Date Talk

This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira debrief the latest contestants from The Date Talk Game Show. Alexandria and Adam clicked on the stage but sputtered a bit on their first dinner date.  Was it too soon for the recently single Alex or did Adam go over the top with his giddy like for her?  Come to the next Date Talk Game Show at Pappy's in Berkeley November 25th and be the join in the fun.   Alexandria Love's podcast: Here's Why That's Funny - https://www.facebook.com/hereswhythatsfunny/?fref=ts   Pappy's Bar and Grill-  http://www.pappysontelegraph.com/   Angelina's Louisiana Kitchen- http://www.angelineskitchen.com/   Songs snippets: After Adam: "Still Breathing" Green Day After Alex: "Upside Down"  Set it Off At the end: "Perfect Illusion" Lady Gaga

From our original non-radio version of Date Talk. This time Cheryl navigates the world of Bay Area BDSM.  Is it a bad idea to let a guy tie you up on your second date?      Music: Rhianna- "S & M" Puddle of Mudd- "Control" Brooke Hogan Feat. Flo Rida- "Ruff me Up"   FetLife is the social network for the BDSM, Fetish and Kinky community.  https://fetlife.com/ Black Thorn is a welcoming, well-equipped dungeon located in the lovely Lake Merritt area of Oakland, Ca. http://black-thorn.org/   Photo Credit: Chris Mettraux  https://www.flickr.com/photos/sdzn/     www.ComedyCheryl.com www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl Date Talk Radio Show/Podcast:  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/ Twitter @ilove2chatter

What happens when two people have very little chemistry when dating?  Does it make women second guess themselves?  Cheryl's date is interviewed by Ira about his reasons for dropping contact after one "okay" date. ​ Music: Macy Gray- "Why Didn't You Call Me" The Band Perry-  "The Comeback Kid" Pink- "Fu*&ing Perfect"     -- www.ComedyCheryl.com www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl Date Talk Radio Show/Podcast:  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/ Twitter @ilove2chatter

This episode Cheryl and Ira interview the winners of the first Date Talk Game Show. They talk about the experience, the audience, and the reason they won't be dating a second time.  Music: Adam Friedman- "Lemonade" Wash- "Where You Been" Chase Bryant- "Room to Breathe" Bobby Morganstein- "The Dating Game" Theme Song   Tickets for " Date Talk Game Show" July 29th- http://thedatetalkgameshow.eventbrite.com

Today Cheryl's guest co-host, Doug, returns! He is ready to hand out dating advice online.  Send questions to the Date Talk Facebook page and let's get his take on all your dating questions. Cheryl also interviews one of his Tinder dates that he never asked on another date yet she's willing to go out a second time.   Plus New!  "Date Walk" --- Lake Merritt, Oakland Cheryl asks the public "How soon is it okay to have sex?"   Music- Timeflies- "Once in Awhile" Marian Hill- "One Time" A. K. Paul- "Landcrusin'"​​

Today's guest co-host, Doug, went on a first Tinder date ending in a threesome! Cheryl discusses the date with both people.  How did he figure out this first time girl was willing to engage in a threesome?  Is confidence the key?   What made her decide to go for it? Listen in as we figure it out and join the online community to discuss with us and ask this couple some serious questions.     Music- Bob Morganstein- "Three's Company Theme" Shaw Blades- "Lucky Man" A. K. Paul- "Landcrusin' "   Join the conversation or comment: TheDateTalk@gmail.com Or https://www.facebook.com/datetalk   Check us out at: http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

A couple who went on one date​ discuss with Cheryl and Ira what went wrong.  So many online dates don't turn into a second date and so many times we don't know why.  Listen in as we see what happened.  Learn some definite dating no-nos.  Like don't touch the girl's belly. Ummm...duh.   Music- Adam Lambert- "Welcome To The Show" Cowboy Mouth- "Belly" 5 Seconds of Summer- "She's Kinda Hot" Joy Williams- "You're My Favorite"   ​ Join the conversation or comment: TheDateTalk@gmail.com Or https://www.facebook.com/datetalk   Check us out at: http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

At Your Service   Cheryl steps outside her comfort zone and agrees to a date with a "service submissive".  Ira and Cheryl learn exactly where that falls on the dominant/submissive spectrum and whether that might actually fit Cheryl's desires; after all she does drive a BMW and likes to be treated like a princess.   Urban Game Bird-  https://www.facebook.com/UrbanGameBirds/​ ​     Join the conversation or comment: TheDateTalk@gmail.com Or https://www.facebook.com/datetalk   Check us out at: http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer  

Cheryl and Ira discuss a spontaneous Tinder date with a out-spoken, bold, alpha male whose attraction to Cheryl is only a lazy appeal.  You know... you're dating, there's some chemistry, nothing bad to say about your date but it's just not worth the effort necessary to make a serious connection happen. Find out how this thwarts Cheryl's unexpected bad cop fantasy.    (Date Talk is claiming the coining of the phrase the "Lazy Appeal")   Music- The Summer Set - " Figure Me Out" Morcheeba - "Be Yourself" Danielle Bradbery- "Friend Zone" Hank Marvin- "Bad Cop" Inner Circle-"Bad Boys" Drive-By Truckers- "Used to be a Cop"   Join the conversation or comment: TheDateTalk@gmail.com Or https://www.facebook.com/datetalk   Check us out at: http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatter https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

​   Tinder and naughty photos, do these set-up an assumption for a hook-up? Cheryl gets friend zoned after differing intentions collide.  Ira and Cheryl discuss the perils of mis-matched expectations in dating.  Also, honesty is still the best policy. (---Pssst, listen as Cheryl gets overly harsh about the date because her feathers get ruffled by some of his critical assessments.)       Music:  The Weeknd- "The Hills" TLC- "Creep" Fall Out Boy- "I Don't Care"     https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2http://www.comedycheryl.com/https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatterhttps://www.facebook.com/ira.summer  

Asian Affinity   What happens when trust becomes an issue before a date even starts? Cheryl and Ira interview a couple where despite her distinct attraction to Asian men, he doesn't have the confidence to ride out early complications. Tune in as our hosts dig into this dating dilemma.   Steve Lee:  https://www.facebook.com/steveleecomedy https://www.steveleecomedy.com/ https://www.youtube.com/user/steveleecomedy https://twitter.com/SteveLeeComedy   Facebook Pages for Asian Guys: https://www.facebook.com/whitegirlswithasianguys https://www.facebook.com/groups/asianboylovewhitegirls/    K-Pop Music: Super Junior- "Mr. Simple" http://youtu.be/r6TwzSGYycM Troublemaker- "Troublemaker"  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-zRAQmKUkI    Kickstarter: https://www.kickstarter.com/   https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.kgpc969.org/datetalk/  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2http://www.comedycheryl.com/https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.twitter.com/ilove2chatterhttps:

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Exploring your boundaries of sexual attraction while on a date can be a little unnerving but checking in with yourself to affirm or expand your orientation can be healthy.  This month Ira and Cheryl have a Tinder matched couple come into the studio.  Listen in as they all discuss their dates and explore what happens when one woman tests the waters of heterosexual dating.      Debunking Myths About Sexual Fluidity -  http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/2014/10/13/debunking-myths-about-sexual-fluidity.html   Ash Fisher Comedian- http://www.ashfisherhaha.com/ Heart and Dagger Saloon- http://www.heartanddaggersaloon.com/ Tinder- https://www.gotinder.com/   Music- "Let's Get It Started In Here" by The Black Eyed Peas, Elephunk "Hide Away" by Daya, Daya-EP "Laced" by DMA'S, DMA'S-EP "Bright" by Echosmith, Talking Dreams       https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalkhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2http://www.comedycheryl.com/https://www.faceboo

Navigating interacial dating can be complex. This month Cheryl has a series of dates with a black, Puerto Rican man.  As a newly dating, mixed race couple it's hard to see if the issues are plain compatibility or complicated cultural and economic differences.  This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira try to unravel where the attraction went wrong and why.    Vincent Cruz- Step On It Productions: http://www.step-on-it-presents.com/index.php   Articles on Racism: https://www.thsppl.com/i-racist-538512462265 http://www.salon.com/2015/07/08/ok_so_what_would_convince_you_that_racism_is_real/   Series of Interacial Dating Articles: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/interracial-dating/   Interacial dating Statistics; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States   https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalkhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2http://www.comedycheryl.com/https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCherylhttps://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

It's a new world order for dating.  Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual....where is the attraction?  Is it fluid, static?  This Date Talk Cheryl goes for a coffee date with a transgender woman (MtF) and learns to navigate past her own ingrained stereotypes to find a few realities about the world. Ira and Cheryl prove it's never too late to get a clue.   How common is Intersex condition at birth?: http://www.isna.org/faq/frequency   Namoli Brennet --Track: "Thorn in Your Side"  Album: The Brighter Side of Me (2004) http://www.namolibrennet.com/   More Information: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dana-beyer/what-makes-a-woman-a-tran_b_7533324.html   Comedy Machine: www.facebook.com/sfcomedymachine   https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer  

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You never know when you might want a second chance.  In dating it always pays to bow out politely.  Never burn a bridge even if you think you won't need it.  Ira interviews one of Cheryl's dates who tries, not once but twice, to rekindle an interest but stubbornly Cheryl is not giving any second chances when the initial date was handled, albeit unintentionally, without thought to her feelings. Date Talk the best in information and comedy!   Video for Final Song: " Boys" by Savannah Outen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v05hc36UwLU Male Actor in Video: Trey Baxter: treybaxter1 on instagram   https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalkhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2http://www.comedycheryl.com/https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCherylhttps://www.facebook.com/ira.summer   **** Cheryl's personal disclaimer- "I've never changed my online dating profile name"

Ira interviews Cheryl's recent date who texts with tenacity.  How much texting is appropriate for each stage of dating?  Do detailed text questions promote dialouge or create a pressure for an answer?  What amount of texting feels comfortable?  Can texting styles make or break a brand new relationship?  The best of information and comedy!     Date Talk LIVE.  Be a part of the live audience and participate with questions and comments on 6/5/2015 at Pappy's Sports Bar in Berkeley. Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-date-talk-live-tickets-16727882547   Remember to join in the fun and throw your name in the ring to be the one to set Cheryl or Ira up on their next blind date by joining the Date Talk Event on Facebook.  Know someone perfect for either of them?!?   Pt. Isabel Dog Park: http://www.ebparks.org/parks/pt_isabel   Cooking Class Dates at Chef Joe's Culinary Salon:  http://www.theculinarysalon.com/   Texting Etiquette: http://www.eharmony.com/blog/the-dos-and-donts-of-cell-phone-dating-etiquette

Cheryl and Ira talk dating applications and sparking romance.  How do people fan the flames to make a date sizzle?  What unwittingly douses the potential heat in the dating process? Will Cheryl ever be able to get her dates from interested to inflamed? The best of information and comedy!   Five Restaurant- http://www.five-berkeley.com/   Dating Sites and Applications: Plenty of Fish- https://pof.com OKCupid- https://www.okcupid.com Carbon- https://twitter.com/carbon_dating Coffee Meets Bagel- https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/ Beautiful People- http://www.beautifulpeople.com/en-US Hinge- http://hinge.co/ Also don't forget to join in the Facebook fun and throw your name in the ring to be the one to set Cheryl or Ira up on a blind date?  Do you know someone perfect for either of them?!? Blind Date Facebook Event Page (to sign up): https://www.facebook.com/events/597564693713560/   https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalkhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?

​Cheryl discusses with Ira a recent blind date.  How do people decide two friends should meet and date?  How does meeting a person you know nothing about change the dynamics of the dating process?  Do our friends know us better than we know ourselves and have the insider track on who we should date?  Or are our friends as fickle as we are?  The best of information and comedy!     Excitingly...join in the Facebook fun and throw your name in the ring to be the one to set Cheryl or Ira up on their next blind date?  Know someone perfect for either of them?!?   Blind Date Facebook Event Page (to sign up): https://www.facebook.com/events/597564693713560/  Blind Date Survival Guide: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/22_dating_girl.html 7 Reasons Why You Should Want to Date an Older Woman: http://www.thedatereport.com/dating/modern-love/7-reasons-why-you-should-want-to-date-older-woman/ Ira: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/norcalirishguy