Shameless Sex

What is Urogynecology? Why does pelvic organ prolapse happen, how does this affect sex, and what are some of the options or procedures available? How does hormone optimization fit into this? If I have a hysterectomy will my sex drive be gone forever? What about penis-owner’s sexual health optimization? What can they do and what should they know ASAP? Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille NP answer all this and more. About our guests: Dr. Castillo is a Fellowship-trained Female Pelvic Medicine specialist. As founder and director of Swan Medical Intimate Wellness in Los Gatos, CA, he is dedicated to improving common quality of life conditions that affect millions of women. Dr Castillo completed his OB/GYN residency at St Barnabas Medical Center in NJ then went on to complete a three year Fellowship in Reconstructive Pelvic Surgery and Female Pelvic Medicine at the Cleveland Clinic Foundation. After 5 years of clinical practice at Kaiser Permanente where his duties involved overseeing resident research and education and

We’re excited to introduce you to one of our favorite podcasts in the Pleasure Podcasts Network, called Multiamory. Multiamory explores the ins and outs of non-traditional relationships. Whether you're curious about polyamory, open relationships, or just want to approach your monogamous relationships more intentionally, the Multiamory Podcast has got you covered. This is a short clip from Multiamory episode 394: 50 Ways to Handle Jealousy. It's the beginning of a full 2-part discussion of 50 different personal tools and techniques for having a better relationship to jealousy. This clip just covers the first 4 tools but we hope it excites you to go checkout the full episodes, 394 and 395 of the Multiamory Podcast.

What is the most common sexual health issue that men/penis owners are experiencing or concerned with? What can go wrong if penis owners don’t acknowledge their (sexual) health problems and seek help? Why is searching for “my dick can’t get hard” or “lump in my balls” on the internet a problem? How can penis owners safely get good, accurate information online? How can they overcome cock-related health shame or embarrassment when it comes to addressing their sexual health concerns? And what advice do you have for partners or loved ones who want to support men in dealing with sexual health stigmas? About our guests: Dr. Kevin Chu grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and attended the University of California - Berkeley for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at New York Medical College and his urology residency training and fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Chu is a private practice, men’s health specialist in Los Angeles. He has published m

What are some of the best ways to up my handjob skills? What about blowjobs? How can I conquer the cock with my mouth? How does pleasuring the taint and balls come into the mix? Any differences between hand jobs on circumcised vs uncircumcised cocks? And how can I learn about how my partner likes to be pleasured? Dr. Sadie Allison aka the Penis Genius answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Sadie Allison is founder of Tickle Kitty Inc., a sexologist, sex educator and bestselling author going on two decades now. She is also known as “America’s Pleasure Coach” and her mission is to empower others to embrace a deeper enjoyment of their sexuality through education, inspiration and honest, straight-talk advice. Her 6 award-winning, illustrated sex books include: Tickle His Pickle, Ride ‘Em Cowgirl!, Tickle Your Fancy, Tickle My Tush, Toygasms! and The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris. Each has won the coveted IPPY Best Sexuality Book award and together they’ve sold 2 Million copies. To accompany her sex-

What is the B of BDSM all about? How can people explore bondage and restraint play in a super hot yet safe, consensual way? Why are people into being tied up, and what does it do for the "doer"? What are some of the tools and props that can be used for bondage and restraint play? And what are some of the top tips for newbies who want to dip their toes into the B of BDSM? Repeat guest and master kink educator Orpheus Black teaches all this and more. Be sure to check out Orpheus' upcoming Unleashed Retreat August 18th-20th, 2023, AND Shameless Sex listeners even get $50 off with code SHAMELESSSEX. Sign up here: orpheusblack.com/retreat About our guest: Part spiritual therapist, part bedroom sorcerer, and all bad ass. Orpheus Black is a Los Angeles-based public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary who specializes in the application of ancient wisdom in modern day settings.  Known widely for his dynamic sexcraft and ear perking shows, Orpheus is perhaps distinguished from his peers by his calib

