Shrink For The Shy Guy

Explore The Difference Between Natural Drive And Obligation   What happens when you stop feeling that drive? When does it change from saying, “I want to be my ultimate confident self” to, “I have to do this OR ELSE”? Dr. Aziz and Master Coach, Jonathan, explore these questions and by the end of the show you will be able to change your mindset, change the way you talk to yourself, and in the end, change your fuel.  

Change Your Old Limiting Beliefs To Unleash More Confidence Now   So much of our anxiety, doubt, hesitation, and struggle in the present moment comes from our inner beliefs. If we believe people won’t like us, that we’re not good enough, that we aren’t worth the money or the time, then hold back and don’t go after what we truly want. But when we challenge these beliefs, revealing their falseness, we are set free. Join Dr. Aziz as he interview business coach Nina Cooke on this subject of how to eliminate your limiting beliefs.

Free Yourself From Performance Anxiety   Join Dr. Aziz and Master Coach, Jonathan, as we talk about a common experience we have all shared but rarely talk about in the open. This fear is none other than ‘Performance Anxiety’ and this can come up for you in many different areas of your life. If you perceive anything you do as a performance or having to turn yourself ”ON”, then you are going to want to listen to this.

How To Bring Your Best Self To Dating And Truly Enjoy The Experience Along The Way   Do you struggle to boldly go after who you want, express interest, and be your most charming and confident self? What about being direct and clear about what you want and don’t want, and being authentic? These are major challenges in dating and can really inhibit your success and enjoyment. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a masterful coach who approaches dating in a fascinating and liberating way.

How Saying No Will Boost Your Confidence And Improve Your Life   Where would your life benefit from saying “no”? Are there places you currently are saying yes in that cause problems? Whether it’s a work, in relationships, or in your love life, harnessing your power to freely and easily say no is one of the most important skills you can develop.

Understanding The Relationship Between Emotion And Physical Pain   Have you experienced physical pain that randomly surfaced for an unknown reason and it was not due to an injury? Emotions such as anxiety, depression, stress, and unhappiness can cause chronic pain in our bodies. Join Dr. Aziz to learn how to navigate the path of physical pain and pinpoint the source.

The Connection Between Niceness And Pain   As surprising as this might sound to you, the vast majority of chronic pain conditions are caused not by structural damage to the body, but chronic tension due to negative emotions? The biggest source of these emotions? You guessed it—pressure from trying to be nice, pleasing everyone, and getting everyone to like you. Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews a Master Health Coach who has helped hundreds of people permanently end their nightmare with chronic pain and recurring injury.

How To Break Through Your Comfort Barrier   Do you give into your fears? Or do you face your fears head-on? Practice engaging and accessing your natural courage to help process through moments of fear. Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to be comfortable with being uncomfortable.

How to Discover and Maintain Energetic Balance   The quality of the your internal energy can be masculine, feminine, or both. Debunk the societal standards of gender and harness your energetic power to take self awareness to the next level. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you through understanding your core essence and how to use it for effective communication.

Learn how to reclaim your self love, self acceptance, and self worth.   Are you held down by self criticism? Do you feel you are not worthy of love, success, or acceptance? Toxic Shame is a cycle of chronic abusive thoughts and feelings towards yourself. Join Dr. Aziz as he guides you through how to identify and label where this Toxic Shame is coming from. Reclaim your sense of worth and repair your lovability by committing to being on your own side no matter what (OMOS).

How To Recognize Your Patterns of Settling   Do you often measure opportunity vs. risk? Do you feel that you are overly cautious? Have you been staying in the “safe zone” because you are afraid?  The more you practice your skills of settling the more risk averse you will become. Join Dr. Aziz to learn how to silence your Safety Police and overcome the fear of taking risks.

How To Embrace Your Inner Boldness   Do you want to take risks? Do you want to speak up in a group setting or a business meeting? Do you want to ask that person who excites you out on a date? Learn the how, the when, and the why behind exercising your B.A.F skills. Join Dr. Aziz as he shares how to unapologetically practice boldness in your daily life and feel good about it.

How To Release Your Negative Predictions   Do you have predictions of how people will respond to you if you were to speak up and put yourself out there? Most people imagine the response they’d get would be critical, negative, or harshly judgmental. Join Dr. Aziz as he dismantles these fears one by one, leaving you feeling eager to test out what really happens.

Discover How And When To Speak Up For Yourself   Setting boundaries, challenging others, and otherwise speaking up for yourself can be confusing, scary, and difficult. Join Dr. Aziz as he provides practical, specific guidance on exactly how to become more assertive in the areas that matter most to you.

Overcome Self-Consciousness To Enjoy More Exciting, Fulfilling Sex   Many people struggle during sex, despite trying to look like they are enjoying themselves. This often comes from unspoken pressure to perform and “do better,” combined with a sense of inadequacy or inexperience. Join Dr. Aziz and Coach Amber as they discuss specific ways to increase your sexual confidence immediately.

How To Maintain High Confidence After The First Date   Have you ever had a great connection with somebody and wanted to see them again? But then, after a date or two, you start to have feelings for them, which ends up causing you stress and anxiety. You start to worry about “doing it right” and “not messing it up.” Join Dr. Aziz and Coach Amber as they discuss how to sustain high confidence no matter what you feel.

How To Rapidly Dissolve Social Anxiety, Fear, And Stress   Join Dr. Aziz in this impactful episode where he guides you through his favorite confidence tool. You’ll not only learn what it is, but actually get to practice using it with Dr. Aziz’s guidance. Enjoy!

Why Comparing Yourself Can Actually Be Good For You   Generally, comparisons to others can lead to feeling inadequate, frustrated, or somehow disappointed in ourselves. We are often taught to stop comparing and just live our own lives. And yet, this is quite difficult to actually do. Join Dr. Aziz and Jonathan as they discuss the nature of comparison, and how to work with it for optimal benefit.

How To Stop Beating Yourself Up For Not Being “Like Them”   So often we can criticize and pressure ourselves because we are not being confident, successful, or otherwise good enough. We look to others and imagine that they have it all together and we’re someone failing. And yet, nothing could be further from the truth. Join Dr. Aziz as he reveals what people are really feeling on a daily basis.  

How To Live Fully With Confidence And Courage   How do you handle risk in life? And would your life benefit from being able to lean in more to positive, healthy risks? Join Dr. Aziz as he examines the fundamental elements of this game of being human, and how risk is an essential quality of our lives.