Sluts & Scholars

This week we welcome Sam: a Queer, Arab, polyamorous, non-binary law student. Talk about intersectionality! This episode takes our past conversations about being trans and the gender binary to another level as we talk hormone therapy, male privilege as a male presenting person, sex and the clitoris after testosterone (hint- it gets bigger, and some can even penetrate with it!), and being gender non-conforming in a conservative career.  Sam has chosen to remain anonymous, but here's a link to one of our friends and a pioneer in this space: https://www.alokvmenon.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

Have you ever had the Q-tip test? Do you know that Kegel exercises are NOT for everyone? Can you really have a "loose" vagina? This episode is sooo important. We have heard from many listeners about their struggles with pelvic pain, so this week we are so excited to be joined by Kayna Cassard, Sex and Trauma Therapist and pelvic pain expert, to talk about chronic genito-pelvic pain.     Get in touch with Kayna: https://kaynacassard.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

OMG it is our 100th episode!!!! This celebratory ep. features author and psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. We talk all things fantasy from MILFs, to adult baby diaper lovers, force fantasies, and human cows. Also- can ex sex be a good thing and when should you not act on your fantasies?   Dr. Justin: https://www.lehmiller.com/ Sexual Health Alliance Event: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/gc-lecture-series/2019/5/31/sexceptional-weekend-the-science-of-fantasy-tell-me-what-you-want-w-dr-justin-lehmiller   ALSO! We now have a PATREON! If you want more from us, please become a Patron so we can keep bringing you content! https://www.patreon.com/slutsandscholars   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

March was Endometriosis Awareness Month, so the slutty scholars asked sex therapist, psychologist and endo crusader, Dr. Shannon Chavez, to discuss everything endo: what might cause it, what the symptoms are, how it affects people's lives and relationships, ways to support a partner with endo and much more. This episode is soooo important in helping to name and identify chronic illnesses and chronic pain (esp. ones that we can't see). Help us spread the word about Endo!   Want more like this conversation? Sick Day Podcast: https://www.sickdaypod.com/   To get in touch with Dr. Chavez: https://drshannonchavez.com/ Talked about in the show:  Sick Day Podcast https://www.sickdaypod.com/ Endometriosis resources:  https://www.speakendo.com/ https://www.endofound.org/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

This week the slutty scholars are joined by Holly Randall, porn producer, photographer, fellow Pleasure Podcast Collective member, and all around boss lady! Did you ever think this show would cover cotillion and etiquette classes? Find out how to interact with snacks and what NOT to wear to cotillion. But mostly this episode is about the way the adult industry has changed, paying for porn, female directors, being behind the camera, and a touch of race in the industry. Pinky out! Holly: https://www.hollyrandall.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Christian author Caitlin Cogan-Doemner. She wrote a series with her husband called Sex Every Day, where they emphasize- you guessed it- having sex everrrryyy day. They talk about how to do this, how to challenge the definition of sex, and how to make a sex menu. Caitlin's perspective comes from an Evangelical Christian background, so this episode also explores the possibilities of being sex positive and Christian. Also thought exercise: do you think you should poop in front of your partner?   P.S. Sorry some of the audio is not ideal, but we didn't want you to miss this episode!!   To get the book: https://www.sexeverydaybook.com/   This episode is sponsored by KamaSutra. For 20% OFF go to www.KamaSutra.com and use discount code: SANDS   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

This episode is ESSENTIAL for anyone with a vulva, or anyone who loves a person with a vulva. Wednesday Martin joins for a debunking of the myths surrounding female sexuality. From different types of desires, to sexual boredom, and monogamy as a spectrum, we talk about the real intersection of culture and the clitoris. Also- what the heck is heterozygosity and why are we attracted to certain partner's natural scents?!   To find Wednesday: http://wednesdaymartin.com/ To check out Wednesday's newest book: http://wednesdaymartin.com/books/untrue/   Other researchers mentioned that are worth checking out: Rosemary Basson and Marta Meana    FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

This week Sluts and Scholars welcomes suprihmbé, who you might know as @thotscholar. On the docket: womanism, definitions of sex work, rejecting inclusivity, bisexuality, OMNIsexuality and the racialization of sexual slurs. It’s a good one!   This episode is sponsored by KamaSutra. For 20% OFF go to www.KamaSutra.com and use discount code: SANDS   To find suprihmbé: https://twitter.com/thotscholar?lang=en   Defined Definers article: https://www.patreon.com/posts/defined-definers-24904015?utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter&utm_campaign=postshare   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by therapist Shira Myrow. Part therapy session for Nicoletta and Simone and part interview, Shira is there to educate and support the slutty scholars on issues relating to attachment, emotional literacy, relational intelligence, mindfulness, coping skills, and more! Tune in to hear Nicoletta and Simone get REAL about their own attachment and self worth struggles.   To contact Shira: http://shiramyrowtherapy.com/ Shira's TED talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PddZhImBknI   Our sponsor this week is #LubeLife! Make sure you listen in for a 20% OFF discount code and check them out at https://lubelife.com/    FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

This week Nicoletta and Simone dive into a conversation with sexuality professor, researcher, and psychologist Dr. Eric Sprankle. Just when you thought we had talked about everything, here's an episode on Satanism! Ok, so theres other stuff in the episode too including sex research and how to study sex, the role of social justice in mental health, religious freedom, and MeToo moments from the Bible.     Tweet @DrSprankle   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

Nicoletta and Simone welcome Janine! She's the CEO and creator of WARM - a luxury sexual experience company. (Basically a way to have HOTTER sex!) On the table: aging and sex, what is periomenopause like, creating sexuality products and how fully allowing yourself to receive pleasure can revolutionize your experience Check out experience warm today and get a Valentine’s discount!!  https://experiencewarm.com   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

This week Nicoletta and Simone go down under with Australian Sexfluencer Nadia Bokody. They chat about what it means to be sex positive, MeToo in relationships, painful sex, and the importance of teaching masturbation during early sex education.    To check out Nadia's work:  https://shesaid.com/author/nadiabokody/ https://www.instagram.com/nadiabokody/?hl=en   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Do you talk to your kids about sex? Did your caregivers tell you that a stork made you? This episod- featuring Melissa Carnagey of Sex Positive Families- covers sex positive parenting: what to do and what not to do in raising sexually “healthy” humans. Also included: what to teach children at certain ages, making mistakes and having compassion for your imperfect parenting, and body autonomy from an early age.    Melissa’s site:  http://sexpositivefamilies.com/sex-positive-parenting/   Other resources:  Amaze: https://amaze.org   Scarleteen: http://www.scarleteen.com   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

How are YOU doing with your New Year’s goals and resolutions? If you have been getting down on yourself because of diets, weight, and body image, we hope you will tune in to this amazing conversation with author, nutritionist, and coach Rebecca Scritchfield. We talk diet culture, body acceptance, health and well-being, and how to battle your inner self critic. Also included: Nicoletta admits her hot sauce “problem;” sociocultural messages about body expectations.   Find Rebecca: https://www.bodykindnessbook.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Nicoletta and Simone take some time to reflect on their podcast journey. They discuss if they feel an obligation to have a vibrant sex life because they host a sex podcast, work on their own communication issues, delve into childhood tales of girls being mean to them and their increased appetite for response to catcalls. It’s been a while since it was just us, so we hope you enjoy!   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

We're feeling the holiday spirit, so we want to re-gift y'all with a good one. Talk about a throwback Thursday! This episode features Pan, who was the first dude on the show, so the sluts decided they had to unpack all the weird stuff our bodies do when we want them to be at their sexiest. Squirting, farting, smells and menstrual blood are ALL on this menu. It's an oldie - straight Simone even makes an appearance.   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Meika Hollender, the founder of Sustain Natural. They discuss vagina-friendly ingredients, things to put (and not put) in your vagina, the power of periods, tampon taxes, and more!   Sustain: https://www.sustainnatural.com/ Meika: https://twitter.com/missmeiks   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week we are joined by James and Anna, a happily married couple. James happens to be a non-offending minor attracted person (NO-MAP), meaning that he has a desire for young girls that he has chosen to NEVER act on. We know this subject can be triggering for many, and that some of our listeners have experienced some type of sexual trauma, but we hope that you will tune in with an open mind as we talk definitions, stigma, sexual orientations, how to manage relationships with these desires, role play, and the difference between fantasies and behaviors.    For more information: http://www.b4uact.org/ https://www.virped.org/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by a fan and queer activist- Benjamin Di’Costa. In preparation for World AIDS Day, they discuss everything from conversion therapy, to HIV, and queerness and religion. Also included: go-go dancing and a pinch of sex work. Warning: we also discuss some aftermath of mass shootings as Benji used to work at Pulse Nightclub. We hope you will tune in for this crucial discussion.     To find Benji:  https://twitter.com/BenjaminDiCosta   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

In order to discuss and call out the erasure of Native Americans during a holiday founded on genocide and oppression, Nicoletta and Simone gratefully welcome two amazing scholars of the Hoopa Valley Tribe in Northern California. They discuss land, settler colonialism, menstrual huts, flower dances, menstrual  taboos, gender, and more! We could not think of a better "Thanksgiving" correcting learning opportunity!   To contact our guests: https://www.stephanielumsden.com/ https://www.cutcharislingbaldy.com/   Shirts discussed in the episode: https://www.instagram.com/mercilessfeministsavages/   Book reccomendations:  https://www.amazon.com/Are-Dancing-Revitalization-Coming-Age/dp/0295743441/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1531181942&sr=8-1&keywords=we+are+dancing+for+you   https://www.amazon.com/Me-Sexy-Drew-Hayden-Taylor/dp/1553652762   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholar