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Born and raised in New York City, this Spanish and Italian Bronx born native entered the world of Female Impersonating and Escorting in the late 80’s. His Drag persona Fiona St. James has experienced success in night clubs worldwide as well as being the 15th elected and still the only Latina Empress of The Imperial Court of New York. He has appeared in film on “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar”, “Stonewall”, “Ugly Betty”, and “Orange is the New Black”.  His most memorable role was playing the resident prison tranny bitch on the hit HBO series “OZ” for five of the six seasons. His adventures in drag and escorting inspired him to write his memoirs where he shares stories about pushing boundaries and raising eyebrows sexually, professionally and personally with no shame for over 30 years!  For his book visit: http://www.fionastjames.com To book a massage appointment call (646 387 9048) or visit: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28569/ https://rentmasseur.com/CuteSmoothBobby

Alice Little is the most successful licensed sex worker in the United States. Alice has been voted the #1 Companion of the Year at the world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch legal brothel in Carson City, Nevada. She is also a go-to intimacy and sexuality coach, an outspoken advocate for sex worker rights and vocal champion for an all-inclusive sex-positive society. Alice has managed to use her notoriety as one of the highest-earning sex workers in the world to push forward causes that she believes in. She founded the political action group “Hookers for Healthcare” to fight for healthcare policies that benefit sex workers and other stigmatized groups. She also co-founded the Nevada Brothel Association, a committee that advocates for the rights of women working in Nevada’s bordellos. Alice has been featured in the Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, The Daily Beast, Refinery 29, BBC News, CNN, ABC Nightline, and on the Tim Ferris Show and Shane & Friends podcasts. To learn more visit thealicelittle.com Want to skip to th

What are our Core Desires, and how can they lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA, creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching teach us all about how to dive deeper into our erotic selves. We also answer a sex question: How can I regain broken trust in my relationship? Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 14. About our guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and the co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Somatica is a cutting-edge, experiential coaching approach that helps clients shift their neuropatterning so that they can find new, more fulfilling and expressed forms of relating emotionally and sexually. In their Somatica courses, Celeste & Danielle train professional Sex and Relationship Coaches and help individuals and couples transform their lives through personal growth in the arena of sex and relationships. They hav

November AKA Movember is Prostate Awareness Month! Inspired by Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian’s awesome book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Explorations For Men and Their Partners, we are offering all kinds of tips on prostate pleasure and health, as well as an opportunity to win all kinds of prizes via our Instagram campaign.  We also answer a sex question: My partner's libido has shifted in our longterm relationship. How do I spice things up to make things exciting and juicy again? Instructions for the contest: Open to anyone 18+ of all genders. Listen to this episode where we will share tips and facts about prostate pleasure and health. Then go to Shameless Sex Podcast's Instagram to learn more about how to enter. You will be asked to DM or email us an anonymous photo of yourself like the one here stating something that you learned about prostate pleasure or health. Photo must contain a mustache, and it can be real or fake (including one drawn your the finger). We will use t

Dr. C AKA Dr. John Carrozzella joins us to talk all about erections, "erectile dysfunction" and the latest and greatest ways to work with the changes all bodies go through with age. We also answer a sex question about how to care for silicone sex toys. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13.  About our guest: Dr. Carrozzella practiced as as an Orthopaedic Surgeon for 25 years before switching his focus to the nontraditional medical specialties of Hormone Replacement, Sexual Health and Dysfunction and Age Management. He is an expert in Hormone therapy, sexual dysfunction and age management for both men and women. To learn more visit https://www.hormonesandwellness.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at pureple

Sexpert Tyomi joins us to talk about about how to suck the deeeyuckaaa like a boss. We discuss hand techniques, mouth techniques, positions, and so much more.  We also answer a sex question: I'm disappointed when my partner is too tired to keep playing after he has an orgasm. What should I do? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.  About Tyomi: Sexpert Tyomi, better known as Glamazon Tyomi, is an International Pleasure Coach who reaches millions of eyes monthly through her social media platforms and written contributions across the internet. In 2011 after experiencing a shift in her modeling career, the Chicago native began her sex education blog Glamerotica101.com with the intent to serve as the female representation for people of color within mainstream sexuality.  Tyomi recognized that people around the world are having issues with connecting to their sexuality, and desired to bring more love and light into the lives of others. Since her entrance into the field of sexuality, Tyomi has h

Simon Rex also known as Dirt Nasty, is an American entertainer. Rising to fame as an MTV VJ, Rex later became an actor known for What I Like About You, Scary Movie 3, 4, and 5, and National Lampoon's Pledge This!. He later developed a rap persona, Dirt Nasty, and had several solo albums and co-founded the supergroup Three Loco. His latest endeavor is as the host of the Nervous Rex Podcast.  Kyle Thiermann is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current issues happening all over the world. His podcast is called The Kyle Thiermann Show. Go check it out. 

What is Conscious Uncoupling? How can partners navigate divorce, separation and breakups amicably and lovingly? Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of the New York Times Bestseller Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After joins us as we unpack all this and much much more.  We also answer a sex question: My partner and I have a pregnancy fantasy - is this normal and how can we roleplay this? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Katherine Woodward Thomas is the author of the New York Times Bestseller Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After and the national bestseller, Calling in “The One:” 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. She is also a licensed marriage and family therapist and teacher to thousands from all corners of the world in her virtual and in-person learning communities. Katherine has also trained and credentialed hundreds of people as Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coaches and as Certified Calling in “The One” Coaches. To

How does the pill affect sex drive and libido? Why are some people taking the pill for reasons other than birth control and how is this affecting them? And what can people do about it? Dr. Jolene Brighten joins us for an eye-opening and informative interview all about the dark side of hormonal birth control and how people take action to reclaim their health.  We also answer a sex question: I don't like it when my man goes down on me. What can I do and am I normal?  Want to skip to the interview? Jump ahead to minute 15.  About our guest: Dr. Jolene Brighten is a Leading Expert in Post-Birth Control Syndrome & Hormonal Birth Control Related Problems, as well as a women's health naturopathic medical doctor, practicing physician, and speaker. She is also the author of Healing Your Body Naturally After Childbirth: The New Mom's Guide to Navigating the Fourth Trimester, and her latest book, Beyond the Pill. To learn more visit drbrighten.com.  In California? Join us for our Orgasm 101 class on Friday, October 24th

Joan Price joins us to talk about about sex and aging, how to keep that fire burning at any age! We talk all about shifts in libido, erections, menopause, mobility, and more!  We also answer two sex questions: I like morning sex but my husband does not. What do we do? How do I safely manscape my pubic hair?  Want to fastforward to the interview? Skip to minute 24. Want to see us live? Come to our Orgasm 101 class on Friday, October 25th in Atascadero, CA. Learn more or sign up at diamondadult.com About Joan: Joan Price calls herself an advocate for ageless sexuality. She has been called other things by the media: "senior sexpert," "the beautiful face of senior sex," "wrinkly sex kitten," and—her favorite— “the woman leading a sex revolution for seniors.” Joan has been writing and speaking about senior sex since 2005. Her books include: Sex after Grief: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved,coming August 2019. The Ultimate Guide to Sex after Fifty: How to Maintain – or Regain! – a Spicy, Sat

What are the Erotic Blueprints, why is it important to know your Core Erotic Blueprint, and how does this lead to great juicy connected sex? Tune in to learn more.  We also answer a sex question: Is it my fault that I can't make my wife orgasm? She seems to think so! Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22 in the podcast.  About Jaiya: An internationally recognized, award-winning sexologist and best selling author, Jaiya is the creator of the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ and the Erotic Blueprint™ Quiz! Discover your Type here: eroticbreakthrough.com/shameless/ Jaiya is also the author of 4 books including best selling “Red Hot Touch” and “Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied.”  “I believe that sex isn’t just something we do. Sex is essential to our health, our vitality and vibrant aliveness.” ~ JAIYA Jaiya’s mission is to help people like you claim your desires and gain access to erotic ecstasy. Sex techniques are no guarantee of orgasmic bliss. Sex techniques don’t create lasting passion and sexual

Dirty Lola joins us to chat all about how to navigate sex and relationships after a big life shift such as divorce, breakups/heartbreak, major health issues, and/or the passing of a loved one. Lola also helps us answer a sex question: Should I lose my virginity to an escort.  Want to fast forward to the interview? Go to minute 32:00. About our guest: Dirty Lola is a sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go and as co-host of New York Magazine’s The Cut’s “Sex Probz” web series, Lola has spent almost a decade working to end stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality. Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor and public platforms to teach the masses in-person and to rapt Internet audiences. She is also one of the ambassadors for hashtagopen.com. To learn more check out her website at sexedagogo.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELE

In this episode we get real with the wonderful ladies of the Private Parts Unknown Podcast. We talk about their groundbreaking series "Men Have Abortions, Too", as well as sex work, sex education, Sugar Baby/Daddy websites, and other sex politics.  We also answer a few sex questions: How can I pre-plan for my first anal adventure with my partner? My husband only wants sex on his terms. What should I do? About our guests: Private Parts Unknown (the podcast formerly known as Reality Bytes) is a comedy-sex-travel podcast uncovering stories of love & sexuality around the world. Best friends Courtney & Sofiya bring you along as they traipse from country to country exploring sex, relationships, dating & different types of food poisoning. Their podcast is available on all of the podcast apps, as well as on http://privatepartsunknown.com       .    

What is Tantra, how does it enhance sex and relationships, and how can people apply it to their lives?  Note: The interview starts at around minute 15 (for those of you who want to skip the intro).  Intro also includes a sex question: My partner believes she is disconnected from her body and she can't get herself off from masturbation. What can she do?  About our guests: Matt Sturm is a guide for transformational experiences and the co-founder of Embodied Erotic. His passion is to craft experiences and hold spaces that allow for the big love inside of each of us to emerge. Matt is trained in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy – a body-based therapy centered around mindfulness. He is also a Hatha yoga teacher, Certified Tantra Educator, and he practices in the Vajrayana lineage of Tibetan Buddhism.  Caity Flanagan is is a somatic sex & intimacy coach, an embodiment educator, and Tantric practitioner dedicated to supporting other on the journey of radical embodiment, sensual awakening, and coming home to the He

Within the world of sexual health tech, Dominnique is personally dedicated about changing the narrative surrounding parenting and sex. From helping parents rediscover themselves and their desires, to advocating for more direct empowering conversations with kids than “the birds and the bees,” Dominnique is on a mission to improve sex talk at all ages. More about Dominnique: Dominnique Karetsos is MysteryVibe's resident sex expert. Before joining MysteryVibe, Dominnique led groundbreaking teams in the sexuality space such as Lelo - Intimina, Get Luwi, Elara.Care, and is founder of  Healthy Pleasure Collective. Coupled with her ongoing work as a BBC radio host and once upon a time host of her own podcast Hotmilk - The Guilty Parent Podcast back in 2015, Dominnique has used her voice over the past decade to disrupt one of the world's most taboo industries.      

What is "sexual madness" and how is this affecting people's sex lives? Why is mindfulness the cure and how does this help people live with more passion, pleasure and deeper connection? We also answer a sex question: My husband has a sex doll. How can I incorporate the doll into our sex life? About Dr. Jenn: Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, was raised as a “good girl” in a small town in southeastern PA. Now, she lives in San Diego and is a sociologist, intimacy coach, and national speaker on couples intimacy, women’s empowerment, sexual consent and gender roles, healthy communication, and mindful sex. She has presented two TEDx Talks and is an intimacy expert on the San Diego morning news. Dr. Jenn has over 1.5 million hits on her In the Den with Dr. Jenn YouTube video series, and is an expert in the first documentary on masturbation, called Sticky: A (Self) Love Story. She is also the co-host of the podcast show through iHeartRadio, Sex Talk with Clint & the Doc. Dr. Jenn’s first book, From Madness to Mindfulness: R

Trusted Hot Sex Advisor Susan Bratton joins us once again to talk all about libido, desire, turn on, arousal, lust, how to feel more switch on with sexual energy and how to channel your sexual energy for more pleasure and passion. Oh and lots on sex toys! We also answer a sex question: How do cock rings affect orgasm/ejaculation?  About Susan: Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships. Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion.  Married to her husband Tim since 1993, Susan is an author, award-winning speaker, and serial entrepreneur who teaches passionate lovemaking techniques to her fans around the world. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.” Susan is Chair Emeritus of the ad:tech conference; she was both CMO

Amy Jo Goddard, author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence shares her nine elements for sexual empowerment.  Hailing from Military Dad and Recovering-Catholic-Mom, Amy Jo Goddard is author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence and co-author of the best-selling classic Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men. Amy Jo earned her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Education at New York University and studied film at New School University. She has been teaching and speaking about feminism and sexuality for over two decades. She delivered her TEDx talk “Owning Your Sexual Power” in Napa Valley, was named one of GO! Magazine’s “100 Women We Love” and one of Kinkly’s “100 Sex Blogging Superhereos.”  Her forthcoming film At Your Cervix, examines patient consent and bodily autonomy in gynecology and medical education, aiming to end unethical practices that harm both patients and medical students. Her Fi

Nurse Practitioner Remy Paille joins us for a very important episode on STI's (sexually transmitted infections, formerly known as sexual transmitted diseases). She also helps us answer a few sex questions including: How do I talk to partners about my STD status? And what do I do if prospective partners have a STD? I have a hard time trusting partners when they tell me their STI status. Should I ask every one of them to get tested? I gained a lot of weight on the IUD. What can I do about this? And are there any nonhormonal birth controls that work well aside from the IUD? My orgasms changed with I switched birth controls. Is this common?And what can I do about this? Also addendum from Remy in regards to one of her answers to a sex question:  "Testosterone revs our sexy engine up. It can be boosted by getting enough sleep, supplementing with vitamin D if our levels are below 50 ng/dL, supplementing with Zinc (oysters, my favorite;-), B complex vitamins as well the Indian herb, ashwaganda.  Too much testosterone

Tawny is a bisexual NYC-based writer, public speaker, and event producer. She's passionate about breaking stigmas associated with both sobriety and sexuality. Her words have been published in Playboy, Huffington Post, and her blog SobrieTeaParty.com. When she’s not working on all of the things, she’s doing yoga or eating tacos - sometimes simultaneously. Check out her podcast Recovery Rocks or her website tawnylara.com to learn more.