All hail the glorious pu$$y! This juicy bonus episode is all about super sexy and creative ways to pamper, worship, adore, praise and pleasure those very special vulva-owners in your life through touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, and quality time. Don't worry...we will likely be releasing a penis praising episode someday soon :) Enjoy! Links: Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify pleasure with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get turned on and learn the art of sexy talk with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Pamper your lover with a delicious meal with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com/shameless60 Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why are STDs now called STIs? What are the most popular STI’s on the current market? What do I do if I get an STI? How can I manage it? What are the best safer-sex practices available? How can I share my STI status with partners as well s inspire them to be honest with me? Danielle Bezalel, MPH aka Sex Ed with DB gives us the skinny on the current knowledge about STIs and safer sex in 2023. About our guest: Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB (she/her/hers), is the Creator, Executive Producer, and Host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast, a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. Danielle earned a Master of Public Health with expertise in sexuality, sexual, and reproductive health from Columbia University. Danielle lives in Oakland, CA. Go to www.sexedwithdb.com to learn more about the podcast and get discounts on DB’s faves here. You can listen to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Soundcloud, or wherever you get your podcasts. Follow Sex Ed with DB on TikTok,

Are you a fan of adult entertainment? Then, you've got to listen to one of our favorite podcasts: Holly Randall Unfiltered. In this sample from Holly's show, the iconic performer Adriana Chechick joins Holly for an interview that shows Adriana's MANY sides! You’ll hear about her upbringing in foster care, her honest reflections on career regrets, and why she finds gangbangs empowering. Adriana will surprise you with her brutally honest insight on a storied career that brought her so much fame, and why she has decided to leave it all behind. Hosted by director and photographer Holly Randall– a 25 year veteran of the adult industry– this podcast interviews the people who make up this vastly misunderstood industry. From performers to directors to sex educators and therapists, this show explores the good (and the bad!) stories to lift the veil of secrecy surrounding porn, and to give a voice to those who truly understand what it’s like to work in this thriving, but highly stigmatized career. Forget everything you

How can people move from anxiety, self-doubt, and fear to a confident, proactive state of mind regarding gender and sexuality? What are the tools for developing and celebrating inherent worth and genuine self-love? How can people design relationships, community, and a sex life that lights them up? And what if I live in the middle of nowhere with what seems like zero open-minded folks to date or connect with? Rae McDaniel, author of Gender Magic shares all of this and so much more. About our guest: Rae McDaniel (they/them) is a non-binary Speaker, Author, Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, and Transgender Diversity and Inclusion Educator.  Rae helps audiences gain the sheer audacity to be themselves in the world through play, pleasure, and possibility. Their book Gender Magic is a first-of-its-kind practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity, and pleasure for transgender and non-binary individuals, gender explorers, and those who love them (May 2023.) They have been featured in high

Why does having a deeper connection to your pelvic floor lead to better orgasms? Does the same apply to penises and asses? How is squatting and peeing related? What are some of the best positions and tools (sex toys!) for a healthy pelvic floor (aka better orgasms)? Oh, and can a penis really break? About our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, Oregon. Meredith provides one-on-one, in home, concierge physical therapy services which eliminates the stress of commuting to an appointment, hiring childcare, and worrying about sharing the intimate details of your story with an entire clinic. Dr. Meredith knows that every person has a story to share and having time with your provider is often the piece that is lacking in our traditional healthcare system. Meredith will help you determine the root cause of your symptoms, develop a plan for relief, and help you get back to what is most important - living your best life! Meredith also serves as the Dir

Why is swallowing and deep-throating so popular, and why do a lot of people have an aversion toward engaging in these activities? What is the science behind swallowing and how does it relate to all types of oral sex (on vulvas, penises and all the in-betweens)? What are my options if I have a powerful gag reflex? How can I up my oral sex game including (but not limited to) swallowing and deep-throating? And what if I don't like certain body fluids in my mouth or throat? World renown Swallowologist Dr. Ianessa Humbert answers all this and much more. About our guest: Ianessa Humbert, Ph.D. is an accomplished scientist, professor, and highly sought-after speaker with expertise in swallowing and swallowing disorders. With over 100 speaking invitations around the world, the most common feedback from attendees continues to be “This is the first time a course has really forced me to think about what I’m doing”. Dr. Humbert’s teaching philosophy requires attendees to question everything they think they know before le

Why are a lot vulva owners told that incontinence, dryness, low libido and even painful sex are “just part of life"? Is there a secret to increasing energy, libido and metabolism while decreasing brain fog? What is hormone optimization all about? Can we really work against the aging process by keeping things juicy and supple? What is the latest technology for laser treatments such as the Halo and DiVa all about and how can it lead to healthy glowing skin and genitals? About our guest: April Umek, PA-C is co-owner of Pacific Coast Aesthetics and has been a PA for over 23 years. She has a specialty in holistic aesthetics, women's health, dermatology and emergency medicine. She and the team at Pacific Coast Aesthetics have a passion for using the latest laser and other technologies to help their patients reverse age and enjoy optimized mental, physical and sexual health. To learn more visit pacificcoastaesthetics.com. And guess what? April is offering a special offer only for our SHAMELESS SEX Listeners: 20% off

