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In this playful episode we talk all about what most doctors call erectile or sexual dysfunction (ED), but we prefer the term erectile control issues, and you will learn all about why we reframe it this way in this episode. Dr. Dubin also explains the statistics on erectile issues, his research with porn performers and the correlation between porn and erectile control, tips for working around this, as well as whether or not blue balls are a real thing. About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson and his urology residency training at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Dubin is completing his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University and will be starting up as the Director of Men’s Health at Memorial Health Systems in Hollywood Florida. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men

Layla Martin joins us once again to take back the word slut and own it as an empowering tool for becoming the ultimate sexy badass that is uniquely you in the bedroom. Whether you want to learn to worship a slut or goddess, or you want to dive deeper into that powerful part of you, Layla has plenty of juicy tips and tricks you won't want to miss. About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable

In this episode we interview award-winning adult model, performer, sex educator and disability advocate GoAskAlex all about her experience in the adult film/porn industry. Alex got her start in 2014, and then a few years into her career she had a life-changing surgery resulting in a permanent disability. Alex shares her journey towards self-love and acceptance, as what it's like as she continues to work in adult film. More about our guest: GoAskAlex is an adult model, onscreen performer and sex educator with the distinction of being the industry’s first-ever ostomate since receiving a life-changing surgery in 2019: “my small intestine was diverted out through my abdomen, and I now wear a permanent medical device.” The auburn-haired British Columbia, Canada native - who launched her adult career in 2014 as a webcam model and online companion - has since taken the opportunity to use her high-profile platform to advocate for disabled and underrepresented bodies in adult media. GoAskAlex currently sits atop the 1

What does being a sub mean, and how does this show up in sex? What if someone who identifies as a sub and wants their partner to be more dominant in the bedroom, how can they approach this? How can submissive folks stay in their identity or role while still initiating sex with their partners? Master teacher and return guest Orpheus Black addresses all this and so much more. Be sure to checkout Orpheus's upcoming 3 day workshop extravaganza on June 25, July 2, July 9. It is a hybrid class to be held in LA and streamed on Zoom. Plus you get 20% off with code Shameless1. Sign up here or visit his website at orpheusblack.com Also, if you want to join our free online Shameless Sex Discord community, sign up here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg About our guest: Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness, the way strong modern men wish it to be. In this role, he shares insights, offers

This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you. About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgeable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®.She’s also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop

Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection?  For Dr. Nelson's free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out our blog at shamelesssex.com or click here About our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, and her latest Open Monogamy. She is executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in NY Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, RedBook, MSNBC, Men’s Health, Woman’s Day, and has been a source for Time Magazine.  Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationshi

Why is it so common for vulva-owners to experience pain during penetrative sex, and what are some of the solutions? What about hemorrhoids? Can people with hemorrhoids still explore and enjoy anal sex? And if so, what can they do to make it more pleasurable?  Trigger warning: We talk a lot about bowel movements AKA poop in this episode. But hey, everybody poops, right?  To learn more about our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, Oregon. Meredith provides one-on-one, in home, concierge physical therapy services which eliminates the stress of commuting to an appointment, hiring childcare, and worrying about sharing the intimate details of your story with an entire clinic. Dr. Meredith knows that every person has a story to share and having time with your provider is often the piece that is lacking in our traditional healthcare system. Meredith will help you determine the root cause of your symptoms, develop a plan for relief, and help you get b

In this fun in-person recording we collaborate with two badass women - Natasha Root, the creator of the successful Fan's Utopia site where she sells porn performers used panties, sex toys and more - as well as Kenna James, an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016’s Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. While our main intention was to focus on the porn industry as well this lucrative business Natasha has created, we also somehow end up getting a free Anal 101 lesson as well. Enjoy! About our guests: Natasha Root is a Los Angeles Native and fashion executive-turned-entrepreneur. She is currently the Owner of the popular platform, Fans Utopia, which connects fans with their idols on a deeper level, while also enabling adult talent to earn the money they deserve. She began working nearly two decades ago at her dads autobody shop, which instilled her the go-getter attitude that has led her to where she is today. Prior to starting Fans Utopia, Natasha was a model, and held positions at Capitol Records, des

Episode #258 was all about how to give blowjobs and handjobs (on/with) penis-owners, and now it's time for Alicia and Erwan Davon to join us once again to give us all the juicy tips on how this applies to vulva pleasure. They talk about everything from their top techniques for manual stimulation to oral stimulation to how to have extended orgasms along the way.  Note: We had a bit of a technical issue so we apologize if the audio quality is not top notch :/ About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based Erwan Davon Teachings. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique s

Sex Educator and Sex Hacker Kenneth Play returns to teach us his top sex hacks from fulfilling fantasies to curating a mind-blowing 90 minute orgasmic experience to multiple orgasms, unlocking erogenous zones, being a great lover no matter what size you are, and so much more. You definitely do not want to miss this one, and be sure to check out his new book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence. Also, join our free Shameless Sex community on Discord! This week we are hosting a fun Meet 'n' Greet event (online) where we share sex stories from challenges to celebrations on Thursday, April 21st at 530pm PST: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. After his 15 years of experience as a personal trainer, he leveraged the best of the fitness education model to re-envision sex education, and has now helped millions o

Return guest and badass sex-ed priestess Layla Martin joins us to talk all about how to have the best sex of your life. Listen to learn why she says "If you want to f**k a Goddess then you have to know you're a God".  Be sure to check out her upcoming offerings: To sign up for Layla's FREE Epic Lover's Digital Guide, click here To check out her 21 Day Erotic Confidence Challenge, click here About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date sci

What are the different types of erotic blueprints? How might each one show up in sex and relationships - both as superpowers and challenges? And how can folks to utilize their erotic blueprints in their daily lives in the bedroom and beyond?  About our guest: Julianne is a women’s life and health coach, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, Certified Somatic Sexologist Practitioner, and Certified Holistic Health Counselor. Her innovative Goddess Approach Methodology focuses on healing the mind, body, and soul so that women’s bodies not only become safe, but pleasurable, places to be.  Her journey from physical and emotional abuse and disordered eating to the eventual choosing to come into love for herself gives her a unique foundation for helping women cultivate a healthy relationship with food so that they can reclaim their health and love their bodies. Ultimately, she helps women heal at deep levels so that they can strip away the stories that aren’t serving them, remind them of the lost parts of their souls, and

This episode includes a raw yet playful discussion of all the things we wish we knew about sex from our teenage years, to our 20's, to our 30's and soon to be 40's. We shamelessly share everything from our first sexual experiences to some of the not so great ones, to the tips and tools we've learned along the way where great sex and deep connection are now the standard (but with the understanding that we will be forever learning and growing).  We both share our love and appreciation for getting our start in the field of sex-positivity by working at Amy's mother-daughter owned pleasure boutique purepleasureshop.com. Need some new toys or sexy goodies? Go support Amy's awesome mama by visiting the site, and be sure to use code SHAMELESSSEX for 15% off.  Want to connect with other Shameless Sex fans? Join our (free) Discord channel: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS

In this bonus episode we learn all about what it means to “maximize pleasure for for you”, as well as ways people can bring their personal pleasure game to the next level from both a burlesque star's and sex therapist's perspectives.  To learn more, be sure to check out their offerings including their upcoming April 2nd, 2022 InToPleasure Virtual event here: intopleasure.com About our guests: Michelle L’amour is an international burlesque star and empowerment advocate. She is the creator of InToPleasure and host of the podcast Look Down There. She has been featured on America’s Got Talent, MTVs Amazingness, Playboy and Sex Life on the Epix Network. She believes in life, liberty and the pursuit of pleasure. Nicoletta von Heidegger is a Sexologist, podcaster, educator, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) based in Los Angeles. Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her MEd in Human Sexuality from Widener Uni

One of the more common answers we share when addressing your sex questions is to go get support with a (sex) therapist or coach. But we realize taking that next step is not always an easy process. Return guest Keeley Rankin, M.A. and Sex and Relationship Coach joins us to answer everything from why it's helpful to work with a (sex and relationship) therapist or coach, to where to find them and the questions you should ask to see if they feel right to you, as well as red flags to watch out for, addressing and working around financial issues, and more.  About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in  Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples and has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created a Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their

Repeat guest Orpheus Black joins us to discuss everything from the differences between BDSM and Fetish, to tools and tips for spanking, face slapping and chocking - all with a great emphasis on pleasure, play, safety and consent.  His expertise and relatable way of teaching will likely inspire you to want to learn more via his upcoming 2-part course on "The Erotic Art of Spanking" happening online April 2nd and April 9th, 2022. Space is limited so sign up ASAP at orpheusblack.com and be sure to use code SHAMELESS25 for 25% off About our guest: Orpheus Black is a public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary with expertise in kink. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. Orpheus regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&

Certified Sexologist and world renown educator Destin Gerek joins us once again to teach us all about penis-owners can learn to up their sexual confidence and skills - resulting in the high probability of becoming one of the best lovers their vulva-owning partners has ever had. Not only does he dive into the qualities of what makes a great lover, he also shares plenty of tips, tools and practices that you can begin to implement in your life whether you are single, dating or long-term partnered. In other words, if you are a penis-owner/man who is, has or will be having sex with vulva-owners/women, we strongly suggest you listen to this episode. Oh, and be sure to take him up on his offer to give you more FREE content by clicking here: evolvedmasculine.com/shameless About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masc

Dear friend and Shameless Sex Podcast's "resident sex therapist" Dr. Nan Wise returns to teach us all about how to talk about sex with our (sexual) partners while answering sex questions sent in from listeners. Dr. Nan makes those intimidating conversations fun, sexy...even easy!  About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post,

Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando - two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame. With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety of interesting and unique guests. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app.  About our guests: Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando - two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame. With

What are the most common sex and relationship issues sex coaches are seeing these days? What are the tools to work through these common issues that may lead to better connection and great sex? Sex Coaching Pioneer Dr. Patti Britton answers all this and more.  About our guest: Dr. Patti Britton has over 40 years of expertise as a clinical sexologist, author, and sex coach. Patti teaches professionals keys for helping their own clients/patients/ students find solutions to their sexual roadblocks. She is an entrepreneurial wizard who shares insights on how to create a thriving private practice—one that is anchored on a commitment to service. She is true spirit of generosity, and has a drive to manifest social change for a sexually healthy world. To learn more go to sexcoachu.com Other links: Get 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy BYOB Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shi