this transparent deep-dive, I'm opening up my pantry (which is literally half supplements) to show you my complete supplement routine women over 50 should consider when optimizing for strength, energy, and powerful aging. Here's what makes this episode different: I'm not just telling you what to take—I'm sharing my personal philosophy of "fix the deficiencies first, then optimize for longevity." From my morning thyroid support to my evening muscle-building protocol, you'll get the exact dosages, timing, and reasoning behind every choice. Plus, I'll share the game-changing discoveries I made at recent medical conferences, including a peptide that's revolutionizing muscle health and a fertilized egg protein that helped me gain 2.5 pounds of lean muscle in just two months. This isn't about copying my routine—it's about understand

“What we decide to put in our mouth each day, what time we decide to go to sleep, who we choose to engage with, how much movement we get, how we manage our stressors, those choices that we make each day that seem really simple, those have the biggest impact on our brain health as we age." - Dr. Heather Sandison When my son Grant suffered his traumatic brain injury, I learned firsthand how devastating cognitive decline can be for an entire family. That's why I was so excited to sit down with Dr. Heather Sandison, a pioneering naturopathic doctor who's literally rewriting the story around Alzheimer's and dementia. While most memory care centers are one-way doors, Heather runs what she calls a "memory recovery program" where the goal is for people to return home—and they're doing it! Through her groundbreaking work applying Dr. Dale Bredesen's protocols, she's seeing 74% of her patients with cognitive impairment actually improve. Her approach to preventing Alzheimer's in midlife women focuses on hope, action, a

As someone who's spent decades helping women over 40 reclaim their energy and vitality, I'm pulling back the curtain on my real morning routine—the one that keeps me energized, focused, and in peak shape without fancy gadgets or hours of time. Forget those intimidating four-hour morning routines you see on social media; I'm sharing the science-backed habits that take just 15 minutes but create dramatic shifts in your physiology for the entire day. This energizing low cost morning routine includes everything from gratitude practices that activate your parasympathetic nervous system to budget-friendly contrast therapy using your own bathroom—strategies that work for busy women who want maximum impact with minimal time investment. You'll discover why starting with intention instead of your phone changes everything, how a simple protein-packed smoothie sets your metabolic tone, and the affordable biohacks that deliver the same benefits as expensive equipment. The best part about this energizing low cost morning r

"Our goal is to get you to the point where you can tolerate more foods with less pain and you can live your life. You can go on vacation and you can have some chips and guac or whatever, and you can be okay." - Hannah Aylward Hannah Aylward's journey from chronic gut dysfunction to functional gut health practitioner mirrors what so many of us experience in our 40s and beyond - doing everything "right" yet still struggling with mysterious digestive issues. Her story resonates deeply because she discovered that healing isn't just about elimination diets or avoiding certain foods forever. It's about getting to the root cause of the root cause. Hannah shares why gut problems are more prevalent than ever, how stress, toxin exposure, and even birth control pills contribute to digestive dysfunction, and most importantly, how to actually heal your gut so you can enjoy food freedom again. This conversation will shift your perspective from fearing foods to understanding that your body can become resilient enough to ha

Women over 40 face a perfect storm when it comes to protein - we're losing muscle mass, dealing with anabolic resistance, and juggling life demands that make proper nutrition feel impossible. I've cracked the code on hitting my daily protein goals without the boring chicken breast routine, and I'm sharing exactly how I do it. From my morning smoothie hacks to my favorite grass-fed steaks with pluck seasoning, I'll walk you through my real-world strategy for getting 0.7 to 1 gram per pound of target body weight. This isn't about restriction - it's about building the foundation for aging powerfully while actually enjoying your food.   What you’ll learn: Why protein needs increase dramatically after 40, and the science behind anabolic resistance My exact daily protein formula and how to calculate your target intake Strategic meal timing, including the importance of "bumper meals" at breakfast and dinner Creative ways to boost protein without relying on plain chicken and boring powders

"I knew that a negative body was not gonna heal properly. I knew I had to find a way to put my big girl pants on and fight for this." - Nicole Eggert When former Baywatch star Nicole Eggert discovered a golf ball-sized lump in her breast at 51, her world shifted in ways she never imagined. What began as devastating news became an unexpected journey of transformation, self-love, and profound awakening. Nicole's raw honesty about her breast cancer diagnosis reveals the power of early detection - and how a health crisis can become life's greatest teacher. From throwing out toxic beauty products to embracing spiritual healing practices, she's redefining what it means to truly care for yourself after 40. Her story isn't just about surviving cancer; it's about discovering that your body isn't your enemy, but your greatest ally in life.   What you’ll learn: The critical importance of breast self-exams and why mammograms aren't always enough for dense breast tissue How to shift from self-criticism to bo

I'm breaking down everything you need to know about creatine - the game-changing supplement that's not just for bodybuilders anymore. As women over 40, we're dealing with changing metabolism, declining muscle mass, and energy dips that can make us feel like we're fighting an uphill battle. But here's what I've discovered: creatine isn't just about gym performance. It's your cellular battery booster that can sharpen your brain when you're sleep-deprived, help you recover faster from workouts, and even ease jet lag struggles. I'm sharing why I wish I'd started taking it decades ago, the crucial difference between creatine HCL and monohydrate (hint: one causes bloating, the other doesn't), and exactly how to dose it for maximum benefits without the side effects. Plus, I'm revealing my personal protocol for high-stress days, travel, and those nights when sleep just doesn't happen - because let's be real, life after 40 throws us curveballs and we need our energy to keep up.   What you’ll learn: Why creatine

"Most women think it's their problem, their flaw, that they need to be better or different. But no, you're not broken. You just didn't get an education." — Dr. Kelly Casperson I was blown away by my conversation with Dr. Kelly Casperson, a board-certified urologic surgeon who's on a passionate mission to educate women about their bodies, hormones, and sexuality. As one of the rare female urologists who specializes in menopause and sexual medicine, Kelly opened my eyes to how dramatically our society has failed women when it comes to education about our bodies. We dove deep into the truth about testosterone for women (yes, we need it!), the life-changing benefits of vaginal estrogen that no one talks about, and why "responsive desire" is completely normal. Kelly brilliantly reframes hormones as "neuro hormones" rather than just "sex hormones," revealing how essential they are for brain health, bone strength, and overall well-being. Her approach combines medical expertise with a refreshing emphasis on empowerm

Your body is wired for survival, not aesthetics, and the moment you lose weight, it fights back with everything it's got. I've seen too many women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond lose significant weight only to watch it creep back on—sometimes leaving them worse off than when they started. The harsh reality is that your metabolism can drop 5-20% lower than it should be after weight loss, your hunger hormones go haywire, and your body literally pushes you to overeat. But here's what the National Weight Control Registry has taught us about the people who successfully keep weight off: they don't just maintain—they continuously evolve their approach. They move more, eat consistently, track their progress, and most importantly, they transform their identity from someone who lost weight to someone who lives like a naturally lean person. The secret isn't perfection; it's understanding that staying where you want to be requires different strategies than getting there in the first place.   What you’ll learn: Why