This episode is all about celebrating all the sexy mamas in your life. Are you a mama and want to add more sensuality in your erotic landscape? Do you know a mama whom you want to pamper and adore (because, just like you, most people deserve and love a good pampering)? Listen on to bring your mama admiration to a whole new level. Other links: Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify your sensuality with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get 20% your entire order of some of our favorite sex toys with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is the idea of bringing in a third on a lot of people’s ultimate fantasy list? How can people know if a threesome is right for them? What are some of the benefits for adding another person into your partnered play? How can threesomes go awry? What are some of the most common missteps people make? What are some tips for fun, successful, pleasurable threesomes? And how can people find that magical unicorn? Repeat guests Alicia and Erwan answer all of this and more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.  Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end bout

What is the "Birthday Club" and why is it a great opportunity to ask for your erotic desires? Why is it so challenging for people to put together or find sex aka play parties? What are the best ways to ask for your own "Birthday Club", as well as organize one for yourself, yours lover(s) or friends? Repeat guest and dear friend Reid Mihalko shares all this and more. About out guest: As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.  In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct

When was the last time you had a sex talk with a parent? This week, we are sharing a hilarious clip from podcast Sex Talk With My Mom, a favorite from our Pleasure Podcasts network. Cam Poter and his mom KarenLee Poter have a weekly sex talk to make the most uncomfortable conversations comfortable. On their comedy show, they talk about everything that a mom and son don’t typically talk about, from smoking hash under a glass to anal mishaps. In this clip, they share about the best orgasms of their lives. Check out the full episode on the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast: Episode 422 The Best Orgasms of Our Lives. We promise you will be highly entertained :)

What is the difference between fetish and kink? Why are some penis-owners into wearing women's underwear or clothing? What about foot fetishes, "littles" play and wearing diapers, bellybutton fetishes, humiliation play and more? Why are they into it? And why do you love your job working as The Adorable Domme? About our guest: Mae Ling, aka Miss Mae Ling is the Adorable Domme. She is an international Dominatrix, fetish content model/producer who creates custom butt plugs. With her performance art background combined with kink and BDSM, she has taught workshops and performed around the world on the art of connecting with people with and without the use of words. Bringing fun to the strict BDSM realm, she guides others on how to play again. To learn more visit missmaeling.com Make eating healthy, delicious meals easy with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com/shameless60 Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELE

What is Surrogate Partner Therapy (formerly known as Sexual Surrogacy)? Is it anything like Helen Hunt in the movie The Sessions? Is it all about sex or is there more to it? How does working with a Surrogate Partner help people? And how can people find or work with a Surrogate Partner? About our guest: Lou Sanfillipo (she/her) is a human of several hats in the world of healthy sex. She has been an active surrogate partner since her training in 2015 and is also a licensed therapist. Lou is excited about her transition to private practice where she can also supervise Surrogate Partner Therapy for her esteemed surrogate colleagues. She is dedicated to advancing the field of SPT through her work with the EMBRACE Resource Group and is particularly passionate about increasing diversity in the field. A self-proclaimed sex nerd, Lou is always seeking knowledge through books, trainings, and interpersonal connections. To learn more go to embracespt.org  Get your dance on in Santa Cruz for Pride month on June 3rd, 2023

What is “normal” when it comes to sexuality? What is the Orgasm Gap and why is it a thing? Why is the power of the clitoris still such a mystery for people? Is it common to not be in the mood all or most of the time? Is it true that vulva owners naturally have a lower sex drive? What do hormones have to do with all of this? And what's the truth about queefing, squirting, and "butt lightning"? Repeat guest Dr. Jolene Brighten answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Jolene Brighten is a hormone expert, nutritionist, scientist, and thought leader in women’s medicine. She is board-certified in naturopathic, endocrinology and trained in clinical sexology. Dr. Brighton is the author of Is This Normal, a nonjudgmental guide to creating hormone balance, eliminating unwanted symptoms, and building the sexual desire you crave. A fierce patient advocate, and completely dedicated to uncovering the root cause of hormonal imbalances, Dr. Brighton, empowers women worldwide to take control of their health and

Repeat guest Susan Bratton joins us to talk all about bigger clits and dicks - not just for esthetic purposes, but also for enhanced pleasure, increased orgasms and optimized health. Susan shares the latest pleasure product technology available - all of which you can do from your own home and without a trip to the doctors office! Prepare to have your minds, clits and dicks blown with this playful yet informative episode. About our guest: Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions