Love Life With Matthew Hussey

I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?” You feel amazing. Over the next few weeks, it’s a whirlwind. He wants to spend every waking minute together, he’s outspoken about his feelings for you, and upon waking, you always have a “Good morning, gorgeous!” text waiting for you. He may even go so far as to introduce you to his friends and family . . . or say those three little words that so many others have struggled to say to you in the past . . . It’s intense and fast, but it feels so good that you just let the romance sweep you off your feet. Overnight, your life has turned into one of those romantic movie montages that show the highlight reel of a perfect relationship, except instead of the montage spanning

There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship.  In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious behavior in relationships, how to become more aware of your triggers, and simple ways to get more emotional control and calm your anxiety.  ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com

Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?”   The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yourself out there anymore (when deep down, you still want to find love)?    In today’s episode, I share 5 ways you can get back into dating that won’t lead to burnout. You’ll see how to maintain your peace while also giving yourself permission to take small (or even big) swings in love.   ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com    

When it comes to dating, does the fear of rejection stop you from being yourself? Whether it’s approaching someone at a coffee shop, reaching out first on an app, or allowing yourself to “let go” whilst on a date, this fear is the very thing that will have you looking back wistfully and saying “What if?” years from now rather than saying “Why not?” in the moment. Of course, in a world where people are constantly trying to curate and filter their lives, it’s no wonder most of us find it scary to try something where validation isn’t guaranteed. And while it might not be possible to feel completely immune to the fear of rejection, there are things you can do to move beyond that paralyzing anxiety. In today’s episode, I’m going to give you three secrets to changing your relationship with rejection . . . --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://

What do you do if you meet someone who makes you feel accepted, safe, happy, and you truly connect...but they're already in a relationship? And even worse, they may tell you that they are unhappy in their marriage and want to spend time more with you. Should you give them an ultimatum? Or should you walk away? Matthew and Audrey answer a listener facing this exact dilemma right now, explain why this happens, and break down what the best options are in this difficult situation.  ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Are you someone who dreads big social gatherings? Or you want to hide under the covers at the thought of being seen in a crowd, meeting new people, or going on a first date?  In this episode, Matt talks about his own early experience with being a "shy kid", the psychology behind social anxiety (and what makes it worse), and some powerful mindset shifts that can put us in state of relaxed confidence. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Striking up Conversation Can Be Intimidating. Get 9 Effortless Ways to Create Conversation That Feel Natural and Simple at. . . → https://WhatToSayNext.com

When your ex moves on quickly, it can feel like a gut punch. It leaves you questioning everything – the relationship, your self-worth, and the life you two built together. If you’re going through this, know you’re not alone. This episode dives deep into understanding those tough emotions and, most importantly, helps you reclaim your power and confidence as you move forward. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

Do you often give into your worst impulses? Feel like you’ve lost control and don’t know how you’ll reach your goals if you keep failing like this? It’s ok. You’re human. There are ways we can work with our psychology to manage these impulses and not let our bad habits defeat us. In this episode, Matt talks about one of the single biggest keys to picking yourself back up and getting what you want when you feel like you keep letting yourself down.     ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons). So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s new episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

What happens when someone is great on a date, but they’re terrible at communication in between? They don’t reach out, they’re unresponsive, and it makes you feel like they’re not really invested. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about how to create your own culture in dating, leading with your behaviour, and how to reach out while keeping your self-respect.  --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

Have you ever been there? You meet someone online, the connection sparks, and attraction starts to grow with every conversation. But then, when you meet in person, something‘s off. Maybe their height isn‘t quite what the pictures showed, or their photos were way outdated. And even though you try to push past it, the initial spark is gone. And now you feel stuck . . . You know you‘re not interested, but the thought of letting them down fills you with fear and anxiety.  If this sounds familiar, you won‘t want to miss this episode. Audrey and Matt discuss how to navigate this situation if you‘re a people pleaser or struggle with guilt when delivering bad news.  -- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

What is a relationship with a narcissist really like?    If you’re an empathetic person, it can make you feel crazy: You doubt yourself constantly. You’re always second-guessing. Your boundaries and sense of self are slowly broken down by emotional manipulation and gaslighting.   Whether you’re still feeling the wounds from a past narcissistic relationship, or are trying to figure out if you’re in a relationship with a narcissist right now, today’s episode is your next step. I walk you through the 7 signs you're dating a narcissist and show you how to spot these traits faster in your next relationship. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com   ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com

What if you’ve been dating someone with whom you feel a truly unique and natural connection, but they have a fatal flaw that means a relationship is impossible? There is a real danger to the feeling that this person is irreplaceable, when you tell yourself “I can’t find this connection with anyone else”.  If we never make space for something new, never let go, and always hold onto hope of what might have been, we can get stuck on an old relationship forever. So if you’re ready to truly move on and get over “the one that got away”, this video will help you move forward with confidence and certainty. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

Theresa says, “I feel like I’m his lowest priority”. Even though the guy she’s dating long-distance says all the right things, he is constantly busy and now she feels like an obligation to him rather than someone he’s excited to see. “He doesn’t want to lose me”, she says, “but he doesn’t want to try either”. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to handle this on-the-fence situation, when someone says they want to see you but isn’t able or truly willing to fulfil your needs, and whether you should date someone who is too busy to make you their priority right now.   -- ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on. Either way, this is the first aid you need right now.   In today’s episode, I explain the #1 thing that defines our reality during a breakup, and show how the obsession we might feel during a breakup can have its roots in the early days of dating someone. And if you’re on the fence about getting back with your ex, the 3 steps I share today can help you make that decision. --- ►► Striking up Conversation Can Be Intimidating. Get 9 Effortless Ways to Create Conversation That Feel Natural and Simple at. . . → https://WhatToSayNext.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him. But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?) The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this week’s rewind episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them...   >> Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

>>> Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com   >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com 

“How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?” Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We are told to be honest about what we want, but we also worry about scaring someone off if we bring it up too soon. In today’s episode, I give you 6 practical steps to help you determine if someone shares your goals and timeline, figure out exactly what you want (and come up with a plan for each possibility), and approach these conversations in a natural and confident way. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast? You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then… you’re totally hooked.  Suddenly, he’s the #1 topic of conversation with you and your friends. You find yourself constantly wanting to text him. You sit at home wondering what he’s up to. You’re tempted to rush things forward. Wait. Stop. Relax. There’s nothing wrong with being a romantic, but you have to be so careful here to make the right decisions going forward. If you find your heart always investing in a guy when your head tells you to calm down, here’s the secret to taking back your power...   >> Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/

When you've made progress getting over someone, then they send you a text, how should you react? Or maybe they still like your instagram posts, respond to your stories, or you see glimpses of their life with a new partner and it triggers you... In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to deal with triggers that derail your progress and what to do when you're trying to move on for good and want to TRULY get over your ex.  >>> Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com   >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com   >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com